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Hi all! I've been a licensed and in a group pp for two years but this is a first. Will bring to supervision but wanted to ask for some perspective/advice here as well. I am a bit stuck with where to go with adult client, living with parent, who reported a fairly recent incident of being hit and grabbed on the throat. Client seems to be downplaying things, but is clearly fearful of parent (not of being injured physically, but more so emotionally terrified and devasted by every comment).
There is a history of emotional trauma and a lot of dysfunction and chaos in childhood and throughout entire life, and the relationship between them is extremely enmeshed (mother moved into client's dorm room at one point).
We are working on developing a sense of self and setting boundaries, with the eventual goal of independence. We are starting really small but even setting small boundaries seems impossible to client and exacerbate client's anxiety and hyper-vigilance about pleasing/disappointing me. Moreover, client often seems unaware or conflicted about whether she has a right to things like privacy, spending her own money how she wants, the right to not being screamed at/intimidated/called names, since she is still living in parent's home.
What can or should I do with a client like this?
EDIT: Just wanted to add that I'm not asking about reporting as client is not a minor and not in life threatening danger. I'm more asking about how to move forward with her treatment given what I know about her situation.
There is a history of emotional trauma and a lot of dysfunction and chaos in childhood and throughout entire life, and the relationship between them is extremely enmeshed (mother moved into client's dorm room at one point).
We are working on developing a sense of self and setting boundaries, with the eventual goal of independence. We are starting really small but even setting small boundaries seems impossible to client and exacerbate client's anxiety and hyper-vigilance about pleasing/disappointing me. Moreover, client often seems unaware or conflicted about whether she has a right to things like privacy, spending her own money how she wants, the right to not being screamed at/intimidated/called names, since she is still living in parent's home.
What can or should I do with a client like this?
EDIT: Just wanted to add that I'm not asking about reporting as client is not a minor and not in life threatening danger. I'm more asking about how to move forward with her treatment given what I know about her situation.
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