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as for the standards and/or guidelines set for PERSONAL statements. To make things clear I'm not looking for advice on my own statement, but I'm just a little confused by some of the advice and information being given.
Ok, I know this thread may ruffle a few feathers, but oh well, everyone is entitled to their own opinions.
For the last couple of days I have been reading a couple of threads about the supposedly correct way or (do's and dont's) of writing a PS. Don't get me wrong, I respect everyone's opinion and feel there are some valid points in these standards, but I also feel that some are also very confusing and misleading to readers.
For 1) these are "PERSONAL" statements. Besides needing someone to read for grammatical errors or style, I really don't understand why would a person need to really change what they already have unless it is very "copycat" or unoriginal. I'm confused on how someone can really tell someone else, that they most times never met, that their experience is less compelling than anothers? I mean it's PERSONAL for God sakes. Unless you have actually been through their experiences of (for example) homelessness, sickness, death, abuse, divorce, poverty, etc, etc.... you may not understand the importance of their inclusion of the matter. I totally understand the concept of not wanting to make the statement sound depressing or vague, but I also feel that if it's part of a person's story that made them who they are today it should be included (just written in a compelling way).
2) Originality..... How can a person be original or unique in their statement with sooooo many guidelines to follow in what should or should not be included? While I truly appreciate and love SDN for their advice on many related issues, I also feel that sometimes knowing too much can also be a hinderance. As a youngster I was raised with little guidance or information on issues of education and/or college endeavors. Though I would have loved to have a bit of the information some of the kids have today, I also feel that my lack of information allowed many things I did to come straight from my heart. For example, I remember applying to college back in the days when there were only paper applications and you had to write down a one-page statement on the back about your yourself and/or interest in the school. I recall just writing what I felt, short and sweet. Again, this may have been due to my lack of guidance, but I feel my originality and heart felt words helped me get accepted to the schools I applied. Mind you, I was not familiar with or cared to attend Ivey league schools (that was just a different world to me at the time) so you can take that with a grain of salt. But my point is that a lot of these guidelines are taking away from the originality of personal statements.
And 3) Stand-out.... I have heard many conflicting points on what makes a story stand out or not. My issue is...if you are given a laundry list of guidelines you are expected to follow in a writing that is supposed to be PERSONALLY yours, how can you really make it stand out? Not saying many points aren't valid, or too complex to follow but I believe it causes some people to over-analyze and leave out sections that might really make them stand out and give it that POP!
I know according to many, I'm a lowly ole member with only a few posts but I just wanted to state my opinion on the matter and offer another side of advice. I feel the purpose many of us are going into or are already in this field is to be leaders. Leaders that are strong minded and capable of thinking for ourselves with the assistance of others. When it comes down to it only you know what is right for you. Advice is great but don't allow it to be a hinderance for YOUR path in life.
**Note this is not to meant to throw jabs at anyone. I just wanted to try and clear up confusion, create a discussion, and offer my "0.02 cents."
Ok, I know this thread may ruffle a few feathers, but oh well, everyone is entitled to their own opinions.
For the last couple of days I have been reading a couple of threads about the supposedly correct way or (do's and dont's) of writing a PS. Don't get me wrong, I respect everyone's opinion and feel there are some valid points in these standards, but I also feel that some are also very confusing and misleading to readers.
For 1) these are "PERSONAL" statements. Besides needing someone to read for grammatical errors or style, I really don't understand why would a person need to really change what they already have unless it is very "copycat" or unoriginal. I'm confused on how someone can really tell someone else, that they most times never met, that their experience is less compelling than anothers? I mean it's PERSONAL for God sakes. Unless you have actually been through their experiences of (for example) homelessness, sickness, death, abuse, divorce, poverty, etc, etc.... you may not understand the importance of their inclusion of the matter. I totally understand the concept of not wanting to make the statement sound depressing or vague, but I also feel that if it's part of a person's story that made them who they are today it should be included (just written in a compelling way).
2) Originality..... How can a person be original or unique in their statement with sooooo many guidelines to follow in what should or should not be included? While I truly appreciate and love SDN for their advice on many related issues, I also feel that sometimes knowing too much can also be a hinderance. As a youngster I was raised with little guidance or information on issues of education and/or college endeavors. Though I would have loved to have a bit of the information some of the kids have today, I also feel that my lack of information allowed many things I did to come straight from my heart. For example, I remember applying to college back in the days when there were only paper applications and you had to write down a one-page statement on the back about your yourself and/or interest in the school. I recall just writing what I felt, short and sweet. Again, this may have been due to my lack of guidance, but I feel my originality and heart felt words helped me get accepted to the schools I applied. Mind you, I was not familiar with or cared to attend Ivey league schools (that was just a different world to me at the time) so you can take that with a grain of salt. But my point is that a lot of these guidelines are taking away from the originality of personal statements.
And 3) Stand-out.... I have heard many conflicting points on what makes a story stand out or not. My issue is...if you are given a laundry list of guidelines you are expected to follow in a writing that is supposed to be PERSONALLY yours, how can you really make it stand out? Not saying many points aren't valid, or too complex to follow but I believe it causes some people to over-analyze and leave out sections that might really make them stand out and give it that POP!
I know according to many, I'm a lowly ole member with only a few posts but I just wanted to state my opinion on the matter and offer another side of advice. I feel the purpose many of us are going into or are already in this field is to be leaders. Leaders that are strong minded and capable of thinking for ourselves with the assistance of others. When it comes down to it only you know what is right for you. Advice is great but don't allow it to be a hinderance for YOUR path in life.
**Note this is not to meant to throw jabs at anyone. I just wanted to try and clear up confusion, create a discussion, and offer my "0.02 cents."
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