How do you deal with condescending comments about dentistry from those in medicine?

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Might be too silly of a question but was genuinely wondering if I am the only one experiencing this or if it's a common thing lol.
A lot of people I meet and those who are in my life are in medicine. I am often faced with a lot of condescending comments and questions. I was asked last week if dental boards are "actually hard?". How do you guys deal with comments and questions that are condescending from those who are in medicine?

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lol are you really that deluded to believe that dentistry is on par with medicine in terms of difficulty/prestige? Dentistry is all about lifestyle and decent pay for low risk but high-impact procedures (eg smile makeover, getting patients out of pain via extractions and endo, and generally helping patients preserve their oral health) all the while being at the top of the dental food chain. It's also true that dental boards are not hard at all especially compared to Steps 1, 2, and 3. Also keep in mind that some folks in medicine are asking these "condescending" questions out of genuine curiosity, not necessarily to insult you.

To answer your question though, yeah it's pretty common not just in the US but also in other parts of the world in that medicine carries more respect than dentistry so much so that med students don't take dental students all that seriously. How do you deal with it? Well, how do you deal with annoying people? You ignore.
I am not "deluded" by any means. I know that medicine requires a lot more sacrifices and that boards are intense. You are right that some are genuinely curious but some people think that if you are doing dentistry, you are doing it because you weren't competent enough to do medicine and not because you actually want to be a dentist.
 
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Tell them you cry yourself to sleep under a pillow made of cash and free time after only 4 years of school
 
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which is not too far fetched considering med school is still on average more difficult to get into

(mandatory disclaimer: med school in this post = US MD)

This. I am okay with MD students thinking their admissions process is harder than ours, because that is probably true. I once had a group of DO students asked me if I went into dentistry because I could not get into medicine. My sassy reply to them: “What is a DO degree? Like some sort of second-rate medical career for people who can’t get MD lol?”
 
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There's no shame in accepting that Dentistry is below General Medicine in the pecking order, it caters to a different type of personality; sure some people who didn't get into Med school would go into dentistry, but a large number also get into it for personal reasons, passion, family relative etc. or a big one, because they didn't want to go into Med school.

That being said you can always point out the technical skills needed to be a great dentist, in terms of hand skills, depth perception, accuracy etc; which few MDs would have (besides plastic/micro surgery probably).
 
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Just don’t give a crap. No one cares in the long run.
 
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Might be too silly of a question but was genuinely wondering if I am the only one experiencing this or if it's a common thing lol.
A lot of people I meet and those who are in my life are in medicine. I am often faced with a lot of condescending comments and questions. I was asked last week if dental boards are "actually hard?". How do you guys deal with comments and questions that are condescending from those who are in medicine?
You should tell them they are changing the admissions process, just have to have an associates with a 2.0 or higher from a CC to get in.
 
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Just don’t give a crap. No one cares in the long run.

Exactly. I live in the same neighborhood as an Anesthesiologist, two Pediatricians, an Internist and ER doc. Our kids have all grown up together. Nobody cares about this topic. If anything .... the MDs are jealous of my work schedule.
 
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Exactly. I live in the same neighborhood as an Anesthesiologist, two Pediatricians, an Internist and ER doc. Our kids have all grown up together. Nobody cares about this topic. If anything .... the MDs are jealous of my work schedule.

Yup I found later in life a lot of mds are actually pretty jealous of our work life schedule. 4 days week no on call and making just as much as a top plastic or derm makes life pretty enviable.
 
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Yup I found later in life a lot of mds are actually pretty jealous of our work life schedule. 4 days week no on call and making just as much as a top plastic or derm makes life pretty enviable.
Agreed, I'm a recent med school grad in Europe, and some guys from the dental school of my uni found a job way earlier than me and make double of what I make to do a job that is obviously way easier and more relaxed than mine. So yeah, I openly admit that I am jealous of them, but I still can't imagine myself caring about teeth enough to be a dentist. The problems we deal with in medicine are quite simply more interesting and we get to make difficult and challenging decisions every day. That's a privilege most dentists don't enjoy. But, I definitely don't see them as people who couldn't get into med school, a lot of them were probably just smarter and more pragmatic in their career choice. Life is not about work anyway.
 
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Agreed, I'm a recent med school grad in Europe, and some guys from the dental school of my uni found a job way earlier than me and make double of what I make to do a job that is obviously way easier and more relaxed than mine. So yeah, I openly admit that I am jealous of them, but I still can't imagine myself caring about teeth enough to be a dentist. The problems we deal with in medicine are quite simply more interesting and we get to make difficult and challenging decisions every day. That's a privilege most dentists don't enjoy. But, I definitely don't see them as people who couldn't get into med school, a lot of them were probably just smarter and more pragmatic in their career choice. Life is not about work anyway.

Medicine is def more interesting. Dentistry is mundane and there really isn’t any new research coming out compared to groundbreaking advances in medicine... but the biggest benefit of dentistry is the option of living to work or working to live. You can own a small practice and work enough to live life or you can work to live and build 10 practices and make big money.

Medicine doesn’t really have the option of live to work or work to live. Medicine usually gets clumped into live to work due to long hours long schooling and being on call. Only a few top top top specialities offer their live to work lifestyle.

But the bottom line is who cares. You gotta do what interests you. My cousin is a heart surgeon and he loves it regardless of pay or schooling or difficulty. He would do it regardless
 
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I hand them a perio probe to shove up their rear, much like my interactions with the periodontists at my school.
 
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Yup I found later in life a lot of mds are actually pretty jealous of our work life schedule. 4 days week no on call and making just as much as a top plastic or derm makes life pretty enviable.

Is it really that common for an average owner general dentist to make as much as a top plastic or derm? Especially when those specialists are likely to own their practice too?
 
Maybe, you are not around the right kind of people.

Good people will not make fun of your career and make you feel less.

Not all those who smile to you are really your friends, if they make you feel bad about dentistry, it is time to stop being acquainted with them unless you really really have to!

But anyway, I find it here as well, some people make fun of Pharmacy schools sometimes, we should stop making ourselves feel superior by making fun of others.
 
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Maybe they aren’t being condescending and you’re being slightly insecure. Or, maybe they really are being condescending, in which case who cares? Rude people come in all shapes, sizes, ages and socioeconomic stratas. There are people of higher and lower prestige than you who will try to make you feel inadequate for the rest of your life. But why get worked up by people who aren’t meaningful in your life? The amount of people in your life that have the ability to affect your outlook should be very small. Give attention to people who lift you up or give you meaningful advice, not people who try to bury you.

Anyways, people in medicine are always measuring each other’s you know what. It’s so boring and gets old but it’s the nature of the job unfortunately.
 
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Is it really that common for an average owner general dentist to make as much as a top plastic or derm? Especially when those specialists are likely to own their practice too?
Lol, no, that is definitely not common.
 
I have never meet anyone who thought dentistry was "below" medicine. They're both discrete fields that require a lot of the same education. USMLE is undoubtedly more difficult than dental boards; however, dental school was more challenging than medical school curriculum because our schedules were much more demanding and you must perform. Be proud of what you're doing and enjoy it!
 
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I encountered this a few times when in school.

Sometimes you just have to brush it off and either remind yourself or them that if and when they or a loved one breaks a tooth, they’ll have to come visit you, not an MD.
When someone they know, patient or otherwise, gets a toothache, guess who they have to call?
When they meet a patient in the ER with facial swelling and a major toothache, the most they can do is prescribe meds and tell the patient to see who? A dentist.

Different fields, different training. Who cares which path is easier?
If they really wanted to talk about program difficulty, why don’t they go talk to a PhD student studying astrophysics/physical chemistry, or something of that sort. :laugh:
 
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Lol, no, that is definitely not common.

Not common, not rare...

I would say uncommon which is pretty dam good to be on par with the top medicine best specialties/salaries while just being a general dentist which requires no top of anything aside from business.
 
I think since most dental kids don't go through a real hospital residency we don't get to see what physician culture is like. Everybody dumps on everybody at a hospital not just the dentists. Learn to be proud of who you are and feel free to #2 on them too.
 
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Might be too silly of a question but was genuinely wondering if I am the only one experiencing this or if it's a common thing lol.
A lot of people I meet and those who are in my life are in medicine. I am often faced with a lot of condescending comments and questions. I was asked last week if dental boards are "actually hard?". How do you guys deal with comments and questions that are condescending from those who are in medicine?

You shouldn't care about what they think. The bigger problems I have are from doctors who are my patients... they think that I should give them special treatment because they are a "Dr." I don't give special treatment unless you've sent me patients or those "Dr.'s" or have some kind of monetary value to me. Maybe if you paid me more, I'll put you ahead of the line and on top of a pedestal, but if you have some low paying insurance, you're on the same level as everyone else.

I would defer that physicians do deserve respect for what they have gone through, because I bet that I couldn't go through that (too much time spent in school).

If you really really want to have a good comeback, just say that you work 32 hours a week with no oncall, virtually no liability, and can make upwards to a million+ per year. When they mess up, they could kill someone, when we mess up, most of the time, we lose a tooth (or two). Although I think it's childish to even entertain these comments, you could say these statements. Or you could just be low-key and joke that you weren't smart enough to go into medicine... but really, you're the smart one for going into dentistry.

In the end, just smile and ask them to open their mouths (and wallets).
 
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As said before, there are a lot of people out there who are complete ass hats, even if they are related to you, haha. On the other hand, sometimes they don't actually know what they're asking, and don't mean to come off that way. You have to do what you enjoy, and as long as you can support yourself and your family, who cares how much prestige is associated with the job? I'm sure there are a good number of plumbers and garbage men that are making over 100K a year after just finishing high school, and they like their jobs just fine. You do you, let other people do whatever the heck they want. If someone is trying to demean you over your career choice - it usually means they're really just insecure about themselves, so just pity them and ignore them.

Anyway, I'd way rather have less stress and a way better schedule and make 100K less a year as long as I could live comfortably - money isn't everything.
 
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To be frank it's an absurd comparison. It's not like students are applying both places simultaneously and the medical are accepting the better ones like MD vs DO. They're two different professions with very different approaches. God Bless anyone who goes to school for 7-15 years after college, they can save lives, cure disease, work their rear ends off and be miserable or happy. I could have probably chosen either based on my master's results, but switched to DDS; it was the best decision I could have ever dreamed about making. Last year some guy left our dental school to go apply to med school, different strokes and all that.
The luckiest students are those that chose a profession and love it, if you are proud to be in dental school let them know and don't be shy. Some people go into medicine for 7+ years and pop pimples and give out acne treatments (not exactly saving lives), others just write scripts for colds all day and are replaceable by someone with a 2 yr PA/NP degree( i'm oversimplifying, somewhat). On the other hand there are dentists who only went to school for 4 years, get to be called doctors, who can make 300k out of school(though rare) and through practice ownership make millions, retire early, live a killer lifestyle with a great family life. BTW there are plenty of dentists who've saved lives by catching cancers and other serious systemic diseases, those are the real oral professionals who care not just about "teeth" and making money. It's up to you, you can see yourself as an oral health professional, or just a "tooth fixer."
 
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Might be too silly of a question but was genuinely wondering if I am the only one experiencing this or if it's a common thing lol.
A lot of people I meet and those who are in my life are in medicine. I am often faced with a lot of condescending comments and questions. I was asked last week if dental boards are "actually hard?". How do you guys deal with comments and questions that are condescending from those who are in medicine?
If any doctor took the dental boards that wasn't a dentist, they would fail. They're hard enough, who gives a damn
 
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If any doctor took the dental boards that wasn't a dentist, they would fail. They're hard enough, who gives a damn
Doubt it. (at least part 1- minus the basic dental anatomy obviously)
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On a side note- failing in the physics undergrad was the best thing to happen to me (med school requires physics) because I went to dental school.

Did you know that if I went to med school- I would still be in school and have 2-3 years to go in residency/fellowship working 60 hours A week before I started earning money.

Bottom line, med school is long. It’s hard. They sacrifice so much. They have a tough road and deserve everything but I’m happy the way life turned out.
 
Did you know that if I went to med school- I would still be in school and have 2-3 years to go in residency/fellowship working 60 hours A week before I started earning money.

Bottom line, med school is long. It’s hard. They sacrifice so much. They have a tough road and deserve everything but I’m happy the way life turned out.

Agreed. Originally I was pursuing med school. Anyone remember the M.A.S.H shows? I started to watch those shows, saw all the blood, life and death decisions ..... and decided. NO WAY. I wanted something less stressful. Dentistry.

Also .... for those working in hospitals. What a depressing place. All those sick people.

Dentists have it easy compared to MDs. Trust me. They know our lifestyle is better. We know our lifestyle is better. And we know that they know our lifestyle is better.
 
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Agreed. Originally I was pursuing med school. Anyone remember the M.A.S.H shows? I started to watch those shows, saw all the blood, life and death decisions ..... and decided. NO WAY. I wanted something less stressful. Dentistry.

Also .... for those working in hospitals. What a depressing place. All those sick people.

Dentists have it easy compared to MDs. Trust me. They know our lifestyle is better. We know our lifestyle is better. And we know that they know our lifestyle is better.

My med students friends who will go into family medicine believe that their lifestyle will be as good if not better than mine as a general dentist, because they get to sit around and write prescriptions all day while I have to hunch over patients after patients. And their pay is better. Any truth to that?
 
prostate exams bro
Yeah. This alone would make me pass on Family medicine. I remember the 1st time I received a prostate exam. The MD (whom I've known a long time who also knows I'm an orthodontist) decided to give me a review of what he palpates during my exam. He's going thru all the anatomy taking his time and I'm literally cringing from the procedure.

My med students friends who will go into family medicine believe that their lifestyle will be as good if not better than mine as a general dentist, because they get to sit around and write prescriptions all day while I have to hunch over patients after patients. And their pay is better. Any truth to that?
Family medicine seems so boring. You're right though. You go in for an exam for some kind of ailment. Nurse see you for vitals. You are escorted to a very small, non-descript room. MD comes in. Listens to your concern. Examines you. Prescribes drugs. Seems boring. I'm sure they do more than that, but .... dentistry has to be more involving. Not sure about pay, but it seems the successful private practice dentists would have more room for vertical income growth.
 
My med students friends who will go into family medicine believe that their lifestyle will be as good if not better than mine as a general dentist, because they get to sit around and write prescriptions all day while I have to hunch over patients after patients. And their pay is better. Any truth to that?

How much can they bill for sitting around and writing prescriptions all day? What's the overhead for all those midlevels that you're hiring, costs for labwork, etc...? I'm not sure how many patients they have, but assume a visit is 120 dollars, 50 patients a day, that's only 6k/day minus all the overhead and operating costs. Maybe if they order a bunch of tests/labwork/billable procedures, but still seems to have a lot of overhead.

If they were a pain management clinic that indirectly owned the regular/compound pharmacy next door, then they could make a lot more money.
 
How would you say the dermatologist lifestyle is compared to an average general dentist associate or owner? Would you say the stress levels are similar? Pay around the same?

If you guys had to choose between being a dermatologist vs general dentist, would you still pick dentistry?

One thing about dermatologists is at the number of residency positions are kept low. Doesn’t seem the same about dentists (many dental schools have opened in the last ten years)
 
How would you say the dermatologist lifestyle is compared to an average general dentist associate or owner? Would you say the stress levels are similar? Pay around the same?

If you guys had to choose between being a dermatologist vs general dentist, would you still pick dentistry?

One thing about dermatologists is at the number of residency positions are kept low. Doesn’t seem the same about dentists (many dental schools have opened in the last ten years)
The pay is definitely different between a dermatologist and a dentist. You’ll make much more as a venture capitalist though. Look into it.
 
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How would you say the dermatologist lifestyle is compared to an average general dentist associate or owner? Would you say the stress levels are similar? Pay around the same?

If you guys had to choose between being a dermatologist vs general dentist, would you still pick dentistry?

One thing about dermatologists is at the number of residency positions are kept low. Doesn’t seem the same about dentists (many dental schools have opened in the last ten years)
You're comparing apples and oranges here.
 
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Yeah. This alone would make me pass on Family medicine. I remember the 1st time I received a prostate exam. The MD (whom I've known a long time who also knows I'm an orthodontist) decided to give me a review of what he palpates during my exam. He's going thru all the anatomy taking his time and I'm literally cringing from the procedure.


Family medicine seems so boring. You're right though. You go in for an exam for some kind of ailment. Nurse see you for vitals. You are escorted to a very small, non-descript room. MD comes in. Listens to your concern. Examines you. Prescribes drugs. Seems boring. I'm sure they do more than that, but .... dentistry has to be more involving. Not sure about pay, but it seems the successful private practice dentists would have more room for vertical income growth.

I heard a very interesting take on modern family practice medicine recently while listening to Dax Shepard's "Armchair Experts" podcast where he was interviewing Dr Drew.

Dr Drew maybe 15 minutes into the podcast went off on how terrible the current state of what a modern family practitioner does these days, where it's way more about fighting with insurance companies and sitting behind a computer screen entering data that serves as both a means to document way more than needs to be documented 99.99% of the time and to also essentially put the pieces of the diagnosis puzzle together in a way where the insurance company driven computer algorithm for treatment modality verses actually using their acquired diagnostic skills. Was interesting to hear the perspective from someone with a combination of inside knowledge about what working in the modern "big data" medical system is like, and also from someone who has been successful enough in his related endeavors that he doesn't have to rely on the current medical system for his day to day income
 
You're comparing apples and oranges here.

Agree. If you really want to you should compare dermatologists with orthodontists. Both are very competitive specialties that only the top people of the med school or dental school class can get into. Both provide an excellent lifestyle. Dermatologists do a residency and usually 1 or 2 fellowships after med school while orthodontists go through 2-3 years post-grad training. I don’t know much about the stress level, but pay is about the same. It seems to me that the orthodontists have much more interesting work then the dermatologists who treat acne problems (I’m not talking about the derm surgeons).
 
I tell them I chose dentistry over medicine for the same reason a tradesman would choose carpentry over plumbing: so you don't get **** all over you.

Granted, I know that the nurses, specifically LNAs, are more likely to get fecal matter all over them, but when you're dealing with the whole body, there's always that chance.
 
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It always cracks me up to see who is saying what and why in these types of threads.

Just by way of introduction, I grew up with two MD parents who went to a top 5 medical school and matched residencies at the best hospitals in the country. You can guess that my test scores aren't too bad (the ability did not mysteriously diminish from one generation to the next) and frankly had no concept of this notion where people weren't "sure if they could get into medical school". For job satisfaction reasons (read: I want to be my own boss in a way that is tough for MDs nowadays), I "rebelled" and went to dental school. At this particular school, we do our entire pre-clinical portion with the meds, take the same tests, etc. That's not why I chose the school, but it does inform my opinion on this subject.

Dentistry tends to attract a lot of smart but self-deprecating types who use humor aimed at themselves to deflect and who are willing to *temporarily* work incredibly hard on the condition that it earns them an incredible work/life balance (I call these types "golden retrievers"), whereas medicine is a bit more likely to attract people who take themselves very, very seriously and have already dreamt up posthumous honors for themselves as someone who gave their entire life away to *saving the human race* (I call these types "German Shephards").

Obviously, these are gross generalizations, and there is plenty of variation (a number of my med classmates are among the sweetest people I've ever met, and as you all know, some dental students are intolerable). In general, our class gets along exceptionally well, and there is very little animosity between the dents and the meds. However, it's important to grasp the general paradigm to make sense of all the silly posturing that goes into threads like these.

I have a couple of reflections from my experiences:

- You can tell right away that a certain portion of the OMFSers carry a certain chip on their shoulder and want to distance themselves from the aforementioned golden retrievers who describe their ideal career as working 30 hours a week. I completely get it. They drive me crazy, too. They come across as soft and entitled.

But... if you quite literally cut faces in half for a living and earn massive money doing so, yet you patrol a forum weekly with 75% of your posts dedicated to telling little tooth jockey dentists and periodontists what a joke they are and making sure they know their place... you have insecurity problems beyond what is typically witnessed on a middle school playground.

To be clear, there are plenty of awesome, dignified OMFS who in every way uphold the lofty title and do both medicine and dentistry proud. There is zero overlap between those people and ostensible grown-ass men who patrol SDN looking for chances to demean others.

- Furthermore, this attitude leads to hyperbole like that medical school is just this torrent of brutality that no dental student can fathom, that we're lucky that these great minds even acknowledge our existence, etc. It's goofy.

At my school, they give us the mean and SD of the final exam scores after every period. Believe it or not, the dents pretty closely follow the symmetry of the class-wide normal distribution. Some of those with agendas (I assume they know how stats work) would expect stark bi-modality (what you'd anticipate from two unequal populations), but that's not what you see. My close friends and I are 1-2 SD above the class-wide mean in every subject, every single time. None of us are going OMFS. Plenty of meds had to reassess courses, and we didn't.

On top of all that, for first year at least, we slogged through significantly more work hours. I'd have gladly traded 4 dental classes for shadowing a PCP clinic (our respective burdens beyond the biomed curriculum).

Understandably, you may want to talk bigger-scale than a little anecdote (or even testing distributions) involving one school - Across the country, yes, there's a modest gap, if you include only US MDs versus DDS and DMD, but
1. This leaves aside that plenty of strong dentals (not even talking outliers) would've had no problem getting into MD schools
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2. Why on earth are we throwing out DO? DDS and DMD actually have higher incoming GPAs than DO nationally (it was just two years ago that they stopped overwriting retake grades for DO - before you could just keep trying organic until you got an A, and the annual GPA was still only something like a 3.4).

IOW, if you include all US medical schools, most dental students would be worth considering given a couple vocation-specific adjustments (shadowing experience, research topics, etc). So the notion that a large proportion of dental students wouldn't have even gotten a sniff at any med school in the country is silly (assuming they applied nationally and in line with their academics - everybody knows somebody who only wants to go to school in-area and has to change career trajectories).

It's miserable enough to see (some, definitely not all) meds perpetuating the myth that everyone on the planet earth who isn't a physician aspired to be but failed (hyperbole, but only slight). But the former dentists - now exalted and mighty surgeons - should know better. How can you claim to practice evidence-based anything when you offer up fact-free turd sandwiches like that?

- Yes, the step 1 is much tougher than the dental boards. It's not a point worth contending. All the other conclusions that your OMFS overlords would like you to draw from that, like implicit general intellectual superiority? You can toss those away readily. As dumb as it is to claim that the two boards are equal, it's equally dumb to claim that this establishes definitive group differences between takers. Any attempt to do so would be logically fallacious.
Across the country, meds are a bit stronger students on average, but one test difficulty doesn't prove it any more than our first year being more difficult than our med classmates' first year proves that we are better than they are.

And after you take the steps? You're never tested on that stuff again - you take CME and you take your board certification test in *your area of specialty*. This idea that all MDs (or DOs or whatever) truly maintain this endless catalogue in their head forever is fit for children and the delusional.





I'm giving it to you straight as someone who turned down med school (and the "name-y"/expensive dental schools) in order to do something that made sense from a finance and career-fit standpoint. I have no ulterior motive, and nobody is going to praise my job title. I'll just be some guy who is hopefully well-liked in his community. I get nothing out of this except for setting the record straight from the people who are blinded by ego.

The insecure crowd can respond if they like, but I'm not going to go back and forth with people who build their entire lives around their career identity.
Just know that not everyone has the same motivations as you do, and thus you're much better off discussing peoples' motivations than assuming. There are some monster test-takers with great work ethics who want to do dental specialties other than OMFS. Wild, right? And there are the golden retrievers. They bug me too, but if that's the worst person you have in your life, it really ain't so bad, is it?


Or we can just do the judgy-judgy thing. You know the one, where you, OMFS, with your fake MD, are the Richard Feynman of dentists, but still dumber than any physician in the world, including the guy with the 3 year degree from Botswana Medical Community College. Yet he trembles at the might of the Carribean MDs, who grovel at the feet of the DOs, who worship the ground that state school MDs step on, who weep in the presence of the glorious elite MD grads... but then the PCPs from the elite MDs beg forgiveness for sullying the presence of the interventional radiologists, who hide their face in shame when they encounter the neurosurgeons... and they're all massive idiots standing next to a particle physicist.

And all of the above are dumb monkeys who don't even know .0000000000000000000001% of what there is to know about this planet, much less this solar system/galaxy/universe.

Get over yourself. Just do your f---ing job. The locker room anatomy comparisons are embarrassing. If insecure meds try to force you into them (and they're wildly insecure if they ask another professional if their boards are "hard" - none of them are dumb enough to miss the disrespect there), ask them how much they know about your job and scope of practice. Even the meds at my school know almost nothing on that topic, so it can actually be an incredibly worthwhile conversation. This works well with PCPs, for example, because it just so happens that grafting and implants are more interesting than 99% of what they do, yet they have no idea what those procedures are.

But for goodness sake, don't play the stupid game.

Peace out.
 
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^ Interesting viewpoints, mixed in with random OMFS bashing for whatever reason.

I do agree it's worth noting that DO schools are easier to gain acceptance to, compared to dental schools.
 
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My med students friends who will go into family medicine believe that their lifestyle will be as good if not better than mine as a general dentist, because they get to sit around and write prescriptions all day while I have to hunch over patients after patients. And their pay is better. Any truth to that?
There may be some truth to that. I would say patients generally trust their physicians more. They generally don’t go around from one physician to another to “shop” for services and question everything like they do for dentists. Also, patients generally are happier to go to a physician office instead of dentist office. (“I hate going to the dentist” “I’m so scared to be here”)
 
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It always cracks me up to see who is saying what and why in these types of threads.

Just by way of introduction, I grew up with two MD parents who went to a top 5 medical school and matched residencies at the best hospitals in the country. You can guess that my test scores aren't too bad (the ability did not mysteriously diminish from one generation to the next) and frankly had no concept of this notion where people weren't "sure if they could get into medical school". For job satisfaction reasons (read: I want to be my own boss in a way that is tough for MDs nowadays), I "rebelled" and went to dental school. At this particular school, we do our entire pre-clinical portion with the meds, take the same tests, etc. That's not why I chose the school, but it does inform my opinion on this subject.

Dentistry tends to attract a lot of smart but self-deprecating types who use humor aimed at themselves to deflect and who are willing to *temporarily* work incredibly hard on the condition that it earns them an incredible work/life balance (I call these types "golden retrievers"), whereas medicine is a bit more likely to attract people who take themselves very, very seriously and have already dreamt up posthumous honors for themselves as someone who gave their entire life away to *saving the human race* (I call these types "German Shephards").

Obviously, these are gross generalizations, and there is plenty of variation (a number of my med classmates are among the sweetest people I've ever met, and as you all know, some dental students are intolerable). In general, our class gets along exceptionally well, and there is very little animosity between the dents and the meds. However, it's important to grasp the general paradigm to make sense of all the silly posturing that goes into threads like these.

I have a couple of reflections from my experiences:

- You can tell right away that a certain portion of the OMFSers carry a certain chip on their shoulder and want to distance themselves from the aforementioned golden retrievers who describe their ideal career as working 30 hours a week. I completely get it. They drive me crazy, too. They come across as soft and entitled.

But... if you quite literally cut faces in half for a living and earn massive money doing so, yet you patrol a forum weekly with 75% of your posts dedicated to telling little tooth jockey dentists and periodontists what a joke they are and making sure they know their place... you have insecurity problems beyond what is typically witnessed on a middle school playground.

To be clear, there are plenty of awesome, dignified OMFS who in every way uphold the lofty title and do both medicine and dentistry proud. There is zero overlap between those people and ostensible grown-ass men who patrol SDN looking for chances to demean others.

- Furthermore, this attitude leads to hyperbole like that medical school is just this torrent of brutality that no dental student can fathom, that we're lucky that these great minds even acknowledge our existence, etc. It's goofy.

At my school, they give us the mean and SD of the final exam scores after every period. Believe it or not, the dents pretty closely follow the symmetry of the class-wide normal distribution. Some of those with agendas (I assume they know how stats work) would expect stark bi-modality (what you'd anticipate from two unequal populations), but that's not what you see. My close friends and I are 1-2 SD above the class-wide mean in every subject, every single time. None of us are going OMFS. Plenty of meds had to reassess courses, and we didn't.

On top of all that, for first year at least, we slogged through significantly more work hours. I'd have gladly traded 4 dental classes for shadowing a PCP clinic (our respective burdens beyond the biomed curriculum).

Understandably, you may want to talk bigger-scale than a little anecdote (or even testing distributions) involving one school - Across the country, yes, there's a modest gap, if you include only US MDs versus DDS and DMD, but
1. This leaves aside that plenty of strong dentals (not even talking outliers) would've had no problem getting into MD schools
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2. Why on earth are we throwing out DO? DDS and DMD actually have higher incoming GPAs than DO nationally (it was just two years ago that they stopped overwriting retake grades for DO - before you could just keep trying organic until you got an A, and the annual GPA was still only something like a 3.4).

IOW, if you include all US medical schools, most dental students would be worth considering given a couple vocation-specific adjustments (shadowing experience, research topics, etc). So the notion that a large proportion of dental students wouldn't have even gotten a sniff at any med school in the country is silly (assuming they applied nationally and in line with their academics - everybody knows somebody who only wants to go to school in-area and has to change career trajectories).

It's miserable enough to see (some, definitely not all) meds perpetuating the myth that everyone on the planet earth who isn't a physician aspired to be but failed (hyperbole, but only slight). But the former dentists - now exalted and mighty surgeons - should know better. How can you claim to practice evidence-based anything when you offer up fact-free turd sandwiches like that?

- Yes, the step 1 is much tougher than the dental boards. It's not a point worth contending. All the other conclusions that your OMFS overlords would like you to draw from that, like implicit general intellectual superiority? You can toss those away readily. As dumb as it is to claim that the two boards are equal, it's equally dumb to claim that this establishes definitive group differences between takers. Any attempt to do so would be logically fallacious.
Across the country, meds are a bit stronger students on average, but one test difficulty doesn't prove it any more than our first year being more difficult than our med classmates' first year proves that we are better than they are.

And after you take the steps? You're never tested on that stuff again - you take CME and you take your board certification test in *your area of specialty*. This idea that all MDs (or DOs or whatever) truly maintain this endless catalogue in their head forever is fit for children and the delusional.





I'm giving it to you straight as someone who turned down med school (and the "name-y"/expensive dental schools) in order to do something that made sense from a finance and career-fit standpoint. I have no ulterior motive, and nobody is going to praise my job title. I'll just be some guy who is hopefully well-liked in his community. I get nothing out of this except for setting the record straight from the people who are blinded by ego.

The insecure crowd can respond if they like, but I'm not going to go back and forth with people who build their entire lives around their career identity.
Just know that not everyone has the same motivations as you do, and thus you're much better off discussing peoples' motivations than assuming. There are some monster test-takers with great work ethics who want to do dental specialties other than OMFS. Wild, right? And there are the golden retrievers. They bug me too, but if that's the worst person you have in your life, it really ain't so bad, is it?


Or we can just do the judgy-judgy thing. You know the one, where you, OMFS, with your fake MD, are the Richard Feynman of dentists, but still dumber than any physician in the world, including the guy with the 3 year degree from Botswana Medical Community College. Yet he trembles at the might of the Carribean MDs, who grovel at the feet of the DOs, who worship the ground that state school MDs step on, who weep in the presence of the glorious elite MD grads... but then the PCPs from the elite MDs beg forgiveness for sullying the presence of the interventional radiologists, who hide their face in shame when they encounter the neurosurgeons... and they're all massive idiots standing next to a particle physicist.

And all of the above are dumb monkeys who don't even know .0000000000000000000001% of what there is to know about this planet, much less this solar system/galaxy/universe.

Get over yourself. Just do your f---ing job. The locker room anatomy comparisons are embarrassing. If insecure meds try to force you into them (and they're wildly insecure if they ask another professional if their boards are "hard" - none of them are dumb enough to miss the disrespect there), ask them how much they know about your job and scope of practice. Even the meds at my school know almost nothing on that topic, so it can actually be an incredibly worthwhile conversation. This works well with PCPs, for example, because it just so happens that grafting and implants are more interesting than 99% of what they do, yet they have no idea what those procedures are.

But for goodness sake, don't play the stupid game.

Peace out.

Breathe in...breathe out
 
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There may be some truth to that. I would say patients generally trust their physicians more. They generally don’t go around from one physician to another to “shop” for services and question everything like they do for dentists. Also, patients generally are happier to go to a physician office instead of dentist office. (“I hate going to the dentist” “I’m so scared to be here”)

Part of this is that society is so co-pay insurance driven. Most people visit their physician expect to pay their small co-pay at start of the office visit. Patients also know that their medical insurance company typically examines the fees and adjusts them accordingly (right or wrong). Walk into a dental office and there is no such thing as a small co-pay. Depending on FFS, HMO, PPO, etc. etc. ..... the itemized fee for all the dental work can be large prompting questions and shoppers.
 
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DO student chiming in. Sorry to hear about condescending comments! I've never once thought down on Dental, DPT, or Pharm students (Maybe some chiropractors...lol jk (not really)). I have always assumed that individuals pursued their respective career and graduate education based on their innate interests and desires.

The only people I have ever met who went into dentistry did so because it was actually a family career - their parents were all dentists.

I'm sure MDs think down on us DOs sometimes too, but, they wouldn't dare say anything because well... we work by their side day-in-day-out. That would be a really fast way to get a bunch of people on your bad side.

Although, when I was a scribe in the Emergency Department, I was working with this DO and he asked his MD colleague a question (And this MD was really charismatic and out-going and funny) so he immediately pipes up his voice and goes "ALRIGHT LET ME SHARE SOME ALLOPATHIC INSIGHT HERE", but it was all in good fun and we knew he was just joking, and not really teaching him anything he didn't know, just confirming some stuff.

Edit: Also, in Histology class, we literally had 3 slides, THREE, about the teeth histology, growth, and origin. Our professor straight up said "There's a whole 4 year program dedicated just to oral hygiene so... we're not gonna focus too much on this" - We do get other oral education in our classes in terms of infections and other pathologies, but it's always pretty superficial, and most of the time if we're learning about oral things, it actually is a much more systemic-problem that we're learning about that just happens to have some mouth-related symptoms.
 
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How much can they bill for sitting around and writing prescriptions all day? What's the overhead for all those midlevels that you're hiring, costs for labwork, etc...? I'm not sure how many patients they have, but assume a visit is 120 dollars, 50 patients a day, that's only 6k/day minus all the overhead and operating costs. Maybe if they order a bunch of tests/labwork/billable procedures, but still seems to have a lot of overhead.

If they were a pain management clinic that indirectly owned the regular/compound pharmacy next door, then they could make a lot more money.

It’s more than writing prescriptions all day.

It’s diagnostic work, ordering consults and studies, mental health counseling, end of life care, pediatric well exams, women’s health/gynecology, family planning, minor trauma, office procedures, etc etc etc.

Sure, I write a lot of prescriptions, but it’s hardly all I do.

I average 32 hours per week, I’m employed so I have no stress from running a private business. I go to work at 8:30, home for lunch at 11:30-1:30, head back and finish the day and am generally home by 5. I am just starting out and not yet fully established and made $240k + benefits last year.

Average salary nationwide in my field is pushing to around 250-300k these days. I anticipate making around $310-320 with the occasional weekend of inpatient call that I do (on a purely voluntary basis).

I know there are plenty of dentists that do better than that, but in my mind they “have to practice dentistry to do it” so I’m not jealous.

I absolutely love my job, I would hate dentistry and get bored super quick (have dentists in the family, know what they do). But that doesn’t mean I don’t respect dentists and understand that there’s a whole breed out there who love it. That’s a good thing because we all need you!

One thing I do wish though, for those of you coming up through dentistry...listen up:

If you think a patient needs antibiotic prophylaxis before some dental work, please consult the guidelines first. And then if after that, you still think so, please write your own prescription. Don’t ask me to do it for you. It’s not a professional courtesy, it looks like your trying to “share liability” and I know you have the ability to write rx’s.

I’ll sooner help my patient find a new dentist than write for amoxicillin just so you can feel comfortable doing what you went through a rigorous training program to do. You’re an expert in your field, you hold a terminal degree; act like it.

And when I get a walk-in dental abscess, I’ll drain it, I’ll even write antibiotics then since I was the first one to touch that patient’s problem, but then I need your help; please don’t make my staff jump through any hoops to get the patient seen!!!

...End rant...

Medicine and Dentistry are both rigorous and important. Different strokes is all.
 
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If you think a patient needs antibiotic prophylaxis before some dental work, please consult the guidelines first. And then if after that, you still think so, please write your own prescription. Don’t ask me to do it for you. It’s not a professional courtesy, it looks like your trying to “share liability” and I know you have the ability to write rx’s.

I’ll sooner help my patient find a new dentist than write for amoxicillin just so you can feel comfortable doing what you went through a rigorous training program to do. You’re an expert in your field, you hold a terminal degree; act like it.

And when I get a walk-in dental abscess, I’ll drain it, I’ll even write antibiotics then since I was the first one to touch that patient’s problem, but then I need your help; please don’t make my staff jump through any hoops to get the patient seen!!!

...End rant...

Medicine and Dentistry are both rigorous and important. Different strokes is all.
My experience has been that most of the time it is the physician/surgeon who says "abx 4 lyf" after doing a joint replacement surgery even though the ADA guidelines state that there is really no need especially after 2 years. In those cases when the surgeon's guidelines are stricter than my own, I have them write the Rx.
 
It’s more than writing prescriptions all day.

It’s diagnostic work, ordering consults and studies, mental health counseling, end of life care, pediatric well exams, women’s health/gynecology, family planning, minor trauma, office procedures, etc etc etc.

Sure, I write a lot of prescriptions, but it’s hardly all I do.

I average 32 hours per week, I’m employed so I have no stress from running a private business. I go to work at 8:30, home for lunch at 11:30-1:30, head back and finish the day and am generally home by 5. I am just starting out and not yet fully established and made $240k + benefits last year.

Average salary nationwide in my field is pushing to around 250-300k these days. I anticipate making around $310-320 with the occasional weekend of inpatient call that I do (on a purely voluntary basis).

I know there are plenty of dentists that do better than that, but in my mind they “have to practice dentistry to do it” so I’m not jealous.

I absolutely love my job, I would hate dentistry and get bored super quick (have dentists in the family, know what they do). But that doesn’t mean I don’t respect dentists and understand that there’s a whole breed out there who love it. That’s a good thing because we all need you!

One thing I do wish though, for those of you coming up through dentistry...listen up:

If you think a patient needs antibiotic prophylaxis before some dental work, please consult the guidelines first. And then if after that, you still think so, please write your own prescription. Don’t ask me to do it for you. It’s not a professional courtesy, it looks like your trying to “share liability” and I know you have the ability to write rx’s.

I’ll sooner help my patient find a new dentist than write for amoxicillin just so you can feel comfortable doing what you went through a rigorous training program to do. You’re an expert in your field, you hold a terminal degree; act like it.

And when I get a walk-in dental abscess, I’ll drain it, I’ll even write antibiotics then since I was the first one to touch that patient’s problem, but then I need your help; please don’t make my staff jump through any hoops to get the patient seen!!!

...End rant...

Medicine and Dentistry are both rigorous and important. Different strokes is all.

I'm sure medicine is definitely more than writing prescriptions all day, I was alluding to the previous poster. I don't know anything about medicine but I know it's a lot more work to get where you are at than dentistry.

In regards to your statement about antibiotic prophylaxis, I think it's better just to have an office supply. Why should i reschedule a patient if I'm unsure about abx prophylaxis? If guidelines say so or if the patient wants it even if the guidelines not to because they've had to do it in the past, it's just easier to dispense 4 tabs amox or clinda or whatever abx they aren't allergic to. I carry amox, clinda, and for the rare ones, azithromycin for abx prophylaxis. Med consult means getting lost in the system for deferred treatment. Unless they had a chance of dying on my chair or ONJ or other things, I stick to doing dentistry and not play "medical doctor".
 
My experience has been that most of the time it is the physician/surgeon who says "abx 4 lyf" after doing a joint replacement surgery even though the ADA guidelines state that there is really no need especially after 2 years. In those cases when the surgeon's guidelines are stricter than my own, I have them write the Rx.

That may be, but in my (admittedly limited) experience it has been Dentists that are the most common offenders that I’ve run up against.

A story...

I received a letter from a dentist a few years ago demanding that I write my patient a prescription for augmentin (even included the sig he wanted in his letter) in order for this patient to have an extraction done. She had no indications for the ppx, but she did have some ortho hardware in her spine from about 15 years prior; and I think that’s what had him spooked. So I called the dental office and kindly told them she wouldn’t require ppx, and that the doc there could pull the tooth without the antibiotic.

Another letter arrived a few days later, again demanding I write a prescription so my “patient could receive needed dental care”. I mailed back a copy of the guidelines with the parts relevant to this woman highlighted and said “if doctor dentist wants this patient on antibiotics, he can prescribe, but the evidence doesn’t support it, so I won’t.

I got a 3rd letter, again threatening to cancel this woman’s procedure if I didn’t write the prescription; so I found her a new dentist and she got the work done the following week. No unnecessary antibiotics required.

That wasn’t the only time I’ve gone through this, but it was the most aggressive dentist I’ve come up against. People like that need to be shown the door.
 
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