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Like many people in this forum I am super driven to become a doctor and academia (and passion for healthcare) pretty much define me as of right now....
I fell in love with and married a man who got their GED, is addicted to WOW, doesn't care how he makes a living although would love to make money with his music (guitar player)...you get the point.
Well, my mom loves him, but she doesn't do a very good job hiding her disappointment with his lack of "career" goals. I personally don't care! Different things make different people happy, and thats what I want in life is for my friends and family to be happy. I recently said something like "when I'm making a good income as a doctor....my husband can quit his job and stay home with the kids and play music if he wants...i just want both of us to be happy...medicine makes me happy and music makes him happy, it just happens that what makes me happy pays well" Haha...she held her tongue,but I could tell she wasn't happy...but then again, she also thinks I should have dinner on the table by five, so I think shes stuck in the 50's..
So...Yea, just had to rant. Thanks for listening
I fell in love with and married a man who got their GED, is addicted to WOW, doesn't care how he makes a living although would love to make money with his music (guitar player)...you get the point.
Well, my mom loves him, but she doesn't do a very good job hiding her disappointment with his lack of "career" goals. I personally don't care! Different things make different people happy, and thats what I want in life is for my friends and family to be happy. I recently said something like "when I'm making a good income as a doctor....my husband can quit his job and stay home with the kids and play music if he wants...i just want both of us to be happy...medicine makes me happy and music makes him happy, it just happens that what makes me happy pays well" Haha...she held her tongue,but I could tell she wasn't happy...but then again, she also thinks I should have dinner on the table by five, so I think shes stuck in the 50's..
So...Yea, just had to rant. Thanks for listening