I know you’re right, though the idea of an escape from this hell is strongly appealing. I’ve cold messaged about 6 different staff (some psychologists, some not) who currently or formerly worked there and they were very transparent about work life and salary. The biggest plus for me career wise is that they focus on a specific disorder/group of disorders that I want to specialize in and VA does not offer treatment for in a formalized way. And they are a well known and regarded organization within that niche.
I’ll give the weekend to think about whether I want to move forward with the final interview. And probably reach out to some former mentors for their advice.