Chuwoods: we're really good people, but EM folks have this paradoxical thing where the attention span is short and yet there are things you shouldn't re-hash all the time. So subjects change in rapid fashion.
Definitely read the sticky, do a search, and hang around. Your questions will be answered well, inasmuch as it is possible to answer them at all. But you should be advised, threads that start as unhelpful or not-new-questions quickly become threads about beers and In N' Out Burger. It's nothing personal, just a cultural thing on this board.