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My dog passed away two nights ago and I feel that my vet took advantage of the situation.
Anyways, it started Sunday morning when I noticed my dog has less energy than usual. I was able to take him for a walk that morning but he wasn't moving around like he normally does. He did eat a little bit less, but I thought nothing of it. He did his business as usual during the walk. Come Monday, his energy dropped again but he was still able to move around and was still eating. Again, I thought it was just something that he would get over so I left for work. I came back that night and I go outside he isn't moving at all. He's lying on his bed barely moving. He doesn't touch food I give him, but he is responsive to me. Now, I'm a little distraught and decide to bring him to the vet.
I brought him on his bed to the vet a couple miles away and they have me fill out some paperwork. They do an examination on him while I'm outside in the waiting room. The assistant brings me to a room to meet with the vet. Vet basically says he is in poor condition and they need to run some tests on him.
I haven't seen my dog since I brought him in and the vet doesn't know whats going on with him other than he has stomach pain. Gives me a page full of tests: x-ray, ultrasound, cbc, chemistry, urinalysis which totaled to around $600. I'm reluctant to do all these tests and I'm thinking of just doing 1 at a time. Also, I can't throw down half a grand right now for all these tests so I ask her which one I should do for the that would cover most of the bases. Says I should do the x-ray, but it's best if I agree to all the other diagnostic tests as well. Now my judgement is clouded and I'm upset that my dog is so sick so I just tell her to do the x-ray then without thinking about what the costs would be for treatment. I mean wasn't even able to throw down the full $600 for all the tests.
20 minutes later she comes back to inform me the xrays didn't tell her squat and NOW tells me my dog isn't going to make it through the night and that he is twitching and becoming unresponsive. Says he's anemic when she turns him on his back his gums turn white and that there is possible a tumor. I ask her he is in pain and she says no. I tell her I want to bring him home and let him pass away there. She refuses and tells me its in-humane to do that. Asks if I would want him to be twitching and gasping his last breaths before he dies. Finally takes me to see him and his condition is horrible and convinces me to euthanize him. I say okay and ask her to give me some time with him. I'm just thinking f-ck this guy has been my buddy for more than a decade and grieving.10 minutes later he gives out.
After some time, its time for payment. Now, I can't help but feel cynical in that they withheld information from me and I tell the assistant I'm not going to pay for the x-ray. The assistant brings back to vet. Vet goes on a rant about how there's no way for her to know anything and that because she is in medicine she would never try and cheat people. Well I believed her and ended up paying for a damn useless diagnostic test.
So I ask you pre-vets, what would you do in this situation? If you were the vet, what would you tell me? Someone who is distraught isn't going to be thinking rationally which I wasn't. Would you just tell them to do these tests without informing them of what the next step would be after these tests? She knew I was short on money. Would you convince someone to run these tests knowing that treatment would probably cost thousands of dollars? Was information withheld from me so that I would order these fruitless tests?
Was it right of her to tell me euthanize my pet and that taking him home was inhumane? Should I have taken him to vet on when I first started noticing these symptoms?
From a few posts down "The situation has already passed and I'm not looking for medical advice per say. I'm curious in how pre-vets/vets think and come up with their reasonings and your responses to a dilemma such as this. I come from the pre-medical forum and we typically see ethical scenarios pop up everyday so its intriguing to me to read constructive posts about these scenarios. In medicine, the focus is always on the patient and care comes first, but I'm not sure how it is with veterinary medicine. How do you balance the situation of the owner and welfare of the animal?"
"As I said earlier, I had no intention of demeaning the profession at all. I just feel that the vet could have explained things more clearly to me which she was not. I'm not judging the field, I'm just judging ONE vet based on that visit. "
TL;DR- I lost my pet. Vet didn't explain situation clearly to someone who isn't thinking straight with their dog's life on the line. Convinces me to euthanize pet instead of taking him home. Pet dies before euthanization. Gets a couple hundred dollars from me for a useless test...
Anyways, it started Sunday morning when I noticed my dog has less energy than usual. I was able to take him for a walk that morning but he wasn't moving around like he normally does. He did eat a little bit less, but I thought nothing of it. He did his business as usual during the walk. Come Monday, his energy dropped again but he was still able to move around and was still eating. Again, I thought it was just something that he would get over so I left for work. I came back that night and I go outside he isn't moving at all. He's lying on his bed barely moving. He doesn't touch food I give him, but he is responsive to me. Now, I'm a little distraught and decide to bring him to the vet.
I brought him on his bed to the vet a couple miles away and they have me fill out some paperwork. They do an examination on him while I'm outside in the waiting room. The assistant brings me to a room to meet with the vet. Vet basically says he is in poor condition and they need to run some tests on him.
I haven't seen my dog since I brought him in and the vet doesn't know whats going on with him other than he has stomach pain. Gives me a page full of tests: x-ray, ultrasound, cbc, chemistry, urinalysis which totaled to around $600. I'm reluctant to do all these tests and I'm thinking of just doing 1 at a time. Also, I can't throw down half a grand right now for all these tests so I ask her which one I should do for the that would cover most of the bases. Says I should do the x-ray, but it's best if I agree to all the other diagnostic tests as well. Now my judgement is clouded and I'm upset that my dog is so sick so I just tell her to do the x-ray then without thinking about what the costs would be for treatment. I mean wasn't even able to throw down the full $600 for all the tests.
20 minutes later she comes back to inform me the xrays didn't tell her squat and NOW tells me my dog isn't going to make it through the night and that he is twitching and becoming unresponsive. Says he's anemic when she turns him on his back his gums turn white and that there is possible a tumor. I ask her he is in pain and she says no. I tell her I want to bring him home and let him pass away there. She refuses and tells me its in-humane to do that. Asks if I would want him to be twitching and gasping his last breaths before he dies. Finally takes me to see him and his condition is horrible and convinces me to euthanize him. I say okay and ask her to give me some time with him. I'm just thinking f-ck this guy has been my buddy for more than a decade and grieving.10 minutes later he gives out.
After some time, its time for payment. Now, I can't help but feel cynical in that they withheld information from me and I tell the assistant I'm not going to pay for the x-ray. The assistant brings back to vet. Vet goes on a rant about how there's no way for her to know anything and that because she is in medicine she would never try and cheat people. Well I believed her and ended up paying for a damn useless diagnostic test.
So I ask you pre-vets, what would you do in this situation? If you were the vet, what would you tell me? Someone who is distraught isn't going to be thinking rationally which I wasn't. Would you just tell them to do these tests without informing them of what the next step would be after these tests? She knew I was short on money. Would you convince someone to run these tests knowing that treatment would probably cost thousands of dollars? Was information withheld from me so that I would order these fruitless tests?
Was it right of her to tell me euthanize my pet and that taking him home was inhumane? Should I have taken him to vet on when I first started noticing these symptoms?
From a few posts down "The situation has already passed and I'm not looking for medical advice per say. I'm curious in how pre-vets/vets think and come up with their reasonings and your responses to a dilemma such as this. I come from the pre-medical forum and we typically see ethical scenarios pop up everyday so its intriguing to me to read constructive posts about these scenarios. In medicine, the focus is always on the patient and care comes first, but I'm not sure how it is with veterinary medicine. How do you balance the situation of the owner and welfare of the animal?"
"As I said earlier, I had no intention of demeaning the profession at all. I just feel that the vet could have explained things more clearly to me which she was not. I'm not judging the field, I'm just judging ONE vet based on that visit. "
TL;DR- I lost my pet. Vet didn't explain situation clearly to someone who isn't thinking straight with their dog's life on the line. Convinces me to euthanize pet instead of taking him home. Pet dies before euthanization. Gets a couple hundred dollars from me for a useless test...
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