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Now that the dust has settled and I've spoken with a few other people about the interview as a whole, I've changed my mind. Yes, like Aura5 said, I saw the interaction as a potential test because the behavior seemed so outrageous as to defy any other explanation. Then anxiety set in and I questioned myself (i.e. did I cause this by something I said or did). Ultimately, I think I made the mistake of assuming that the faculty and grad students of these programs reside in some other realm than the rest of us. One where getting drunk and acting stupid at a party or being arrogant and abrasive isn't possible. During the interview process, we applicants put these people on a pedestal because, for the moment, they are in a position of power over us. Books and message boards say we are judging them as well, but its us that have put our blood, sweat, and tears into being accepted. Its us that have to wait a year and a half to reapply if things don't work out. Not to say that this is a bad thing, it is what it is. In conclusion, for anyone else preparing to go through the process, remember these things: Be proud of and stand by all the work that you have done to get to this point, be yourself, and if anything questionable happens during any part of the interview process, don't assume its something you did. Handle it as best you can and don't fail to believe in yourself, even if your POI insults you to your face or if you get thrown into an unusual interview situation.
👍 <- thumbs up, not to the fact that he was rude, but to what your conclusion about it was. Yay for you! lol. Me personally, I have a tendency to over-analyze situations and then part of me realizes, wait a second, what the heck, other people are responsible for their actions too.