First of all -- it's awesome that you're recognizing this as an unmet need and thinking about how to improve!
It's always a good idea to give patients an opportunity to provide their gender identity (separate from the sex that may be on their ID or insurance card) and their preferred pronouns. I think that's really best accomplished during intake, because it sets a respectful tone from the beginning and is important info for the receptionists, MAs, RNs, etc. who will all be interacting with the patient before they are interviewed by the doctor. Doctors are often in a good position to advocate for including that information on intake forms, in the EMR, etc. -- and should make sure to actually check it before they go in to see the patient.
Beyond that, a good assessment/interview for a trans patient is going to depend largely on context. You will ask different questions if you're seeing a patient who would like to start hormone therapy, vs. doing an initial primary-care visit with someone who is a few years into transition, vs. an ED visit for a trans patient with acute shortness of breath. A few strategies that I think are valuable in general are:
- If it's appropriate, let the patient set the priorities. "I noticed that you wrote on your intake form that you identify as transgender. Is that something you want to talk about today? / Is there anything that you want me to know about that so that I can give you the most respectful/appropriate medical care?"
- Focus on questions that are clinically relevant. With trans patients doctors are sometimes tempted to ask questions out of curiosity ("How old were you when you realized that you're trans?" "Are you considering genital surgery in the future?") -- if they're not relevant, that kind of probing can be alienating to the patient.
Thanks for the full and detailed reply!
- Explain why you're asking about trans status / transition history, if the relevance may not be obvious to the patient. e.g., "I want to ask more about your hormone use, because that can increase the risk of clots that cause leg pain like you're having."
Does that start to answer your questions?