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Hi all,
This is obviously a very sensitive issue, but I will try to be concise. I am aware of an ex-friend who has sexually assaulted several (at least 3, but I would estimate a total of 7) people who were unconscious around him over the years. It began in high school; he is ashamed and has tried to change his ways in the past but is apparently unable to do so. He is beginning the process of applying to medical school, and I am deeply concerned for any patients who will ever be unconscious around him. None of his victims have wanted to purse Title IX investigations or criminal charges, so there is no existing paper trail that I am aware of.
I have grave reservations about his candidacy and want medical schools to be aware of this long-running issue of his in some way before they admit him. The only way to do that appears to have an IA on his record. I've never had any disciplinary issues and am frankly going through a crash course learning about this stuff. I don't really care about getting him suspended or expelled from undergrad, but how far must a Title IX investigation proceed before an applicant would have to inform medical schools about it? I know a number of people who I miiiiiight be able to talk into providing an official testimony saying he assaulted them, but everybody kind of wants to not deal with this and pretend the guy doesn't exist so I'm really looking for the minimum amount of testimony needed for an IA. Would getting a 'probation' outcome rather than a suspension/expulsion be something an applicant would need to disclose?
Moreover, is my assumption correct that a whiff of sexual misconduct related discipline on an application would pretty much kill his chances? He is extremely charming (aren't they all?) and I'm sure he could come up with some weird creative story to explain away almost anything, especially if his life dream of becoming a doctor is on the line.
This is obviously a very sensitive issue, but I will try to be concise. I am aware of an ex-friend who has sexually assaulted several (at least 3, but I would estimate a total of 7) people who were unconscious around him over the years. It began in high school; he is ashamed and has tried to change his ways in the past but is apparently unable to do so. He is beginning the process of applying to medical school, and I am deeply concerned for any patients who will ever be unconscious around him. None of his victims have wanted to purse Title IX investigations or criminal charges, so there is no existing paper trail that I am aware of.
I have grave reservations about his candidacy and want medical schools to be aware of this long-running issue of his in some way before they admit him. The only way to do that appears to have an IA on his record. I've never had any disciplinary issues and am frankly going through a crash course learning about this stuff. I don't really care about getting him suspended or expelled from undergrad, but how far must a Title IX investigation proceed before an applicant would have to inform medical schools about it? I know a number of people who I miiiiiight be able to talk into providing an official testimony saying he assaulted them, but everybody kind of wants to not deal with this and pretend the guy doesn't exist so I'm really looking for the minimum amount of testimony needed for an IA. Would getting a 'probation' outcome rather than a suspension/expulsion be something an applicant would need to disclose?
Moreover, is my assumption correct that a whiff of sexual misconduct related discipline on an application would pretty much kill his chances? He is extremely charming (aren't they all?) and I'm sure he could come up with some weird creative story to explain away almost anything, especially if his life dream of becoming a doctor is on the line.