At my school it was 4 classes at 3 credit hrs each (called Calculus/Analytic Geometry I-IV). Probably at others it is 3 classes at 4 credit hours, or some other permutation giving @ 12-14 hrs total.
I always saw diff eq as something quite different than "calculus" even though it used calculus principles to solve the equations. I definitely wouldn't consider it just an extension of multivariable calculus (e.g. Calc 4 for you). In fact at my school, I took my Calc 4 (your Calc 3) the same semester as I took diff eq (which was called engineering math but it was just diff eq).
Then because I'm a glutton for punishment, I took a course in partial differential equations which was probably the hardest class I have ever taken. Seriously, deriving and solving the freaking Schrodinger wave equation for quantum physics!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schr%C3%B6dinger_equation
we have Calculus & Analytic Geometry I-IV... 5 credit hours each (quarter school). DiffyQ is a separate 5 hour course.
calc I - Limits, continuity, derivatives, Mean Value Theorem, extrema, curve sketching, related rates, differentiation of the trig, log, and exp functions.
calc II - Integrals, area, fundamental theorems of calculus, logarithmic and exponential functions, trigonometric and inverse trigonometric functions, methods of integration, applications of integration, polar coordinates.
calc III - Indeterminate forms, Taylor's formula, improper integrals, infinite series, parametric curves, and vectors in the plane; vectors, curves, and surfaces in space.
calc IV - Partial differentiation, Lagrange multipliers, multiple integrals, line integrals, and Green's theorem.
DiffyQ - Basic concepts and methods in solving ordinary differential equations, first and second order, linear differential equations, series solutions, numerical methods, Laplace transforms, physical applications.