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Long time lurker, but have found an occasion to post!
Background: My fiance and I have been dating for four years, and are both seniors in college currently. He is aiming towards medical school, and I am going to graduate school for biology.
The Issue: My fiance (let's call him Jim) is not a rich man by any stretch, and neither is his family. I, however, came into money several years ago (distinct from my parents). Things are looking like I will land a T.A. position and have my graduate school paid for, while Jim is being forced to look at loans that frankly scare both of us.
The Question: Should I pay for my fiance's medical school/ pay his loans off right after we are married? What would you, as a medical student or family member, do in my place?
I am thinking about the future and how pointless it seems to have loans and pay so much extra in interest and fees when the money is currently available. However, I am very hesitant because I have heard about so many couples splitting apart in med-school, and losing the money would add insult to injury in that case. Any thoughts?
Background: My fiance and I have been dating for four years, and are both seniors in college currently. He is aiming towards medical school, and I am going to graduate school for biology.
The Issue: My fiance (let's call him Jim) is not a rich man by any stretch, and neither is his family. I, however, came into money several years ago (distinct from my parents). Things are looking like I will land a T.A. position and have my graduate school paid for, while Jim is being forced to look at loans that frankly scare both of us.
The Question: Should I pay for my fiance's medical school/ pay his loans off right after we are married? What would you, as a medical student or family member, do in my place?
I am thinking about the future and how pointless it seems to have loans and pay so much extra in interest and fees when the money is currently available. However, I am very hesitant because I have heard about so many couples splitting apart in med-school, and losing the money would add insult to injury in that case. Any thoughts?
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