The question about Zoloft was already answered, so I'll move on.
With regard to stimulants, no one said a couple of weeks is going to make or break things (though depending on the situation, it's also something you need to rule out). That was never anyone's objection that I saw. The objection was to your claim that stimulants are never first line unless the person was unsafe. I also get from the way you word things that you actively try to dissuade patients from this class of meds which I personally think is wrong given that it is considered first line and most effective treatment for genuine ADHD.
Right, it does take getting used to, which is why I made the comment that residencies need to stop teaching their residents to fear stimulants. They should never be given out like candy, but it's a legitimate medication with a legitimate purpose for a legitimate illness. ADHD is an illness, just like depression, anxiety, and everything else we treat. It isn't the patient's fault that while their Prozac may not be addictive so we give it out without much worry, we'll let them suffer with ADHD which can cause just as many problems for the patient as anxiety or depression. Of all the meds we prescribe, stimulants are relatively safe when used appropriately.
Behavioral interventions are definitely a thing and should be explored, but ADHD is definitely a thing and the first time you see a severe case of it, you'll never doubt that again.
This. It's amazing how many adults never get the diagnosis or get the diagnosis and parents don't want them on stimulants. Some of those people are just fine. Others walk through life a mess and when they start a stimulant, they're not suddenly superstars, but they're normal.
Of course, my training at an academic institution, much like OP's, was to be very conservative with stimulants. "Never prescribe stimulants on a first visit, always get collateral" was our mantra. The idea about ADHD not being an emergency unless there's a safety concern is also from my training. Thanks to this forum, yesterday I did step on myself and prescribe a small supply of stimulant to a new patient with reasonably classic ADHD who is treatment naïve, so I suspect this is just something to get used to.
I also, fun fact, have come a long way in terms of challenging my countertransference about ADHD. There was a time, long ago back in med school/early residency, when I quietly "didn't believe in" ADHD. Though I was aware it's a neurodevelopmental disorder, ADHD still occupied the same space in my mind as "poor parenting/chaos at home/bad kid syndrome," "undisciplined" and "lazy." After all, behavioral interventions are first line for kids, aren't they, and for adults, behavioral interventions are key as well. So I thought that a large part of the disorder was due to a failure of others to discipline kids and people to discipline themselves.