Yes, it’s a complicated situation and something I know I’ll need to be ready to talk about. My dad and I aren’t super close, but growing up I saw him occasionally, including holidays. He wasn’t a financial support system, but I still heard about his life and his time at the school. We did have a personal relationship, but that’s separate from the reality of our financial situation.
Another commenter mentioned that a parental graduate degree (my mom has a master’s) disqualifies me from “low SES” in AMCAS, so I may not select it. That’s tricky for me because my life was still strongly shaped by these experiences, and combined with being from a very rural area, I faced challenges many peers didn’t. I might just share that in essays rather than the checkbox, since I don’t want to claim anything technically inaccurate. I’ll admit I may have misunderstood the SES definition, it’s surprising to me that a degree can outweigh significant financial hardship and complex family dynamics.