What are your destressing mechanisms?

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When spirits are low, secondary invites are compounding in your gmail inboxes, and SDNers are posting their "44S, what are my chances threads?", what do you do to get your mind off of applications?

I like to have dance parties for one in my room to the BEP. lol. 😀
 
When spirits are low, secondary invites are compounding in your gmail inboxes, and SDNers are posting their "44S, what are my chances threads?", what do you do to get your mind off of applications?

I like to have dance parties for one in my room to the BEP. lol. 😀

Looove to dance too! I also go for walks/work out, go to an art museum, or paint. 😛
 
golf and playing the guitar. you should try it. Well actually maybe not. If it is your first time to try these you will get very very frustrated.
 
golf and playing the guitar. you should try it. Well actually maybe not. If it is your first time to try these you will get very very frustrated.

Hmmm I don't know that golfing is my cup of tea. I used to really like playing the drums, but when I broke up with the ex, there went the drum set. I've been wanting to buy one, but they sure are pricey!
 
Well then go for a jog. It's a pretty good remedy if you do not like anything else.
 
Oh, I do jog. Usually 5 miles or so in the mornings. Sometimes more depending on the time and motivation. I was interested to see if people had any quirky things that they did to get away from the app process.
 
Try smiling, studies have shown that the simple act of smileing can actually release endorphins and pleasure neurotransmiters that improve mood.

Also, laughing is a great release. Try this, in a very stressful situation break into a really wide grin, like crazy wide. Think about how silly you look to everyone else, then think about how inappropriate it is to be grinning so much when you have such serious problems.

This will initiate a giggle loop, (where the inappropriatness of your laugh makes you want to laugh harder, and the thought of how inappropriate each larger laugh causes you to eventually explode with laughter)

Once you are laughing you can sustain it for a long time by varying the pitch and style of your laugh.

For example, varying "he he he" and "ho ho ho" together sound so stupid it can't help but make you laugh all the more.

With such a cornocopia of possible laugh styles you can really explore the richness that is laughter and frivolity, and remember that the more stupid a laugh sounds, the funnier it is, thus causing more laughter.

AND because of mirror neurons, laughter is contagious.
Once, in a library, when me and 3 friends were supposed to be working on a project, I started laughing because it suddenly popped into my head how inappropriate it would be to laugh out loud at this moment. (giggle loop) That thought made me snort and laugh quietly which caused my friends to do the same.

This resulted in a chain reaction that ended with all 4 of us roaring with laughter, over the simple fact that the other 3 were laughing.

We were kicked out of the libary because we couldn't stop laughing. The more the librarian screamed at us the more we laughed!

By the time we stopped we all felt very relaxed and happy.

So give that a try sometime, smiling and laughter.
 
When spirits are low, secondary invites are compounding in your gmail inboxes, and SDNers are posting their "44S, what are my chances threads?", what do you do to get your mind off of applications?

I like to have dance parties for one in my room to the BEP. lol. 😀

hit the gym harrrrrrrrrrrd!
 
Fencing!...nothing like stabbing someone to get that aggression out!
 
I seriously need some really good ways to relieve stress.

I used to go for a drive but gas price has increased a lot.

I started drinking beer and watching some comedy shows. It worked but not for long.

Going down to beaches with friends and having a good laugh.. yeah.. works but just for that moment.

Gym.. yeah.. same.. as soon as I get home and sit down in front of my computer the stress that is as insurmountable as humanly possible to conceive comes again...

One acceptance would be the ultimate stress reliever :scared:
 
I do my work, and, eventually, I get a little less busy. Most of the suggestions in this thread are pretty good, but I am curious...why has no one listed whiskey, beer, or some combination of whiskey and beer?
 
Cook, read, train for the Ironman

Oooh, so jealous that you are in as good a shape to even consider the Ironman. I am looking to run a half marathon this year and then hopefully a marathon sometime later, but couldn't imagine doing the Ironman. I would love to do a triathlon in the future. I used to swim in high school and have pretty good endurance when it comes to the pool. Biking, however, would be an issue for me.

Also, now that you've piqued my interest, what do you like to cook? Are you a male or female. Props to you either way, but if you are a male, even bigger props!
 
Oooh, so jealous that you are in as good a shape to even consider the Ironman. I am looking to run a half marathon this year and then hopefully a marathon sometime later, but couldn't imagine doing the Ironman. I would love to do a triathlon in the future. I used to swim in high school and have pretty good endurance when it comes to the pool. Biking, however, would be an issue for me.

Also, now that you've piqued my interest, what do you like to cook? Are you a male or female. Props to you either way, but if you are a male, even bigger props!

I'm a male. Yea I just started learning to cook, I'm a non-trad and figure I could spend some time doing something useful since I'm unemployed. I use a lot of turkey, fish, pork, fresh vegetables, mix grained rice, cheese. Its a great thing to learn cuz it saves money, time, helps me watch my diet, and its actually stress relieving. I'm sure it'll come in handy during med school too. Anyway good luck with the training, you should grab a road bike and consider some mini/sprint triathlons. I used to be a pure runner, after my first triathlon I was hooked.
 
EtOH

Allows me to be an idiot for an evening, and the next day it's back to work.
 
Destressing Mechanisms:

- Splash cold water on the back and side of the head (occipital and temporal area) and see the magic happen.

- Gym (mostly cardio stuff)

- Sex or one-hand service 😉
 
Heh. In First Aid, they talk about what you should do the night before the test, and they get right up to the doorstep, implying sex, but they won't say it. It's something like, "Do whatever it takes to ensure a good night's sleep, excercise... massage..." you know...
 
I prefer to hang out with the guys at the basement of our local bar and just jerk around. Don't ask about the black eye.

And yes, that is my blood... or part of it
 
Veg out with a good movie or play tons of video games 😀
 
I prefer to hang out with the guys at the basement of our local bar and just jerk around. Don't ask about the black eye.

And yes, that is my blood... or part of it

Wow, sounds kinda kinky.
 
Play some Mahler or Liszt or Tschaikowsky orchestral stuff. Really loud. With tuba. 👍
 
OH fo sho dude. DMB is my favorite band. I am listening to When the World Ends right now... I am crazy but I even have a fire dancer tattoo.
word, i have a firedancer sticker
 
i go to the gym and have expectations in lifting/cardio that keeps me occupied. plus im into music so thats like stoning 2
 
Try smiling, studies have shown that the simple act of smileing can actually release endorphins and pleasure neurotransmiters that improve mood.

Also, laughing is a great release. Try this, in a very stressful situation break into a really wide grin, like crazy wide. Think about how silly you look to everyone else, then think about how inappropriate it is to be grinning so much when you have such serious problems.

This will initiate a giggle loop, (where the inappropriatness of your laugh makes you want to laugh harder, and the thought of how inappropriate each larger laugh causes you to eventually explode with laughter)

Once you are laughing you can sustain it for a long time by varying the pitch and style of your laugh.

For example, varying "he he he" and "ho ho ho" together sound so stupid it can't help but make you laugh all the more.

With such a cornocopia of possible laugh styles you can really explore the richness that is laughter and frivolity, and remember that the more stupid a laugh sounds, the funnier it is, thus causing more laughter.

AND because of mirror neurons, laughter is contagious.
Once, in a library, when me and 3 friends were supposed to be working on a project, I started laughing because it suddenly popped into my head how inappropriate it would be to laugh out loud at this moment. (giggle loop) That thought made me snort and laugh quietly which caused my friends to do the same.

This resulted in a chain reaction that ended with all 4 of us roaring with laughter, over the simple fact that the other 3 were laughing.

We were kicked out of the libary because we couldn't stop laughing. The more the librarian screamed at us the more we laughed!

By the time we stopped we all felt very relaxed and happy.

So give that a try sometime, smiling and laughter.

So you suggest MDMA, then?
 
Just kicking it back, drinking beer, and watching NFL games with buddies is a great way to destress, IMO.
 
Heavy weightlifting and buying expensive things
 
i like coloring books...think it's the smell of crayons that reminds me of being little and not responsible for anything.

In the big-girl world, I like walking, jogging if I'm super stressed, and dancing. And baking, though really only out of a box (but the finished product always smells so good!).
 
FYI, for those talking about ironman, I am in Lake Placid on vaca getting ready to watch the US Ironman tomorrow, going to spend most of the time watching the cycling.

Summer and spring: Making a perfect cast and watching a fly drift down stream perfectly drag free drift. Or coasting down a hill in a deep tuck still recuperating from the climb.

Fall and winter: All by myself in the marsh, waiting to put 1 and 1/4 oz of #2 steel down a duck's bill. That is my happy place.

All four seasons: Doing my best the night before to make sure I have a raging headache the next day.
 
Biking and frisbigolfing. Haven't done much frisbigolfing this summer, so I bike more. Not a big fan of running, I can't even run a 5k anymore.
 
Pumping Iron + Sex = Harmony
 
Usually my husband is awesome at listening to my ranting and distracting me. ^.^ Going out with friends always helps too.
 
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