Episomes is any genetic material that can be uptaken naturally by the plasmid, such as genetic materials from viruses. Viruses are able to integrate their genetic material with plasmids to cause a variety of consequences (as shown in lysogenic and lytic cycles).
are you sure it is something taken up BY the plasmid? Because in detroyer and in another book they say when a plasmid becomes incorporated INTO the chromose.
Recombinant DNA is more controlled and doesn't exist naturally. It's basically genetic manipulation. An example is using restriction enzymes to cut a certain piece of DNA and inserting it into plasmid vectors. Usually we would combine genetic sequences that normally don't exist together.