THey're not the same thing..
----O
----||
-O- C- R
vs
O
||
C-O-R
Check the Aromatic Compounds Chapter and memorize the substituent effects this is very important.
Also you can see a pattern here:
1) O/P = NH2, NR2, NHCOR
OH, OR, OCOR
R
X
2) M
NO2, SO3H, COOH, COOR, COR, CHO
(notice how O is after the N, S, C in Meta? hehe just my way of remember but also know the effects)