Since none of my esteemed classmates seem to be around, I'll just throw some support toward UMDNJ-SOM.
SOM is regarded as one of the most academic of the DO schools. We have many good lecturers, quite a few fantastic ones, and very few horrible ones. I thought that the basic sciences were (mostly) well taught, and I'm also pretty well satisfied with most of my rotations so far.
The which always stands out in my mind, however, is the friendliness of the students and staff. That was one of the first things that I noticed when I came for my interview. All of the interviewees (all of whom are in my class now) came out of the interview room muttering "They're so nice... they're so nice..." It's a good place to go to school.
The only thing when KCOM might (almost certainly does) have over SOM is OMT. We have some really enthusiastic attendings who love to teach it... but unless you're really motivated, you'll probably end up just skating by like everyone else. We learn it, but we could probably stand to learn it a little better. We manage, though.
If you're in-state, there's no question. SOM all the way! Turn down in-state tuition? Are you out of your mind? 🙂
If you have any questions, let me know.
Paige