thanks guys. how about i make this more complicated? I'm from Portland, Oregon, but I went to school at Santa Clara University. I have lots of family here in the Bay Area, and I would love to practice here. However, here's the million dollar question. My LDR gf (3 years) is currently a medical student at UMDNJ, which is less than 90 minutes away Philly. UOP has always been my dream, but UPenn is not a bad second choice. Do you think its stupid to pick a school basing it on a relationship than your professional goals?
As for the relationship, I can see myself marrying this girl...in about 7-8 years after her residency and establishing my practice. We've always talked about going on a break after college so that we dont regret not taking one when we get married. If I move to Philly, we stay together and eventually get married if things continue to work out. If I move to SF, we go on a break. We dated each other for 3 years...first real relationship for both. In my heart, I think Uop is the right school for me, but its difficult to choose it when there's a relationship thats perfect on the other coast. I'm just afraid if I follow this route in SF, then I will pretty much lose her.
I believe in if its meant to be, it will be. Buts its definately hard to believe that when its happening to you. The balls on my court and I'm about to be called for travel...
Maybe I should talk to a shrink or put this in the relationship forum. 😕