Thank you for reiterating that I am an adult. I'll close with my own reiteration, not setting your expectations at the beginning of a rotation is limiting your effectiveness as an educator. I implore you to take the extra 3.5 minutes to make them clear
I think most attending surgeons and surgical residents would agree with the following, so here is some free advice:
1) Be on time for rounds.
2) Ask the residents if you can follow a patient or two. Generally, if you were involved in an operation, that is a good patient to follow for the duration of his/her hospital stay. See and examine the patient before rounds, check labs and vitals and report on them to the team.
3) Find out the surgery schedule for the following day. Find out from the senior resident what case(s) you will be attending. Read about that condition and the surgery.
4) Show up to the operation on time. Introduce yourself to the attending. Ask if you can scrub in. If the answer is yes, get your gown and gloves for the scrub tech.
5) During the operation help when you are asked (retraction, camera driving, etc). Ask questions, but only when appropriate (i.e., if things look like they are going south - not a good time to interrupt). At the end of the case, when the attending scrubs out, stick around and see if you can help close.
6) When your team is on-call, and a consult request comes in, offer to see the consult.
7) Take call at whatever interval is required by your program. When you are on-call, follow the intern around and find ways to help him or her.
Nobody told me this stuff on my surgery rotation. Much of it was knowledge handed down from medical students senior to me. Some of it is just common sense, or perhaps inherent enthusiasm.
And, I realize we do not know each other, so you have no idea if I am a good or bad educator. However, I do tend to get positive feedback. Of course, they could all be blowing smoke ...