first, let me apologize cause I didn't clarify my point in my earlier comment. I didn't mean all or the majority, I meant some or few people here. Second, it is not about my feelings. It is about US, Not me. It is about US as a community. I understand life isn't fair, however, you shouldn't sit back and support rudeness, unprofessionalism. Let me give you an example on a smaller scale. if you had a son, and he goes to school. His teacher is rude and nonprofessional in the classroom. And your son comes and tells you about that teacher. You reply well son, life isn't fair, get thicker skin and get used to it.
let's move to a real life example. a patient came to the cardiologist I was rotating with. She always complained of Dull Chest pain. Physical examination was normal.Regular EKG, was normal, not ST elevations, or depression. Stress EKG was normal as well. She still came back to us complaining of Dull chest pain. We start to worry that might be something serious, not detected on EKG. My doctor wants to order Angiogram. The patient doesn't have an insurance. Now, my doctor could have said just what you said. Life isn't fair. On the contrary, he had his staff help her how to get a cheap insurance. He even told her to go the emergency and tell them that her doctor thinks that she might angina and it might be not detected on her EKG.
You may say, it is an anonymous forum, it is not real life. Still,Seeing this kind of behavior here gives you an indication of how they behave outside the forum.
don't fight rudeness/ unprofessionalism because life isn't fair( let me use your own words, that is the most cringe worthy association I have ever seen).