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Hey SDN,
So, hypothetically, say one were to have a positive pregnancy one week before their rank list for pediatrics was due, would this information have changed the way in which you ranked programs? All the programs where you applied were medium to large residencies (>20 residents) and many of them are at academic centers and known to be intense places that work their residents hard. On the interview trail every place said they were family friendly, and then in the next breath recommended waiting until 3rd year of residency to have kids if possible. Of the programs you are most excited about, the closest one to family (who are older and might not be able to help much even if they wanted to) is still a 2hr drive away. Given the timing means giving birth 4 months into residency do you A) Immediately notify your top programs so that they have the option not to rank you if they are a place where it would be miserable to be a pregnant intern, B) Notify the program where you match on match day to start the planning process, or C) Wait until 12 weeks as by that point the risk of early pregnancy loss (which you have previously experienced) will be lesser to notify the program where you matched.
Thanks for any and all thoughts! Please keep it kind 🙂
So, hypothetically, say one were to have a positive pregnancy one week before their rank list for pediatrics was due, would this information have changed the way in which you ranked programs? All the programs where you applied were medium to large residencies (>20 residents) and many of them are at academic centers and known to be intense places that work their residents hard. On the interview trail every place said they were family friendly, and then in the next breath recommended waiting until 3rd year of residency to have kids if possible. Of the programs you are most excited about, the closest one to family (who are older and might not be able to help much even if they wanted to) is still a 2hr drive away. Given the timing means giving birth 4 months into residency do you A) Immediately notify your top programs so that they have the option not to rank you if they are a place where it would be miserable to be a pregnant intern, B) Notify the program where you match on match day to start the planning process, or C) Wait until 12 weeks as by that point the risk of early pregnancy loss (which you have previously experienced) will be lesser to notify the program where you matched.
Thanks for any and all thoughts! Please keep it kind 🙂