Oooook so first thing's first: CONGRATS!! Second thing, join the fb group, I'll post the link below. Now, the housing situation is kinda iffy. I'm not sure if there are any rooms left, so you'll want to contact Cindy ASAP to find out. If you want to commute, I'd suggest looking around the immediate area. The commute from Middletown to NYC is somewhere up an hour, and that sounds like a grad student's hell. I suppose if your heart was set on NYC it's not impossible but I highly doubt you'll be able to find someone from the program who can room with you. Feel free to PM me if you have any specific questions. I move in next Sunday for the summer class so I'd be happy to help you if I can.
This is the FB group:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/717840518328235/
Feel free to post your questions there. I really hope everything works out!