•••quote:•••Originally posted by Schoolboy:
• •••quote:•••Originally posted by johnM:
•My interviewer at MCPHU told me "I can tell you are a smart guy, but it doesn't matter how smart you are. If you want to be a doctor, you have to be a nice guy. How do I know that you are a nice guy?" So I went on explaining how nice I am to people and I was BS-ing about the service stuff that I've done, but to no avail. His retort "that doesn't prove to me that you are a nice guy." So I got a little annoyed and told him that the question was bogus to begin with, and that the only way that you can really evaluate a person's character is by seeing them in action, and that nothing I say can prove anything about what I am actually like.
I guess that didn't go over well, because it was the only post-interview rejection that I have gotten.
•••••Hmmm what you said seems reasonable to me. How they hell can you prove you're a nice guy to someone who's only met you for 30 minutes? I agree with your answer; it's a bogus question to begin with. Maybe you should ask him to prove his theory on God? hehe•••••Hmm, I have to disagree with both of you.
With difficult, subjective, or seemingly impossible questions to answer, I think the interviewer is trying to assess how well you comport yourself under pressure. You may get a patient, one day, who may get confrontational with you, and you should probably not retort aggressively, but rather be calm and collected.
So, getting annoyed and saying the question is bogus is probably not what he wanted. Any canned answer, even if the interviewer knows it's canned (in fact I would say
especially if the interviewer knows it's canned) would be better. I would have said something like "Well, let's see, I would define nice as someone who does A, B, C," and then give examples of how I did or do A, B, C.
Really try putting yourself in the interviewer's shoes. You'll see why your response may not be what he was looking for.
I've had doctors get upset at my questions. They are no longer my doctors.
This sub-thread goes with the "stress interview" threads: you should not be combative, but answer all questions, no matter how negative they may be, with the most optimistic and positive attitude.