I'm suddenly recalling and pondering about an incident that occurred when I was shadowing. I don't want to say much in order to respect the privacy of those involved, but basically a med student got berated for a condescending email that was sent to a resident.
How serious is it to respect the hierarchy? Anyone willing to share any stories? I just want to learn more about this to get a better idea of what my career will look like.
Yes. But the way he was told was metaphorically a colonoscopy. The reason I made this post was just cause I wanted to start a discussion and see if anyone has any stories so that the rest of us could learn from it.
Sorry about this thread being kinda vague 🙁
When you’re a med student it’s all positivity, all the time. There are 2 Acceptable answers to every question:
1) yes!!!!! *insert excessive enthusiasm*
2) I’m sorry but I’ll look it up/find someone who can help and get back to you ASAP.
Being anything less will earn you a bad eval. Being openly condescending or disrespectful to a superior?
That will end one of 2 ways:
1) as you saw...you will experience a trans-oral total colectomy without anesthesia.
2) you will be coldly ignored for the rest of the rotation. Consider yourself lucky.
If you want a story...when I was on IM, my partner M3 and I were sent to the ICU to check on our patient who’s just been transferred there.
We get to the ICU, find the patient, and see a young looking woman in scrubs doing a dressing change on our guy. My partner starts to chat up the woman, first about the patient then just making some (pretty awkward) small talk.
Then he says the magic words:
“I know were not supposed to ask nurses out, but I’d love to take you for coffee some time”
The woman snaps up and looks at this kid like he’d just uttered a racial slur. In so many words she informs him that she is the ICU attending and that he may want to re-consider many of his life decisions. But it gets better. She wasn’t just any ICU attending.
She was our attendings fiancé. He’d thought it would be funny to send the med students to bother her with a bunch of inane questions.
Our attending stayed professional and never said a word, but the student recieved quite a talking to from the higher ups.