Venting because my friends don't get it

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Lol easy tiger. I understand his post is based on 40 hour work/school week hence the reason I said 60-75 hours erodes quickly. As far as humble brag I guess.... My point was for many people their life's cannot be put into nice neat little boxes. Take my schedule for example and replace 5:20-7:00am with preparing your kids for the day and taking them to daycare. Take the extra 3-4 hours I work per day and replace it with caring for a family member. Replace my 30 minute commute with someone who has an hour commute each way, or potentially has to take public transportation in a city were it's not well organized. Now potentially add on top of that taking a prerequisite and mcat studying.

At no point did I complain about having a packed schedule. Like you said it's my choice to take the job I have and I understand the trade off I make.

What's my point? Well I'd say it's pretty concisely stated at the end of my post. "Idk that 60-75 hours of free time disappears quickly. Yah I'd say some people are inefficient and/or lazy but it's not always clear cut."

Without knowing OPs situation 90% of the people in this thread chose to jump on the bandwagon of "you're lazy", "it wasn't that hard", "suck it up". When you become an attending I hope you you apply the same line of logic to the issues your patient have. It'll certainly help the situation.

The vast majority of pre-meds are not committing 67.5 hours per week to a job. It is not always clear cut. Nobody ever said that it was. But, for the vast majority of pre-meds, it is. You have a lot of 'suck cost' time. 30 minutes of wake up time, 20 minutes of shower/dressing, 60 minutes of driving, 60 minutes of prep time for the next day. That is 15 hours a week of sunk time per week. The reality for some is that they have to work either for themselves or for others. Your average pre-med doesn't have those commitments. Of all the applications that have crossed my desk, I would say that maybe 3% have had 40+ hour per week time commitments that they 'HAD' to do. ie. others were depending on them for it. Maybe 10-12% had the same commitment that they were choosing to do for whatever reason (money for lifestyle was the main thing) that they saw as as 'mandatory'.
 
Warning: I am a tad OCD...

4 minutes after my alarm goes off, I am in the elevator on the way down. I sleep in a fresh/clean set of scrubs, roll out of bed, brush my teeth, grab a yogurt/grapefruit and my lunch and walk out the door. It takes me 3-5 minutes to drive to the hospital, depending on how many lights I get stuck at, I reduced this time by increasing the distance, but decreasing the number of lights I go through. It take 2 minutes to get to where I park, if I get stuck behind a patient/family, it can take 5 minutes. If I have conference at 7am (and I don't need to see anyone before I go to it, like now while I'm on research), my alarm is set for 6:45. I am never late.

I am obsessive about what I'm eating right now (competitive endurance rock climbing), but I'm not obsessive about actually eating. I don't mind eating the same thing every day for breakfast/lunch and that makes things easier to prepare and buy in bulk.

When I became a surgical resident, I was working 80-100 hours/week between clinical duties, studying and research. I charted every 15 minutes of my life for 2 weeks and then started trying to make every last bit of it more efficient. It has worked very well. A little anal retentive, but I have so little time as it is, might as well be and get a few extra minutes free a day.
 
Lol easy tiger. I understand his post is based on 40 hour work/school week hence the reason I said 60-75 hours erodes quickly. As far as humble brag I guess.... My point was for many people their life's cannot be put into nice neat little boxes. Take my schedule for example and replace 5:20-7:00am with preparing your kids for the day and taking them to daycare. Take the extra 3-4 hours I work per day and replace it with caring for a family member. Replace my 30 minute commute with someone who has an hour commute each way, or potentially has to take public transportation in a city were it's not well organized. Now potentially add on top of that taking a prerequisite and mcat studying.

At no point did I complain about having a packed schedule. Like you said it's my choice to take the job I have and I understand the trade off I make.

What's my point? Well I'd say it's pretty concisely stated at the end of my post. "Idk that 60-75 hours of free time disappears quickly. Yah I'd say some people are inefficient and/or lazy but it's not always clear cut."

Without knowing OPs situation 90% of the people in this thread chose to jump on the bandwagon of "you're lazy", "it wasn't that hard", "suck it up". When you become an attending I hope you you apply the same line of logic to the issues your patient have. It'll certainly help the situation.
He very clearly stated that it was based on the assumption that it was a 40hr class/work week, which is by far and beyond the majority of pre-meds. It was a very specific post for the majority of people, you can always find some exceptions and he wasn't calling the exceptions lazy by any means.

You simply jumped in trying to show how "busy" and "not lazy" you are like the post was somehow directed at you and calling you and EVERY other premed as lazy, and that was simply not the case and in fact, was specifically defined to be for the average premed. Your example doesn't even relate to the post, besides the fact that it is nothing like what he was originally saying. Nothing against you, but in that regard your post just seems to be a nice humble brag about how you are able to work a ton and still do the MCAT, etc etc. and how for some reason that makes you better than the average premed.

Plus you (like myself) took the MCAT while already out of school and done with the prereq classes it sounds like. You may not have been able to dedicate full-time studying like some people seem to do, but the MCAT still is a test that is almost completely a review of all the classes you have already taken. The MCAT isn't nearly as bad as many other tests out there in that regards, and many people in this thread were bringing up that fact combined with the fact that most premeds should have an abundance of time to study for this test.
 
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Like I said, I have nothing against you and hope you don't think I'm angry or hostile against you. I can definitely see and sympathize with your point that some premeds (like yourself) actually do work really long hours and very hard, which I would assume and hope Adcom members recognize and respect. Judging by the fact that you got accepted, I'm sure your hard work while taking the MCAT as well as hard work during undergrad was noticed and liked by schools, congrats on the acceptance! You can rejoice in the fact that you won't be putting in nearly as many hours for the next couple of years haha.
 
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