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Hello to all, I am a 31 yr old married stay at home mom, just turned first year freshman. This is my first semester, and I already want to do a total withdraw from all my classes. I have already been through 2 nannies. My classes are not hard at all. I would easily ace these classes, but my attendance is just plain awful. I only go to class 3 days a week from 8 am to 11am, plus I am taking some online classes. Everytime there is a little snow, or ice my nannies would come late or not come at all, because of the weather, and they always blame traffic. They have caused me to miss about 6 classes so far, and I have about 9 weeks to go. There is a big snow storm approaching later today, and I know what to expect. My children are 4 and 1, and I just didn't want to drag them out at 6 in the morning to daycare, so I THOUGHT arranging in home care would work out, just 3 days a week and 5 hours a day. I think that maybe the nannies are not taking me seriously because it is part time work, but I do pay well, plus extra for gas. Anyway, the University has a great daycare with a waiting list a mile long. The director said I have an excellent chance of getting my children in if I go to school during the spring and summer semester. I need an honest opinion, I dont have any credits yet, and this is my first semester. I called my dream medical school and asked for an opinion. The woman who answered the phone quickly said that W's on the transcript makes their eyes flash red, and is a red flag to them. But she also said that they understand that situations come up, and as long as the W's don't become a pattern, I would be OK, and if I withdraw this semester, make sure that I dont do it anymore, and to avoid anymore W's, because they dont like them. She also said I will definitely have to give an explanation for my W's. So I'm asking you what you would do? Would you total withdraw and start again next semester with a clean slate or would you risk a potential low grade point? All of my professors deduct from your final grade after 3 absenses, and one bluntly states in her syllabus to drop after 3 absences. Thanks