That patient just called me 14 years old?

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Yeah, so I was volunteering today and some patient said this:

Patient:
"These days the volunteers are getting younger and younger." *speaking to Dr.*
"How old are ya son, 14? 15?"

Me:
I'm almost 21 years old ma'am. *huh... moment*

Patient:
"Oh no wonder, 14 year olds don't act THAT mature."

Me:
"kthnxbye" *avoids patient for the whole day*

uhhhhhh....
 
So you look young. Lots of people look younger than they actually in the eyes of older people. I have volunteered with people around the age of 14-15, during a summer program for high school students so it isn't totally unreasonable for a patient to think that.
 
In 20 years ask yourself how well you can tell the difference between a 15 year old and a 21 year old, they don't look that much different.

Edit: better yet, a 15 year old and an "almost" 21 year old
 
The library employee helping me check out my borrowed media (some CDs and DVDs) asked me for an ID because he didn't think the adult library card was mine. I'm 24 and quite tall, but many people think I'm several years younger than I am.
 
Heh yeah that happened to me. I started volunteering at a place in August and the lady in charge asked what grade I was in. 29 year old nontrad here
 
Sometimes when I shadow, I'll follow a 4th year into the patient's room for the initial investigation. A few times, even after the introductions, the med student asks a question and the patient responds to me. I sheepishly explain that "that kid" has like 5 more years of medical training than I do and I'm basically just an observer. 😳

I try to stand in a corner behind the patient now.
 
Sucks when you're working with women... there's not much difference between 16 and 30, and that can cause some awkward moments.
 
Heh yeah that happened to me. I started volunteering at a place in August and the lady in charge asked what grade I was in. 29 year old nontrad here

Where ya shadowing? Native Albany guy here....worked at Samaritan in troy for 5 years! Went to almost every RPI hockey game as a kid too! And SAME...28 y/o guy here and I still get asked how old I am by "old folks." No worries!
 
Where ya shadowing? Native Albany guy here....worked at Samaritan in troy for 5 years! Went to almost every RPI hockey game as a kid too! And SAME...28 y/o guy here and I still get asked how old I am by "old folks." No worries!

Haven't been there since I left in 05... I'm out in the Midwest at an engineering job now. How about yourself?
 
You're telling me... when I'm with a group of friends, I'm the only one that ever gets carded.
 
In 20 years ask yourself how well you can tell the difference between a 15 year old and a 21 year old, they don't look that much different.

Edit: better yet, a 15 year old and an "almost" 21 year old

You know, I tried that excuse, but Chris Hansen didn't buy it.
 
In 20 years ask yourself how well you can tell the difference between a 15 year old and a 21 year old, they don't look that much different.

Edit: better yet, a 15 year old and an "almost" 21 year old

true that, some examples would be those young 14-16 yr old girls if ya know what i meannnn :meanie:
 
Haven't been there since I left in 05... I'm out in the Midwest at an engineering job now. How about yourself?

Troy is actually doing fairly well...nice riverfront area...dinosaur bbq etc. I dont make it back home too often. I live in Philly moved down here in 07 for grad school and stayed for med school 🙂
 
I've frequently had patients ask me what grade I'm in while I shadow/volunteer at age 22-25. Just take it as a compliment, I guess.
 
Maybe it is because I am a fresh-faced seventeen year-old, but I am constantly told, 'You'll enjoy High School.'

GAHH! I just said Esophagogastroduodenoscopy to you. What more do you want!
 
When I did EKGs I was 18-22. I had a patient ask the doctor why there was "a child in the room." You know, that child in scrubs pushing a $10,000 machine and trying to do a diagnostic procedure on you.
 
I've had this problem a bit too. The worst is when the age conversation turns into the female nurses asking you to guess their age.
 
true that, some examples would be those young 14-16 yr old girls if ya know what i meannnn :meanie:

Boyyy you crazy.
I do look really young though.
Darn the Filipino genes than make me relatively short and not grow hair on my face!
 
When I did EKGs I was 18-22. I had a patient ask the doctor why there was "a child in the room." You know, that child in scrubs pushing a $10,000 machine and trying to do a diagnostic procedure on you.

OMG I would just drop to the floor if someone said that to me in med school 3-4.
 
I look way too old for my age. Not much facial hair either.


It's a good thing to look young; means you won't look old later on (hopefully).
 
When I was interviewing to volunteer at a hospital, the coordinator said, "So there are two different kinds of uniforms -- a red shirt that students wear and a black jacket that adults wear. You're technically a student, but I'm going to say that you should wear a black jacket because you look like you're 12 and I don't want patients to complain about a little girl working in a hospital."

I was pretty much in mortified shock for the rest of the interview. I am 18 and don't think I look 12 at all, but I guess she thought otherwise -- and found it appropriate to bluntly inform me. Hey, so it goes 🙂
 
It's a good thing to look younger. My mother is 51 and most of her patients mistake her for being in her early 30s (yes, it actually happens!) and don't believe that she has four kids, three of whom are between the ages of 18-21.

It's a combination of good genes and good health habits.
 
I'm pretty short but really only get comments/questions/stupidity about my age at airports. I have NO idea why only airports.

Anyway, when I have shadowed I've been introduced by the doctor as a "student" and I think a lot of the times patients assume I am a medical student. I've only had someone comment on my height once with the doctor in the room (and it was a friendly, joking conversation), so maybe they never commented on that because they are worried about impressing the doctor? Or are too busy talking to the doctor? I had times where I was left in the room to keep the patient company while they waited for a procedure or something but I think because of the "student" introduction we normally talked about their life or where I was in school, it never got too personal.

I had one doctor I shadowed ask me if I thought people could take me seriously because of my height which I thought was a little weird and kind-of implied that HE couldn't take me seriously because of my height. Which is dumb.

I figure if people have an issue with it they are not going to stay my patients because they won't want to come back to a child-doctor or whatever. LOL But I think I make up for my height with a confident personality and posture/expression. I think I have kind-of an intimidating neutral facial expression because I am one of those people who never gets approached by street vendors or that sort of thing. There will always be some duds (and what can you say in a professional setting? That's a hard one, it's not like in everyday life) but hopefully for all of us if we are confident and remain in control of the appointment our patients won't be telling us we look like 14 year olds left and right. haha

For girls based on my airport experiments (I fly way too much for my own good) looking professional (clothes-wise), wearing make-up, and showing some cleavage usually decreases the comments I get. Cleavage one is sad but very, very true.
 
I'm 24 years old and have worked in an ER for 5 years now as tech. My buddy (another tech) and I walk in to a patients room to finish hooking him up to the monitors...

Patient: (referring to me) "Is he old enough to be in here?"
My buddy: "Nah, but he's our grade school intern and he sure is learning a lot"
Patient: 😕
 
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I have been... cursed? with a baby face. As a guy I don't find it all that great of a thing. It's bad enough that I've gotten carded at bars before, and using my real idea that says I'm of age, had bouncers not let me in.

I work as an ECG tech right now in my year off, and someone comments daily that I look like I'm still in high school.
 
I have been... cursed? with a baby face. As a guy I don't find it all that great of a thing. It's bad enough that I've gotten carded at bars before, and using my real idea that says I'm of age, had bouncers not let me in.

I work as an ECG tech right now in my year off, and someone comments daily that I look like I'm still in high school.

then when you're 50, you'll still look like you're 30
it'll pay off in the long run.
 
I can't count the number of times that I've been mistaken for being 15-18 years old. The last time I went out to dinner with my bf (I'm 21 and he's 22), the waitress told me that there was no way that we were old enough to order wine, because I looked like I was 15. I showed her my ID and she was like oh...

I'm pretty petite, but c'mon! My only hope is that I will still look young when I'm much older.
 
Having a baby face, being short, and little to no facial hair. 👎
 
I know these feels bro. I look like I'm 16. Imagine my patients' faces when I ask for a sexual history 😀
 
I am 21 and people think I am in 30s .... fml
 
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