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Is there any other residents who have been terminated and could not get into other programs yet.
Should we let these people destroy us like this. it is the murder of our career, in my case for a reduculous reason..where I have invested my whole life in it..
I suggest we should get in touch and lets discuss this issue..
 
Is there any other residents who have been terminated and could not get into other programs yet.
Should we let these people destroy us like this. it is the murder of our career, in my case for a reduculous reason..where I have invested my whole life in it..
I suggest we should get in touch and lets discuss this issue..
We need to search for ways how to get back in to track.I am in a similar situation, what ever may be the reason. ANY ONE WHO GOT TERMINATED AND GOT RESIDENCY AGAIN, PLEASE SHARE YOUR SUCESS STORIES AND GIVE HOPE TO US AND WHAT TO DO TO GET BACK.WE SACRIFICED SO MUCH ALL THESE YEARS AND IT WILL BE EVALUATED IN DAYS/WEEKS AND THAT CANNOT BE THE END.
 
Please guys comeforward and share with us your success stories..thanks
 
is termination same as volunteer resignation.
 
Unfortunately I am not sure what we can do. I was forced to resign after 3 years, no warnings, no probation, no mistakes, no rudeness, just "you are not a good fit for our program, you have 5 minutes to pack up your desk"

I have been working past 2 years trying to get back to finish my residency, last year in Pathology.
 
i have been out of residency since march 2008 after 10mths. fired for a variety of ridiculous reasons. so far i have been fortunate to interview in a few programs that seem willing to take a chance with me. i wrapped myself with good physician mentors who have advised me on how to go about the process again with new strategy. the only hope now is with God for whom i thank for my life. i wish you all success. you should only look forward now with courage and conviction and take the experience as a learning tool. take care. happy holidays.
 
Don't take offense but I am sure that we all feel that the reasons for termination or forced resignation were unfair. However, how did you convince the other programs to even look at you and grant an interview. Did you mention your leaving the last program? Just curious, I have sent out some applications to PGY3 slots but nothing and when I even called some programs I was told they did not feel I was a good match for their program, no explanation, nothing.

Somehow, we need to be able to break the communications barrier, these days I think programs are so afraid of conflict adn lawsuits that they are ultra conservative. Especially if the previous PD is unwilling for whatever reason to write a letter, even if it contains thing you should work on. Again I think the issue is fear of a lawsuit. Beyond gross patient endangerment I find it hard that after medical school, USMLE exams, PhD training (in my case) 1, 2,3 years of residency we have no worth salvaging our careers.

Looking forward to seeing any advice or perspective.
 
well as in my case i mentioned in my application as required previous residency. it is important to be honest on the application even if you get only one or no interviews. if it is discovered later if you match somewhere then you lose the contract on grounds of fraud. so you have to be clear in the application, besides they would know from funding. on the interview day be yourself and be objective about why you left or was terminated which is what i did and how you have worked on yourself both clinically and personally. my pd and i are not in talking terms so i got no letters from him or any attendings i worked with. the attendings who gave me letters i met doing externships at their private clinics after i left, i had to keep myself current clinically and they knew my story so they gave powerful letters to counter what may be said from my pd. my personal statement i have been told was very powerful and moving. i leave all to God now. i wish you all the best and hopefully we all go back to what we love which is the practice of medicine.
 
Thank you all for your input.
This is very unfortunate, you do all the hard work going through all the exams, internship etc dont mention the medical school sleepless nites and finicial issues etc.
then during your residency at some point for some stupid reason someone pisses up, you will not be even aware of, and here the planing of murdering your career starts..and its very easy for them to do..
I m sure there must be way we can stop it and can fight for this extrem unjustice. Lets start somehting and find the way out..
We should not let them get away with the murder of our career..I Feel like they have murdered me, my whole family is in affliction, severly deppressed with derranged idea dont know what to do..
 
Unfortunatley what is done is done, the only thing now is to try to limint the damage that these experiences have on the rest of our lives and most importantly our families.

If you can get letters even neutral letters from your old program that is best. The next step is to determine whether or not you want to rematch (funding, explaining your past, etc) or try to convert your education and experience into another channel. Physician Assistant may be ok. I think it is too much to get into research, strictly speaking MDs are not trained in research ( I have a separate PhD which took 7 years in life sciences) and nursing would require going back to school for another 2-4 years.

Medical writing or editing is one other option. These are all thoughts. Some attendings on this forum have provided some support unfortunatly once it has happed to you all the support in the world and best wishes cannot help your career or heal the hurt. Very tough especially today when triple 99s are not matching!

We should all remember that we have more in life than residency. I know that this is really really hard to see adn the shame and embarassment and anger will proably never go away or so it seems. But we have those around us that see us for more than just residents. We are wives, husbands, fathers, mothers, daughters, sons, and friends of someone. believe me it still stings when I think of what happened to me even if I did do something to escalate it, but now 2 years later my life is going well. I am happy and I am enjoying my family and friends.

I am still trying to get back into residency to finish or even restart a specialty but now I feel more mature and my eyes are more aware of what it could be like. Sharing with you all makes me feel better since I am now aware that I am not alone, I am sure that there are residents that are not a good match for a program but it comforts me to know that I am not the only one that experienced the abuse that can occur in a "teaching environment". Sorry to say misery loves company :laugh:

Hope you all stay positive and over come this.
 
Before I joined a program I had never heard of this. Just naive I guess, I thought that highly educated, confident professionals, health care, teachers, great learning environment. I am sure there are great programs out there but from what I experienced and read there are a good number of hostile programs out there. I think the good outweigh the bad but when this happens to you, all stats are meaningless.

I am sure that the residents share some fault but the teaching environment of the programs leaves a lot to be desired. I finally realize that 1) not every doctor is a great doctor 2) just because you have a MD at a prestigious hospital does not mean that you can function as a teacher and mentor

Unfortunately only a few attendings seem willing to stand up and admit there is a problem or only a few have the power to do wo. Kudos to those that do so on this site. Wish there were more. I have seen the same in academics, especially at university. just because you are an accomplished researcher does not mean you are a good teacher.

unfortunately in medicine a toxic attending can ruin you career for life, in academics you just change courses. MD is one field were you can work for 10 years pass every exam adn get to the end and be black listed for life. Check out the use of the so called psych evaluation to permanently damage a physician's career.
 
This is really scaring me...stats is easy because it is something I can work on but I am not the most social person. Not saying that I am really awkward, but I am not the kind of person that can make a friend from a stranger in 5 minutes (partly because English is my second language and I have strong accent). It seems to be as I progress in this career path academic become less important while social aspect is becoming huge...

I also heard a while ago that some residency used to have a high drop rate? Like they only really had enough spot for 3 people so they recruited 6 and make 3 drop in the next few years? Was/Is that true?

Is there any statistics on drop rate? Like med school drop rate is like 3-4% what about residency?

It seems like until you are a physician you are always some one's bitch. And they can fk you in the ass. Physician is the only career I can think of where being fired means you wont get hired again and you wasted 10 years of your life and 200k...
 
I also heard a while ago that some residency used to have a high drop rate? Like they only really had enough spot for 3 people so they recruited 6 and make 3 drop in the next few years? Was/Is that true?

Is there any statistics on drop rate? Like med school drop rate is like 3-4% what about residency?

It seems like until you are a physician you are always some one's bitch. And they can fk you in the ass. Physician is the only career I can think of where being fired means you wont get hired again and you wasted 10 years of your life and 200k...

you're talking about the so-called "pyramid schemes". I think this used to be fairly commonplace in surgical programs years ago, like maybe the 1980's, but not so much any more. At least not where they blatantly drop that number of people after 1,2, 3 years of residency. Of course, back in the old days one could practice as a "general practitioner" and get a license after only a year or two of training...so being booted from a residency or getting dropped from that type of super competitive residency was probably not as big a deal as it is now. There are certainly surgical residencies that take extra "prelim" 1st year interns, often foreign grads (or just US grads who couldn't match categorical), and then keep few or none of them on for upper level positions - but these were never explicitly promised more than 1 year of training so it's kind of a buyer-beware type of situation.

I don't know of any stats on the percentage of people who don't make it through residency. I suspect the overall percentage is probably less than the 3-4% dropout rate for med school but I don't know for sure. I suspect the dropout or being fired rate is higher for foreign medical grads who aren't US citizens probably due to a number of factors including being stuck in worse residencies, being less prepared to practice medicine US-style and in some cases having problems with English and cultural issues (i.e. leading to poor communication with patients and/or colleagues). I also suspect the rate of dropping out or being fired is higher for internationally trained US citizen students, due to some of the Caribbean schools not training their students well, some students being academically marginal, and also likely to end up in more marginal residencies that may not be as supportive and may have high work loads with not great teaching.
 
Attrition rates for residency by specialty are fairly easy to find with a PubMed search. Surgery has always had one of the highest and hovers around 21%. This refers only to residents who leave surgery and does not specify whether they leave medicine altogether (which would be much lower I suspect).
 
One way to spin it to other programs who weren't there when you had your difficulties and have no reason to believe you were treated unfairly- is to indicate that you think the other program's decision was legitimate, at least on some level. Admit that you weren't perfect in one way or another, and while you think it was harsh to be pushed out of the program, that you've really done some inventory and see where you went wrong and how you can improve.

And, even if you think the decision is unfair, maybe try to do some inventory to figure out where things went wrong- maybe you actually did do some things wrong.

Good luck!:luck:
 
Hi all, I had unfortunate story as well, I'm IMG was doing my residency at PGY2 I was terminated for almost 2 years now. since then I'm trying to get in somewhere, however, it is kind of impossible I've been terminated for HIPAA violation and no support from the PD neither LOR. I have couple of interviews, but as soon as they know the offers are gone.

It is very easy for them to kick you out and get rid of you while it is very dramatic and touring experience for me. I'm more mature now and I learned from my mistake but the ? is CAN I GET A SECOND CHANCE?
 
Whether you have left or were terminated it is going to be tough, very tough.
One thing you should NOT do is to throw your money into paying externships to try to get back on track. Companies like AMERICLERKSHIPS are extremely dishonest and take your $30K and give very little back for no help at all in your career. So don't do it!
Actually those guys should not be allowed to rip people off.
Go and get yourself a research program or something like that.
 
there is no oversight of GME even though billions of dollars are spend each year educating future doctors of america. then, you get some racists and sexist doctors who act with impunity and step sideways to another position in residency programs so do not ever take any responsibility for their actions. this is truly disgusting and in some ways it's like the military's recent scandal on sexual harassment and abuse. the pigs just get promoted and transferred while the victim is further victimized. there are no consequences to reputation or career for the people who harass, defame, bully, and discriminate in medicine and it's often valued by the institution.
 
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One thing you should NOT do is to throw your money into paying externships to try to get back on track. Companies like AMERICLERKSHIPS are extremely dishonest and take your $30K and give very little back for no help at all in your career. So don't do it! [/QUOTE said:
I completely agree, I wasted my money on NOTHING, no LOR by prior rotation and the second rotation they just denied it for me..
 
you're talking about the so-called "pyramid schemes". I think this used to be fairly commonplace in surgical programs years ago, like maybe the 1980's, but not so much any more. At least not where they blatantly drop that number of people after 1,2, 3 years of residency. Of course, back in the old days one could practice as a "general practitioner" and get a license after only a year or two of training...so being booted from a residency or getting dropped from that type of super competitive residency was probably not as big a deal as it is now. There are certainly surgical residencies that take extra "prelim" 1st year interns, often foreign grads (or just US grads who couldn't match categorical), and then keep few or none of them on for upper level positions - but these were never explicitly promised more than 1 year of training so it's kind of a buyer-beware type of situation.

I don't know of any stats on the percentage of people who don't make it through residency. I suspect the overall percentage is probably less than the 3-4% dropout rate for med school but I don't know for sure. I suspect the dropout or being fired rate is higher for foreign medical grads who aren't US citizens probably due to a number of factors including being stuck in worse residencies, being less prepared to practice medicine US-style and in some cases having problems with English and cultural issues (i.e. leading to poor communication with patients and/or colleagues). I also suspect the rate of dropping out or being fired is higher for internationally trained US citizen students, due to some of the Caribbean schools not training their students well, some students being academically marginal, and also likely to end up in more marginal residencies that may not be as supportive and may have high work loads with not great teaching.

If you mean by cultural issues, overt racism, sexism, bullying, discrimination, refusal to provide appropriate rotations, promotion of known liars, promoting and rewarding defmation and hate agenda from white doctors, then those are cultural issues in medicine and no one should fall victim to that sort of agenda or culture. What happens to these white doctors after they screw up, they get promoted or go to another institution where the department is run by their friend. no one holds them accountable and it's impossible to do so because major institutions operate this way. this is what they believe in. no one should fall victim to this racist sexist discriminatory and retaliatory abuse of power.
 
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If you mean by cultural issues, overt racism, sexism, bullying, discrimination, refusal to provide appropriate rotations, promotion of known liars, promoting and rewarding defmation and hate agenda from white doctors, then those are cultural issues in medicine and no one should fall victim to that sort of agenda or culture. What happens to these white doctors after they screw up, they get promoted or go to another institution where the department is run by their friend. no one holds them accountable and it's impossible to do so because major institutions operate this way. this is what they believe in. no one should fall victim to this racist sexist discriminatory and retaliatory abuse of power.

<sigh>
Racism runs both ways.
 
<sigh>
Racism runs both ways.

I don't mean to offend you nor imply anything beyond my experience with a number of doctors. So I should name those 'white' doctors, right?
 
If you mean by cultural issues, overt racism, sexism, bullying, discrimination, refusal to provide appropriate rotations, promotion of known liars, promoting and rewarding defmation and hate agenda from white doctors, then those are cultural issues in medicine and no one should fall victim to that sort of agenda or culture. What happens to these white doctors after they screw up, they get promoted or go to another institution where the department is run by their friend. no one holds them accountable and it's impossible to do so because major institutions operate this way. this is what they believe in. no one should fall victim to this racist sexist discriminatory and retaliatory abuse of power.

This post sounds pretty racist and discriminatory. Do you really think white doctors are conspiring to hire non-white trainees just to fire them for fun? What would be the purpose of that?
 
This post sounds pretty racist and discriminatory. Do you really think white doctors are conspiring to hire non-white trainees just to fire them for fun? What would be the purpose of that?

Sadly, discrimination needs no purpose.

Often discrimination comes in the form of requiring higher standards from those who are not white, male, heterosexual and able-bodied, and/or imposing tougher penalties on their failings. Straight white men get away with things that others do not, or face lesser consequences when they do screw up. One of the things that makes fighting unjust disciplinary action so difficult is that none of us are perfect, so there is often a grain of truth along with a substantial dose of unfairness and discrimination.
 
Just got my new contract withdrew from another residency training. as I did not disclose my termination reason. which is HIPAA... It is hard to disclose a patient records?!
 
Your contract was withdrawn now because of not disclosing the reason for your previous termination? Didn't they ask about your termination when you interviewed at the new program? Did you lie about it or omit certain truths?
 
Just got my new contract withdrew from another residency training. as I did not disclose my termination reason. which is HIPAA... It is hard to disclose a patient records?!

Did something happen that would prevent you from practicing medicine or impaired your ability to practice medicine and could happen again? That might need to be disclosed (ie like having a psychotic break/manic episode/homocidal episode)
 
I did NOT lie, the program out of the match I told half the truth, the HIPAA half I did not disclose was scared that I'll never get this job
 
Did something happen that would prevent you from practicing medicine or impaired your ability to practice medicine and could happen again? That might need to be disclosed (ie like having a psychotic break/manic episode/homocidal episode)

NOTHING can prevent me from practicing medicine and that is clearly written by the board.
My termination story was a series of events,....... a social friend asked me for help and I directed him to the most expert senior, however, when he was admitted to the hospital I visited him and asked the RN about his admission reasons and I bought him a flowers and left the room. 45min after he claim that he does not know me and he NEVER asked for my help,
A HIPAA claim raised and the hospital decided to terminate my contract.........

WHY THE PATIENT DID THIS? He is a band manager for a cardiologist whom I worked with as a resident in the hospital..... is there a connection YES......WHY the SET ME UP?
The attending cardiologist use to harassed me and as a resident FMG..... ACCULTURATION= different cultures ect. that was my perceptions.....

It is a complicated story in which I was really depressed and lost my training for 2 years now, I'm fighting and fighting to get in somewhere.....

Any advise, recs, opinion................will help
 
That sounds like you got a bum rap. Who raised the HIPAA complaint? the patient or a nurse?

If what you are saying is true, perhaps you should talk to a lawyer to help get your career back in line.

Personally I think the whole HIPAA thing is joke. How often do we talk about someones medical condition in a semi-private room when there is nothing between the patient and the neighbor's extended family except a curtain?
 
I did NOT lie, the program out of the match I told half the truth, the HIPAA half I did not disclose was scared that I'll never get this job

Not disclosing an important piece of info is just as bad as lying. Hospitals take HIPAA very seriously, so omitting the fact that you lost a previous position because of a HIPAA violation was a pretty big misstep on your part. You're always better off just disclosing the pertinent truth from the start to avoid situations like this in the future.
 
Not disclosing an important piece of info is just as bad as lying. Hospitals take HIPAA very seriously, so omitting the fact that you lost a previous position because of a HIPAA violation was a pretty big misstep on your part. You're always better off just disclosing the pertinent truth from the start to avoid situations like this in the future.

Agree...half-truth = lie. And the medical profession does not take kindly to lying.
 
Agree with the others. You should have fully disclosed the reason for your termination. Even if the reason for your dismissal was a HIPAA violation, you could have spun your explanation in a way that suggested that you learned from your mistake and would never repeat it again. Had you been completely honest, your new program might have been willing to give you a chance.
 
Thank you so much for the precious advises, I was hesitant to disclose the HIPAA part since my termination I learned that is a HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE concern for all health Care.

I'll try be encouraged
 
I'd like to post here on behalf of my friend.She just started residency and has been terminated on 10th day without warning and no probation. Her profile is as follows:
IMG
INTERNAL MEDICINE
STEP1 238
STEP2 242
STEP3 NOT TAKEN YET
GOOD CREDENTIALS AND RESEARCH EXPERIENCE
GRADUATED 3 YEARS AGO
She has been terminated from the program with the reason that states: "behaving unprofessionally and risking patient management". As the first few days of residency are overwhelming and stressful, she was anxious and during rounds she was very nervous and therefore in order to cover herself, she lied something like, she took the vitals where she actually took but forgot the reading and therefore the attending thought she lied. similarly such situations happed 3 or 4 more time and finally she was suspended on unpaid basis on day 10th and was not allowed to come to the campus till hearing. in the hearing, the decision was made to terminate her!
Now the questions from her side are:
1. She wants to reapply this year. Is this a wise decision?
2. What she should write in the ERAS regarding her previous work?
3. What are the chances she would match this year?
4. What options she have?
Your advice will be highly appreciated!
Thank you
 
...As the first few days of residency are overwhelming and stressful, she was anxious and during rounds she was very nervous and therefore in order to cover herself, she lied something like, she took the vitals where she actually took but forgot the reading and therefore the attending thought she lied. similarly such situations happed 3 or 4 more time...

Um, you seem to be trying to play this down like it wasn't a big deal. Its huge. This is how residents kill people. If you lie and say the labs, vitals, etc are fine, people may rely on that -- it's not like med school where people double check everything you do. Then a few hours later when someone else does notice things aren't quite right it might be too late to fix things. I've seen people get in hot water for lying on rounds once, but you are describing someone who did it four or five times. So that's pretty reprehensible. If you don't know, you own it and say you don't know. You NEVER say the values are fine if you didn't check or don't remember. This is like the cardinal sin of residency. Not forgivable and not someone as an attending you can ever rely on. As far as re-applying I think your "friend" can't shrug it off as not a big deal or something understandable given how overwhelming and stressful residency is. Other residents are stressed and manage not to lie. I think you need to convey that you know it was a screw up, that you have learned from it, and that it will never happen again. But the fact that it happened 4-5 times doesn't bode well. Any new residency will want to hear the programs side of the story and from what you've described it sounds like a risk few programs would jump to take on. I honestly don't know if taking some time off helps or not.
 
is termination same as volunteer resignation.

No. I don't remember where my posts are on this, but I explain in exquisite detail.

Don't take offense but I am sure that we all feel that the reasons for termination or forced resignation were unfair.

Yes, the best thing you can ever do when any relationship sours is introspection. You take you wherever you go and you cannot control for the world or blame it as unfair. Some of it is unfair and what is done is done. Deserved or not, looking at yourself is the only way you can grow, improve, and ever expect a different outcome. I was glad to see the maturity in you acknowledging that there are always lessons to be learned from termination/resignation.

I have sent out some applications to PGY3 slots but nothing and when I even called some programs I was told they did not feel I was a good match for their program, no explanation, nothing.

While everyone is overworked and too busy, it is a shame. Medicine and its practitioners really do need feedback, even if it's to say why they don't want you. How else will you know to improve or when to quit trying and move on? Lack of feedback = for shame!

Somehow, we need to be able to break the communications barrier, these days I think programs are so afraid of conflict adn lawsuits that they are ultra conservative. Especially if the previous PD is unwilling for whatever reason to write a letter, even if it contains thing you should work on. Again I think the issue is fear of a lawsuit.

If termination/resignation wasn't such a career death sentence, there was any balance of power between resident employee/program employer, I would venture less attorney involvement. If one accounting firm wants to let me go because they hate me, fine, I don't want to work where I'm not wanted if I can just apply and get another job. Sure that example would be tough, but I know less shtty than what happens.with residents.

beyond gross patient endangerment I find it hard that after medical school, USMLE exams, PhD training (in my case) 1, 2,3 years of residency we have no worth salvaging our careers.

I'm inclined to agree. I can see the argument that having survived all that it should follow that you should not then have difficulty in residency leading to termination, you must not "have the stuff".

I think the legal system, and the GME funding system, general lack of resources are the big contributors to letting salvageable residents go.

I'd like to post here on behalf of my friend.She just started residency and has been terminated on 10th day without warning and no probation...... As the first few days of residency are overwhelming and stressful, she was anxious and during rounds she was very nervous and therefore in order to cover herself, she lied something like, she took the vitals where she actually took but forgot the reading and therefore the attending thought she lied. similarly such situations happed 3 or 4 more time and finally she was suspended on unpaid basis on day 10th and was not allowed to come to the campus till hearing. in the hearing, the decision was made to terminate her!
Thank you

There is always a due process and appeal system for terminations, that being said, certain infractions lead a resident down the fast track of termination. My favorite example is if you take a knife and stab an attending to death. They can rightly say that is not a remediable issue, and immediate danger to others will get a resident put down as fast as a dog.

So I don't know the process or details of her case, but yes a program can get rid of you that fast.

I just want to be clear on language here. It sounds like she did actually take the vitals. My question is, when she was asked did she honestly think she remembered it and spit out the wrong value? You would still be in trouble for poor recall, but having no intent to lie does make a difference. Saying "I think it was __, but I'm not sure," is still bad because they will have to decide how important trackiing that down right away is or moving on, and no one will like the poor recall, and annoyance will likely outweigh respect for your honesty, but again recall is a skill, lying is a choice and reflects on character.and professionalism in a much worse way than, "I don't remember," or "I don't remember exactly the number but I do remember it wasn't worh remembering as.it was normal." If every instance of poor recall you are truthful, and times times you say "I don't know" but it is ballpark figure or normal as you say, then trust will still.be built that you just don't remember let's say, temp number when you know patient is afebrile. Trust will be built that you know what you know, and what you don't know or is vague is being accurately represented. What you say must be true, if only to trust that YOU can keep track of yourself as far as what you know or don't know.

I just want to be clear, lie implies intent whereas if you reported something you honestly thought to be true but were wrong, that would be a dumb mistake. The first one, lie, can get you the first time. The second one, maybe more chances, but maybe not ten. At some point with a mistake, you will need to address it so it doesn't continue or that will be damning despite not being a severe flaw of character. If it were me, and I was consistently forgetting something (that would happen to me with respiratory exam findings for some reason, so I created a paper on rounds where I could literally checkbox the finding, took 0.1 sec to record in realtime bedside) than I would be expected to correct that. No matter how busy the first days of residency, you should know how to keep track of vitals in some fashion, even if not efficiently as you can improve that as you go.

The only thing that can help her is if this was not "I don't know" being covered with a lie scenario, but just a brain fart "I thought I did but I didn't." A liar telling me they won't lie is hard to trust, I may give a.second chance to someone forgetful if they identify the problem and its solution, because.while I may still have doubts on their ability to execute, I can still at least buy into their intent because they are not a liar or someone willfully misrepresenting. So maybe that's advice for your friend.
 
Tl;dr

1) DO NOT LIE
(So then what do I say?)
2) I don't know.
3) Figure out a system to reduce the number of "I don't knows" that is honest & accurate

Credentials will not make up for lying. They may get someone *honestly* clueless another chance. She will have to show maturity, introspection, taking responsibility, and something that demonstrates those things and rebuilds credibility. How? I don't know. But that is the only hope.
 
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