Khenon said:
Okay, I admit it . . . I'm kinda freaked about my time away from family, and just having general down-time. I'm also one of those people that NEEDS 8+ hrs of sleep a night. Rotations are going to be serious hell for me . . . I don't even want to talk about internship/residency.
What worries me the most about medical school is the financial aspect. 240K in debt is no small number and I worry what it will do to my ability to get home loans in the future. With my family, my daughter deserves a yard to play in and I want to provide it as soon as possible. Of course, I could go to the bank and get this question answered, and I know there are high risk lenders, though, I don't consider myself a high risk because I don't have any delinquent bills or credit cards.
Yeah, the time away from family concerns me too, my daughter will say her first word and I'll be taking a biochem exam or something. But what you have to do is make the time you do have with your family count. My wife is really supportive and that helps too. Because of the time, competitiveness, and energy required, medicine is kinda a selfish endeavor when it involves a family because you gotta move your family to the school, live in small apartments, and then off to residency, so when your spouse wants to do something or has an idea, listen and then act on it. They are making a tremendous sacrifice for us. It's important we sacrifice for them too.
Also, how competitive do you want to be in school? For me I'd rather get in the high 70's low 80's in my classes and have time to workout, then study all the time to get in the upper 90's, be out of shape and miserable because all I do is study. I think that also will affect your sleep schedule and time with or without family. Are you the "gunner" type that will study all the time or do you want more balance? I'm not saying slack off and barely pass because you will be accountable for the material around boards time but you'll be a lot happier having that down time you mentioned.
Finally, try not to worry about boards, rotations, or residency, we're just starting. I'm only thinking about the first year classes. Sure, I'd be lying if I said I didn't research and read about where to do rotations or residencies but that is on the back burner. None of it matters if I can't pass these classes we are about to start.
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