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I have many friends who are highly successful people except they didn't know what they wanted to do after college graduation or they wanted to delay entering med/law/business/grad school. So they ended up applying and getting accepted into structured gap year programs such as TFA, AmeriCorps, Peace Corps, etc. and now that they are entering these programs they're extremely proud to tell anyone and everyone that they are in these programs, and people are usually like "omg!! that's awesome!!" and there is the feeling all around that these programs are some sort of life-altering experience and that these individuals who are in the program are on some sort of high road to success instead of being the lost, wandering, empty status-chasing strivers that they actually are.
What's up with this? I did some cursory research into these programs and it just seems like it's a crappy job doing some crappy stuff while living in crap conditions. If you really want to work on making a social change there are a billion other ways to do it...not to mention more creative, less restrictive ways not found in a structured program in which you can actually make more friends and have more freedom. If you truly want to experience how the "other half" in the country (or the world) lives, then why don't you just set up shop in a poor, minority neighborhood while pursuing your childhood dreams in some artistic or athletic field? If you really want to acquire some soft skills that can come from teaching or from being in a new, diverse environment, then why don't you just go teach English abroad? Nope...instead you're the young person who chooses to be tied down to a structured program that will confer with it a feeling that you are on some sort of "right" path in life.
Why is it that these structured programs are such a prestigious enterprise to be plopped down onto a resume with pride and accomplishment while all these other aforementioned choices would usually be met with sympathetic nods and thoughts of the dismal state of this economy, especially when there's no substantive difference between them except strikes against the latter?
It truly makes me sad for the state of our society....
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What's up with this? I did some cursory research into these programs and it just seems like it's a crappy job doing some crappy stuff while living in crap conditions. If you really want to work on making a social change there are a billion other ways to do it...not to mention more creative, less restrictive ways not found in a structured program in which you can actually make more friends and have more freedom. If you truly want to experience how the "other half" in the country (or the world) lives, then why don't you just set up shop in a poor, minority neighborhood while pursuing your childhood dreams in some artistic or athletic field? If you really want to acquire some soft skills that can come from teaching or from being in a new, diverse environment, then why don't you just go teach English abroad? Nope...instead you're the young person who chooses to be tied down to a structured program that will confer with it a feeling that you are on some sort of "right" path in life.
Why is it that these structured programs are such a prestigious enterprise to be plopped down onto a resume with pride and accomplishment while all these other aforementioned choices would usually be met with sympathetic nods and thoughts of the dismal state of this economy, especially when there's no substantive difference between them except strikes against the latter?
It truly makes me sad for the state of our society....
tl;dr - thread title