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What do you guys think about being on the interview trail visibly pregnant? Would that make a bad impression and lessen your chances of being accepted?
kstater said:What do you guys think about being on the interview trail visibly pregnant? Would that make a bad impression and lessen your chances of being accepted?
Kimberli Cox said:The fear in these latter fields is that you will need more time off, want to leave early, essentially put in less than your fair share of the required work load. From what I've seen, the reverse is often true - the pregnant resident works even harder to try and "prove" herself.
DigableCat said:Unfortunately, I disagree. In my experience, it's been the opposite. They do in fact take more leave(paid or unpaid), do want to leave early, and call out if their child is sick.
DigableCat said:Unfortunately, I disagree. In my experience, it's been the opposite. They do in fact take more leave(paid or unpaid), do want to leave early, and call out if their child is sick.
A friend of mine in a neurosurgery program that shall remain nameless has never had a female resident in their program for fear of these reasons.
Not saying it's right...but I can see their point.
Kimberli Cox said:Sounds like we've had different experiences. The female surgical residents I know who have been pregnant have either had stay at home husbands or husbands with more adaptable careers who could stay home when the kid was sick and took no more than the allowed maternity leave. All of them however, went into the lab either during pregnancy or after so they were able to be more flexible with work hours but once out of the lab I never noticed any of them coming in late, leaving early, or taking more time off. It seemed to be the opposite...but as we all know, there are always exceptions (either those I know or those you know).
Maybe I'm missing something, but the good ole' boy network usually IS the surgical specialties.DigableCat said:Welll...you guys are surgical, and a female surgeon can be a different breed altogether. Now, you just have to convince the more male dominated specialties(read: good ole boy network) of this. And good luck with that...
DigableCat said:Welll...you guys are surgical, and a female surgeon can be a different breed altogether. Now, you just have to convince the more male dominated specialties(read: good ole boy network) of this. And good luck with that...
Kimberli Cox said:I can't imagine it would help either. However, the amount of "distraction" it will case will undoubtedly vary from specialty to specialty and program to program.
For example, women applying to more female/family friendly residencies (ie,traditionally FP and Ob-Gyn) have received more favorable responses ...
i'm not sure that OB/GYN has been traditionally "family-friendly."
Kimberli Cox said:But just let it slip one day that you feel ever so slightly nauseated and the first question out of many a faculty's mouth is, "are you pregnant?".
plm said:Kimberli Cox said:I can't imagine it would help either. However, the amount of "distraction" it will case will undoubtedly vary from specialty to specialty and program to program.
For example, women applying to more female/family friendly residencies (ie,traditionally FP and Ob-Gyn) have received more favorable responses ...
i'm not sure that OB/GYN has been traditionally "family-friendly."
but it has been traditionally female, no?
kstater said:What do you guys think about being on the interview trail visibly pregnant? Would that make a bad impression and lessen your chances of being accepted?