So let's say that i matched early for ENT, but the place was #16 out of 18 on my list. I was lead to believe i would be matched much higher by some corrupt PDs, but that's another issue. Anyway, this place is in the middle of no where, is not a strong program, and in no way would i be happy completing my residency there. I am married to another MS4 with a child and both our families are here and very supportive of us - it would be tough to leave all this, although i'm sure some people would. So yes, i mean to say that if "forced" to start my residency there, i would drop out after a month or after completing my intern year, leaving the program screwed.
Well, i am considering terminating the contract now and going for gen surg through the NRMP match since i applied and interviewed at a number of programs that i would be happy at. I wasn't even going to rank this place, but in the end put it in and figured it would never come to that. Location is a huge thing for me, and i would just not be happy for 5 years at this program - maybe my priorities are f-ed up, but each person leads their own life and has their own needs. Plus, this will give make for an opportunity for someone else to match there, for the program to have a dedicated/happy resident for 5 years, and for me to do what i need to do. I figured i'd contact the PD and tell him of my intentions - i feel that he would not want to keep a resident there who did not want to be there, especially when he could fill the spot with someone who would be happy and work hard for him.
I have spoken to my dean and he is not being very helpful. Just wondering if anyone else here has done anything like this, or knows of someone who has. A course of action would be nice.
Please, no responses saying "well you shouldn't have put places on your list that you wouldn't be willing to go to" or anything to that effect. I'm just looking for some input that someone may have on the situation. I am tired and cranky and don't need anyone pointing fingers, saying "i told you so" - that is not helpful, and i don't need to be lectured by anyone from this board.
Also, please do not ask me where i go to school, or which residency program will have an ENT position open should i decide to go through with this.
Well, i am considering terminating the contract now and going for gen surg through the NRMP match since i applied and interviewed at a number of programs that i would be happy at. I wasn't even going to rank this place, but in the end put it in and figured it would never come to that. Location is a huge thing for me, and i would just not be happy for 5 years at this program - maybe my priorities are f-ed up, but each person leads their own life and has their own needs. Plus, this will give make for an opportunity for someone else to match there, for the program to have a dedicated/happy resident for 5 years, and for me to do what i need to do. I figured i'd contact the PD and tell him of my intentions - i feel that he would not want to keep a resident there who did not want to be there, especially when he could fill the spot with someone who would be happy and work hard for him.
I have spoken to my dean and he is not being very helpful. Just wondering if anyone else here has done anything like this, or knows of someone who has. A course of action would be nice.
Please, no responses saying "well you shouldn't have put places on your list that you wouldn't be willing to go to" or anything to that effect. I'm just looking for some input that someone may have on the situation. I am tired and cranky and don't need anyone pointing fingers, saying "i told you so" - that is not helpful, and i don't need to be lectured by anyone from this board.
Also, please do not ask me where i go to school, or which residency program will have an ENT position open should i decide to go through with this.