When you notice someone needs help?

[Gauss44]

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What is the best thing I can do in this situation?

I've noticed that one of my teaching assistants, who has been around for years, has gained a lot of weight (to the point where it looks life threatening - not to be mean, but to be clear - more than I've seen anyone gain over any summer), and he's been in a very bad mood consistently for well over a month which is out of character (apologizing for outbursts), and I noticed that he works long hours all year round with no breaks (maybe he feels like he cannot take a break to take care of himself).

This is terrific person I speak of. I would like to make things better and not worse.

 

[fourandtwo]

What do you think happened? Maybe you can have a heart to heart chat with him? Approach him in a friendly way, unassuming, and let him spill the beans.

 

[Lannister]

I'd say something like, "Hey, I've noticed that you seem to be going through a difficult time right now. If you ever want to talk, I'm here." Not everyone likes talking about their personal problems, so don't try to force a conversation about it.
Nice of you to want to help!

 

[Lawpy]

What is the best thing I can do in this situation?

I've noticed that one of my teaching assistants, who has been around for years, has gained a lot of weight (to the point where it looks life threatening - not to be mean, but to be clear - more than I've seen anyone gain over any summer), and he's been in a very bad mood consistently for well over a month which is out of character (apologizing for outbursts), and I noticed that he works long hours all year round with no breaks (maybe he feels like he cannot take a break to take care of himself).

This is terrific person I speak of. I would like to make things better and not worse.

@Goro would think this is a good interview question to ask

 

[Goro]

@Goro would think this is a good interview question to ask

Yup.