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I've seen my share of volunteer threads, showing both sides since my time lurking and being member on SDN. Typically, when you have someone that hates pre-med volunteering, the members for it will always suggest that they volunteer at a free clinic or place that interests them.
But, what if the pre-med has absolutely no desire to volunteer? 😕
This question never gets asked. Apparently, it is considered crime when a pre-med does something they want to in their free time. Pre-meds are definitely held to a double-standard. If they say they do not want to volunteer, then they will get lots of flak. Often you see SDNers asking if they can take time off, and then are told to do "productive" things. Clearly, having fun doing things you want to do is just not right, and can only hurt you in long run.
With all the **** pre-meds get on here for not wanting to volunteer, have you ever thought about your family and friends that have never volunteered before? Do you judge them or think they are bad people? Would they all make horrible doctors? I thought volunteering was supposed to be something that someone wants to do WILLINGLY. Why should it hurt them if they decide not to do it?
There is nothing more frustrating than seeing threads with people asking if they have enough volunteer hours or if they should still apply this year given a late volunteer start date? All of a sudden, SDN members say that this will give a bad impression to ADCOMs. SERIOUSLY? WHEN DOES DOING A "GOOD" THING HURT YOU?
Am I the only one who thinks this is $%&*#$ up? Does it not bother you that a "good deed" can work in so many ways to either hurt or help you? Since when should "volunteering" be forced? Is it so bad if you want some time to yourself working so hard to be a doctor? 👎
But, what if the pre-med has absolutely no desire to volunteer? 😕
This question never gets asked. Apparently, it is considered crime when a pre-med does something they want to in their free time. Pre-meds are definitely held to a double-standard. If they say they do not want to volunteer, then they will get lots of flak. Often you see SDNers asking if they can take time off, and then are told to do "productive" things. Clearly, having fun doing things you want to do is just not right, and can only hurt you in long run.
With all the **** pre-meds get on here for not wanting to volunteer, have you ever thought about your family and friends that have never volunteered before? Do you judge them or think they are bad people? Would they all make horrible doctors? I thought volunteering was supposed to be something that someone wants to do WILLINGLY. Why should it hurt them if they decide not to do it?
There is nothing more frustrating than seeing threads with people asking if they have enough volunteer hours or if they should still apply this year given a late volunteer start date? All of a sudden, SDN members say that this will give a bad impression to ADCOMs. SERIOUSLY? WHEN DOES DOING A "GOOD" THING HURT YOU?
Am I the only one who thinks this is $%&*#$ up? Does it not bother you that a "good deed" can work in so many ways to either hurt or help you? Since when should "volunteering" be forced? Is it so bad if you want some time to yourself working so hard to be a doctor? 👎