2022-2023 Waitlist Support Thread

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I've decided that I and all my waitlist homies will be receiving an acceptance from our waitlist school(s) by the end of the month 🤞
Just got off this morning, first A of the cycle!! Still hoping for an A from my top choice, but it is unbelievably relieving to not have to reapply.

Waitlist purgatory is so mentally taxing and I'm going to pray hard for each and every one of you to get off your waitlists 🙂
 
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Just got off this morning, first A of the cycle!! Still hoping for an A from my top choice, but it is unbelievably relieving to not have to reapply.

Waitlist purgatory is so mentally taxing and I'm going to pray hard for each and every one of you to get off your waitlists 🙂
Seconding this to manifest that all my sdn homies get an acceptance from their top choice WL schools this week!! 🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️
 
I've gotta get this off my chest - I feel so conflicted about whether it is even worth going through the hassle of re-applying this cycle. I really don't have anything major to add to my application if I were to re-apply. I also need to re-write my MCAT in order to re-apply this cycle because my score is expired now. This means that my app won't be considered until September (at least I think that's how it works). But September is still earlier than when I had my secondaries complete this year. I'm just having a hard time stomaching the reality of another two full gap years by not re-applying this next cycle.

At the same time, I want to put my best foot forward if I have to re-apply. To make things more ambiguous, I was also told by admissions for the school I'm WL at that they got to my spot on the alternate list in previous years, including last year, and that I'm in a relatively good spot...so there's reason to be optimistic. But I really don't want to place all my bets on this one waitlist cuz nothing is guaranteed.

What would you guys do? Do you think I should just start my re-app tomorrow? Would this give me time to still get my primary into the verification queue on time?
 
I've gotta get this off my chest - I feel so conflicted about whether it is even worth going through the hassle of re-applying this cycle. I really don't have anything major to add to my application if I were to re-apply. I also need to re-write my MCAT in order to re-apply this cycle because my score is expired now. This means that my app won't be considered until September (at least I think that's how it works). But September is still earlier than when I had my secondaries complete this year. I'm just having a hard time stomaching the reality of another two full gap years by not re-applying this next cycle.

At the same time, I want to put my best foot forward if I have to re-apply. To make things more ambiguous, I was also told by admissions for the school I'm WL at that they got to my spot on the alternate list in previous years, including last year, and that I'm in a relatively good spot...so there's reason to be optimistic. But I really don't want to place all my bets on this one waitlist cuz nothing is guaranteed.

What would you guys do? Do you think I should just start my re-app tomorrow? Would this give me time to still get my primary into the verification queue on time?
I’m in the exact same predicament. I have many a responsibility now so the thought of taking a dedicated period to retake the MCAT makes me spiral as I currently work 2 full time jobs bc my SMP was a very wild cost and I have lots of bills. And now that I’m an oldie I won’t get the FAP bc I won’t be using my moms taxes. I decided that I won’t start my reapp until the last day of June. That gives me enough time to figure out my next step.

But hoping and praying that won’t be the case! I’m both praying to God and manifesting to the universe that we will all get off our WL. I have been given a wealth of amazing opportunities and every time things have worked out in the end even when I lost hope. I am believing that for all of us. We are all deserving. We’ve all worked hard and I believe the sleepless nights, sacrifices, and money spent won’t be in vain. Cheers to all of us future doctors. There is a seat for us all at the table.
 
I've gotta get this off my chest - I feel so conflicted about whether it is even worth going through the hassle of re-applying this cycle. I really don't have anything major to add to my application if I were to re-apply. I also need to re-write my MCAT in order to re-apply this cycle because my score is expired now. This means that my app won't be considered until September (at least I think that's how it works). But September is still earlier than when I had my secondaries complete this year. I'm just having a hard time stomaching the reality of another two full gap years by not re-applying this next cycle.

At the same time, I want to put my best foot forward if I have to re-apply. To make things more ambiguous, I was also told by admissions for the school I'm WL at that they got to my spot on the alternate list in previous years, including last year, and that I'm in a relatively good spot...so there's reason to be optimistic. But I really don't want to place all my bets on this one waitlist cuz nothing is guaranteed.

What would you guys do? Do you think I should just start my re-app tomorrow? Would this give me time to still get my primary into the verification queue on time?
My advice from someone who has been in a similar position: please only reapply when your app is significantly stronger and when you can apply early and on time. You want the best chance of acceptance. I should have taken one more year off before applying to really fix some of the weaknesses on my application, because even though I did make improvements, it wasn't enough and I ended up with 5 MD waitlists (I was waitlisted last time too). If you do not want a repeat of waitlist purgatory, I recommend taking the year off, making a game plan for strengthening your app, and coming in strong the next time.

The urgency and delay can feel terrible, but remember that you can live a great life even if you aren't admitted to school yet. Great things can happen to you in a gap year and you can make great things out of your life. It's disappointing, but in my (sadly) experienced opinion, less disappointing than ending up in the same situation over again.
 
I've gotta get this off my chest - I feel so conflicted about whether it is even worth going through the hassle of re-applying this cycle. I really don't have anything major to add to my application if I were to re-apply. I also need to re-write my MCAT in order to re-apply this cycle because my score is expired now. This means that my app won't be considered until September (at least I think that's how it works). But September is still earlier than when I had my secondaries complete this year. I'm just having a hard time stomaching the reality of another two full gap years by not re-applying this next cycle.

At the same time, I want to put my best foot forward if I have to re-apply. To make things more ambiguous, I was also told by admissions for the school I'm WL at that they got to my spot on the alternate list in previous years, including last year, and that I'm in a relatively good spot...so there's reason to be optimistic. But I really don't want to place all my bets on this one waitlist cuz nothing is guaranteed.

What would you guys do? Do you think I should just start my re-app tomorrow? Would this give me time to still get my primary into the verification queue on time?
Personally I think I would wait a year. It’s a lot of money and time to spend re-applying if you don’t have anything significant to add. I would retake the MCAT and add some super worthwhile activities to my resume during this year and then go again next year. Just one person’s opinion. But I’m burned out from this application process so don’t listen to me 😂
 
I've gotta get this off my chest - I feel so conflicted about whether it is even worth going through the hassle of re-applying this cycle. I really don't have anything major to add to my application if I were to re-apply. I also need to re-write my MCAT in order to re-apply this cycle because my score is expired now. This means that my app won't be considered until September (at least I think that's how it works). But September is still earlier than when I had my secondaries complete this year. I'm just having a hard time stomaching the reality of another two full gap years by not re-applying this next cycle.

At the same time, I want to put my best foot forward if I have to re-apply. To make things more ambiguous, I was also told by admissions for the school I'm WL at that they got to my spot on the alternate list in previous years, including last year, and that I'm in a relatively good spot...so there's reason to be optimistic. But I really don't want to place all my bets on this one waitlist cuz nothing is guaranteed.

What would you guys do? Do you think I should just start my re-app tomorrow? Would this give me time to still get my primary into the verification queue on time?
In a similar boat! I’m not going to reapply this cycle. I don’t want to reapply unless I’m 100% ready to rock n roll. At this point in time my app would be late bc I’d have to write the MCAT again and get new LORs. doesn’t really make sense to me to rush reapp that I don’t feel 100% about just to potentially be in the same boat this time year. Sure I hypothetically could have started preparing early, but I graduated from my masters May 2022 and took 13 post-bacc science credits in Fall 2022. This past spring was the first time in my life since the fetus days that I haven’t been in school it’s been so nice only having to worry about my big girl adult job. Not to mention a few months ago I moved to a new city with my 2 best friends. I plan on enjoying my first summer here and I’ll start MCAT studying in the fall. If the time comes and I decide I don’t want to do medicine anymore so be it, if I don’t get in this cycle (please let me get in this cycle) I’m at peace with the idea of having the hottest sexiest application the AAMC has ever seen in May 2024
 
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Thoughts on sending another LOR from a physician at this point to help get off WL?
I feel that at this point the only thing that can really improve WL chances (if at all) is a substantial update like a publication or new grades if you’re still in school. I think the fact that they didn’t outright reject us suggests our letters/interview already said enough about our character and another LoR may just be redundant.
 
I’m frustrated bc I think sometimes it’s not necessarily that your application needs to be stronger, but that they’re many talented applicants and it’s the luck of the draw. It’s literally a game, and even if you play it right, it doesn’t mean that you will win. I’m not the best applicant in the world, but I have good stats for the schools I applied to. I was very strategic with it too (like I know Yale would Lebron James my application into the trash so applying there didn’t go through my mind lol). I even had two different med school adcoms review my app for deficiencies. So for me to get interviews for US MD schools something was right about my app. I did a DIY postbacc and a brand name SMP so I’m sitting back looking at my application like uhhh 1 or 2 more activities over the next year is unlikely to move the needle. Just venting my frustrations.
 
Would it be a bad idea to add a recent LOR to the portal of the school I’m waitlisted at?
 
I’m frustrated bc I think sometimes it’s not necessarily that your application needs to be stronger, but that they’re many talented applicants and it’s the luck of the draw. It’s literally a game, and even if you play it right, it doesn’t mean that you will win. I’m not the best applicant in the world, but I have good stats for the schools I applied to. I was very strategic with it too (like I know Yale would Lebron James my application into the trash so applying there didn’t go through my mind lol). I even had two different med school adcoms review my app for deficiencies. So for me to get interviews for US MD schools something was right about my app. I did a DIY postbacc and a brand name SMP so I’m sitting back looking at my application like uhhh 1 or 2 more activities over the next year is unlikely to move the needle. Just venting my frustrations.
There is absolutely a luck factor. There is no way in my mind that any given school can treat ~10k applications all with equal attention and consideration. There are definitely terminator T-1000 pre-meds out there that can stand out in any crowd at any school, but for the average candidate I think luck can be a big factor. But pretty much everything in life is like that 🙁
 
Would it be a bad idea to add a recent LOR to the portal of the school I’m waitlisted at?
Many schools do not consider LoE's outside of the AMCAS letter service. Adding a letter is unlikely to hurt, though.
 
I am absolutely devastated. This process has taken every ounce of self-confidence, trust, and work ethic out of me. My MCAT score is also expiring this year and I am miserable thinking about retaking it. On top of that, this process has drained so much energy, money and happiness from me, that I feel like I am being a terrible fiancé. He is trying to be as supportive as possible but he is also at a loss. It physically hurts to talk about being on a waitlist again to family and friends that I’ve only ever thought that I would be such a great physician. Many physicians, that I have shadowed and worked with have also said the same thing that they don’t understand this process.
I believe that many would be devastated with your path. I also believe you'd be a great doc.

But I also believe that you've been given bum advice, not just once, but several times. And unfortunately, it's on you that you accepted that advice. It sounds like you've not applied broadly, and those who've advised you have been trying to be nice to you without being honest. I'm sure that others will chime in with more specifics.

I hope you successfully get off one of those WL's. But if you don't, and you decide to pursue this again, get some real advice from objective sources.
 
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Hey guys. I’m posting in here because I could really use some support. This is my first post on any Internet forum of any kind, lol. I’ve been a lurker here for a while and it’s been nice to see some of the support that others have gotten and to see the celebrations of others that have persisted and finally gotten accepted. I’ll try to summarize as best as possible.

I’m a reapplicant who is nearing the end of the 3rd application cycle. The first year I applied, I (miraculously) was waitlisted at one of my top choices, choice X. My grades from a very competitive undergrad school were a 3.2x and my MCAT was a high 50x. I KNOW those aren’t stellar stats. I went through a lot in undergrad, and that definitely reflected academically. I tried to apply to specific schools that fit my wants/interests which is what I think contributed to my waitlist in the first place. The main feedback I got from my first cycle was to take more science classes and raise my GPA. Fair criticism. I contacted my undergrad and asked about SMPs vs post bacc, and I ultimately decided on an SMP because I already had significant shadow, volunteer, research and extracurricular experience since I went into undergrad wanting to go to med school. I applied to two programs, one of them being choice Y and another (unimportant) school. I picked choice Y because of a lot of personal factors, better fit for me, and it was one of the schools I was initially very interested in.

When I was talking to my undergraduate school about 1 year SMP versus post bacc, they were very straightforward in saying that I had to be very real with myself in knowing that I could get a good GPA (3.5-6+) in the SMP program to stand a chance at getting into medical school. I was told that SMP‘s do have a high success rate in acceptance to medical school, but only if you do well. I knew I could do it, so I decided on school Y. I took it as a chance to hone my study skills, and really invest myself in learning.

I reapplied during the year of my SMP at the advice of the advisors in the SMP. I applied very broadly like many applicants do, but I had my eye on the two original schools, school X and school Y where I was currently a student. That school traditionally had a strong linkage. I was devastated when the day after submitting my secondary application to school X, I was immediately rejected. I must have just been filtered out unfortunately. Given that I was previously waitlisted, I was completely blindsided, but I decided to focus on school Y because I was adjusting and really getting to know the school. I was doing very well grade wise, and I thought I would be able to see myself at school Y as a medical student. To top it all off, I met my current fiancé, who is a physician at school Y.

Throughout the year, all of us students had meetings with various advisors, talking about our progress and expectations. I never once received an ounce of bad feedback. I was even asked to teacher assistant for some classes after I did exceptionally well in a few of them. I was told that I had a fantastic interview and would be a fantastic medical student.

Near the end of last year, I was told by the program advisor who sits on the medical school admissions committee that I would either be accepted this year (now last year) or definitely next year (now this year). I was very stressed to hear that I might have to apply again. I was told to be patient and wait on their waitlist because I had a strong application for their school.

I asked the program director if I absolutely had to apply again, if I had any areas to improve, and I was told no. I also said that I only wanted to apply to school X from my original application year and this school (school Y) because applications were expensive, and these were the only two schools that I had a real passion about and would really go to. I was told that that was appropriate and that my statistics for those two schools were on target. I ended the program with an on target GPA (3.6+) and I fully expected to be admitted. I waited the entire summer with the expectation of being admitted, but I was ultimately rejected and I was devastated. I had to scramble to find a job last minute and sign a lease for a year without a job. I ended up finding a great job for me, and reapplied after having school Y review my application one more time. School Y, while one of my in-state schools, is an area that I have no family and no friends in, but I decided to stay in the area because I fully expected to be admitted and I wanted to stay with my fiancé.

In September, I received interview invites for school X from my original year and school Y, as expected. I was very excited and looking forward to being finally admitted after doing everything possible for myself. I stayed in touch with admissions committee, and my current job wrote a fantastic letter of recommendation for me. My interviews at both schools I felt went very well and I was complemented during them for my persistence and the quality of my application.

Fast forward to now and I am currently waitlisted at both schools AGAIN. I have sent many update letters, many new letters of recommendation, met with many people at both schools, including the dean of both schools and told that I am a fantastic student, and would be an asset to any class, but I have yet to be accepted.

I am absolutely devastated. This process has taken every ounce of self-confidence, trust, and work ethic out of me. My MCAT score is also expiring this year and I am miserable thinking about retaking it. On top of that, this process has drained so much energy, money and happiness from me, that I feel like I am being a terrible fiancé. He is trying to be as supportive as possible but he is also at a loss. It physically hurts to talk about being on a waitlist again to family and friends that I’ve only ever thought that I would be such a great physician. Many physicians, that I have shadowed and worked with have also said the same thing that they don’t understand this process.

I understand that this process is tough on everyone. I also enjoy seeing people finally get accepted after years of hard work, but I wonder why it hasn’t been me. I feel lied to and duped by this whole process. I feel like I was promised something by a lot of people, and then let down. There have been so many supportive people that have helped me along the way, and I feel like I have just let every single one of them down. I know this is nobody’s fault, but I’m just so upset.

I also feel like I was receptive to feedback at various points during this process and the only feedback I ever received was to take more science classes and improve my GPA, which I did. I genuinely don’t know what to do and I’m starting to just crumble.
To anyone who made it all the way to the end. Thanks for listening. I hope you all get accepted to your schools and I would appreciate any words of encouragement.
It sounds as if you only applied to 2 MD schools. Is this right?
This is folly.
 
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