I know this isn't directly related to audiology, but I don't want to ask pre-med students when I can ask my buddies here in the AuD forum. I know at least a few of you are in long-term relationships and still manage to pull off top-notch work. How do you do it? I blame it on my INTJ (probably primarily my I), but I've never been able to handle both at the same time... when I'm focusing on my academics, my love life suffers. When I've got a boyfriend, my academics take the hit.
The reason I'm just bringing it up now (I got dumped a month ago and am just starting to get back into my academic groove) is that I realized if I wait until after I'm finished with grad school, I will be almost 29 before I can seriously date without that baggage. I know it's not out of the question, but that doesn't leave me with much time to find my soulmate if I ever want to have children (which is still negotiable).
Anyone else feel the same way? Or for those of you who are doing well, how do you find that equilibrium?
The reason I'm just bringing it up now (I got dumped a month ago and am just starting to get back into my academic groove) is that I realized if I wait until after I'm finished with grad school, I will be almost 29 before I can seriously date without that baggage. I know it's not out of the question, but that doesn't leave me with much time to find my soulmate if I ever want to have children (which is still negotiable).
Anyone else feel the same way? Or for those of you who are doing well, how do you find that equilibrium?