BigJake,
Don't be hard on yourself about talking tough. For me, prior to getting the CU offer, it was soothing to tell myself that UOP was the best place for me hands down, only this was superficial. Deep down I feel like CU is right for me and it doesn't boil down ENTIRELY (I used this term lightly because it does matter a great deal) to the mere fact of saving tons of money. As we have discussed, the highlights of both schools' ability to produce great clinicians cancels each other out. So, is it 3 years or less debt? Denver or San Fran? Those two questions, if answered honestly, will give me, you, and whoever the answer I suppose.
As far as the interview vs. acceptance time frame is concerned - I was in your boat also. I thought I would hear on Dec 1st because my interview went very well. I think it took 2 committee meetings so hang in there my friend.
I must note that this thread has done a lot of good for me to express and discuss my own doubts, fears, likes and dislikes about each place. So I thank all those who have read and posted.
KDBuff,
I look forward to your PM.