The LOR-Writer GRRR Thread

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MaddieMay

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Anyone else have horror stories about trying to get your most important/impressive/influential profs/advisors/etc to write letters in a timely fashion?

My first two writers whipped theirs in easy as pie, but the third was a nightmare, he was three weeks late and the schools were barking up my tree like mad. I was grateful for the personal attention from the admissions office, but dang, I haven't perfected the skill of mind control!

The prof said he'd do it, hadn't turned it in after a week. I emailed. He said he'd do it during week 2. Didn't do it. I emailed. Said he'd do it during week 3, finally at noon on Friday I emailed him again and he sent it in a couple hours later. I sighed with relief.

Week 4 admissions emails me again saying he turned in the form with no letter attached! Now I have the awkward task of asking him if he meant to do a half butt job or if his fax didn't go all the way through. Turns out he "wrote a lot of positive things" on the form, and didn't write a letter. Dude, he better have written some extremely positive things, just extremely succinctly.

I could understand if he'd seemed reluctant or delayed when I first asked, but he emailed back right away, said no problem.

Oy vey!
 
Sending hugs... my first round of LOR's was a pure pleasure. I was thrilled. After I'd narrowed down my application choices further, I even busted open the extras to read what they wrote (I know, a no no, but curiosity won out over ethics)... They were all grads of top notch schools and high frequency publishers... superstars and stuff... ok, not superstars, but they were really quality...

This second go, it's going to be troubling... My 1st adviser was forced to resign, my 2nd adviser is being forced to resign (she was director too), and I think my best bet for a good, solid letter comes from a prof I'd need to re-bond with since I've been out of school for a while...

I'm sorry about the delay... I was so surprised that my people were quick as anything with it... though I remember agonizing for weeks over just asking them... talk about awkward... especially since I wasn't applying to any PhD programs... I knew that might frost their cookies a little... but they came through...

I think you might be ok... professors know that their breed is rare... sort of aloof sometimes... so maybe they will realize that the one who... let's say.. misunderstood the directions... maybe they'll count what he wrote as enough to qualify...

best of luck.
 
yes, i've had an experience with a slow LOR writer. i think it was due to this person being counseling faculty and i was applying to clinical programs. i almost didn't get in to my program due to being one letter short. this was after i did research for this person for 2.5 years and went well out of my way on many occasions for them. ah, gotta love the application process.
 
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