he was trying to restrain her from further attacking him and damaging his property. she wasn't trying to flee. I'm completely supportive of his right to act how he did
I kind of agree with you. The dude was quite rational and reasonable, and he did not shove her until she groined him. I think the issue is that she damaged his property and he did not want to take her anywhere at that point so he was waiting for the police. Just imagine if he would have taken her someone and she accused him of attacking her, etc? I think given her condition he probably wanted to avoid that.
I think it's sad for her to have thrown all that away, but there definitely is a sense of entitlement and I'm better than you type attitude which is graspable. If a doctor has that type of attitude the smart thing to do is to at least not show it, at least not in public. Particularly given that she's a foreign grad, she should have been more careful. As a foreign grad, there's not way to recover from that.
I think for a US MD there is some redemption - I have seen a number of residents in rather hot water recover from things as US MDs who were otherwise good and were victims of poor judgment, but I don't think that she has a saving grace really. As a foreign MD, with an attitude problem, a video of assault that has been viewed I think 3 million times, I doubt that another residency program would touch her. She was close to finishing - I don't think I have ever seen a4th year Neuro opening, and if someone were to touch her with a 10 foot pole, she'd likely have to re-do a portion of her training if not change specialties altogether.
Licensing would also be an issue for her - the whole thing with professionalism is big in our profession and that's one of the "mandates" I guess for having a license. Many governing bodies may have an issue with that, especially if she has to explain how/why she was dismissed in her 4th year. And I think there are enough people in the match with perfectly decent stats and no records, especially foreign grads, that few if any program would take a chance on her.
I'm sure many of us have done stupid things but how many of us have attacked Uber drivers or anyone for that matter while drunk? I know I certainly haven't and no one that I know has. That is just outright beyond stupid. And while she was drunk, she was not that drunk to know what was going on.
It's not like she cursed out the guy and got into a screaming match with him - she destroyed his property, threw out his stuff, hit him in the face I believe and groined him. Assault is a big no no in our profession.
Honestly she also does not seem too sorry.
I think honestly a lesson for all of us - unfortunately we are always under the spotlight.