"The upside of rejection"

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Hi all,

Here is a story that Tina Fey posted on her twitter site...

http://bijansabet.com/post/118457673/the-upside-of-rejection

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The upside of rejection

This morning I was thinking about rejection.
On my way to the office I happened to pass by a former building owned by NYNEX.
Back in early 1991, just months before I would graduate from college, a number of my classmates were getting jobs at fancy big companies in Boston.
Others were going to wall street.
I wanted to do something in the computer industry. And I thought I would stay in Boston. My family was in NY and I liked Boston. It felt good.
So I sent my resume to a bunch of big companies.
One of them was NYNEX. It was a systems analyst job where I would develop and test in fortran. The pay was $35k/year. That was more money than I could imagine possibly needing.
I sent in my resume and they asked me to come in for an interview. My parents bought me a suit and I went in to meet the hiring manager.
Two weeks later I received my rejection letter in the mail. It was one of many.
I was crushed. What was I going to do after college? It seemed like everyone else was getting a job.
I was spending time on AOL in those days thanks to my Mac and a hayes 2400bps modem. And I found what I was looking for. ON Technology in Cambridge was a little startup at the time. They posted a job offer on AOL in the communities forum.
I went to their office and fell in love with the startup atmosphere. They had Macs on everyone’s desk. They were using CodeWarrior. They were building Mac apps (OnLocation & Meeting Maker). It was a brick and beam building and everyone was young and alive. They offered me a job for $20k/year and I happily accepted it.
Less than a year later, I went out to MacWorld San Francisco to help & learn. I fell in love with a girl and that city. I put everything I owned into my hatchback at the time, convinced my kid brother to drive across country with me. We made it to SF in 4 days.
I wonder what would have happened if NYNEX gave me that offer.
Sometimes rejection can be your best friend.
 
So true! I believe GOD has a plan for everyone. It may not seem like it at the time when your feeling at your lowest, but everything happens for a reason. Great article 👍
 
It's all about how you look at each experience. No matter what happens to you, that's the thing you always have control over!
 
If you go to that link - one of the posters put up one of my favorite quotes (I didn't know it was SJ that said it)...

You can only connect the dots going backwards. So going forward, you have to trust that the dots will connect."

You never know what the future can hold.
 
Tootoo30 is right, GOD has great plans for us all, and it is up to us to follow though with it. 🙂
 
The upside to rejection is that you learn how to take a hit.
 
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