So, I'm thinking of doing second looks at my top 3 or so... Partially because I want to see what they are 'really' like, and partially because you never know if they might bump me up that list of theirs...
Anyway, a few questions for the people who have been there, done that.
Well im feeling generous maybe I can help.
- What do I wear? Does it differ if I will be in the OR all day vs an academic day?
Not at all. Some may think that this is a stupid question. They would say..."do you think you're gonna lounge around in scrubs all day when everyone else is in a suite and tie? *****." But not me, that would probably be a TOS violation and I allready have plenty of those. Furthemore, I realize that appropriate attire may be confusing for some people...not many at this stage of the game, but some. Most people would suggest showing up in a shirt and tie since it's easy to change into scrubs if needed. But thats bull ****, you need to set an early precedent and let these people know you plan on wearing scrubs 24/7 and they can kiss your ass if they don't like it.
- What is expected of me?
First off, they will expect you to ask the tough questions. You're interested? Show them you're interested by getting the REAL deal on how things go down in the hospital. Here's some questions to get you on your way:
After a presentation you can ask:
"so is it common that everyone gets to take a little nap like that in the middle of the day?"
At M&M you can say something like:
"Wow, I've never seen a case with that many mistakes before...what great learning opportunities. Do attendings always let you fumble around like that or was he clueless too?"
In the OR you can demonstrate knowledge and gain insight with a question like:
"I've seen a Lot of these procedures done in less than an hour, does everyone at this institution opperate at this rate? It must be so easy to learn when the case goes so slow"
- What is the general breakdown of the day?
9am: breakfast, alone if need be. They have patients to see? f*ck them, breakfast is the most important meal of the day
10am: rounds, let them know you can do rounds at 10. They should be trying to impress YOU on a second look right?
11am: first case of the day, at least, the first one you're gonna go to.
11:30am: Tell them you're gonna go see if something more intersting is going on
11:55am: back into the same OR...let them know thier aint **** going on. Ask them if thier done yet. No? Let them know you'll be in the caf. Ask if they want an IceCream bar. No? thier loss.
12:00 noon: Flirt with the hot guy/girl in the cafeteria
12:30 pm: nap
2pm: Try to find the program director
2:15pm: tell the program director the day could have been a lot more organized.
3pm: surf the internet in the residents lounge. Two Girls One Cup? Thats freaking priceless man..show the first female resident you can find. Funny internet videos build shared experiences and create inside jokes you can bond over.
4pm: leave
Any other info/advice would be awesome...
Thanks everyone
Whatever you do don't just show up in a suite and tie and go with the flow. You gotta over think this man. Work yourself into a frenzy and collect random advice online...thats how future surgeons prep for an awsome second look.
You're welcome.