There's some openings at my mom's workplace but I'm not so sure I want to be working with her. Do you have any suggestions of good ways to network I'm kind of a shy person.
I know you didn't ask me, but I am trying to procrastinate studying for MPJE. LOL.
1.) Totally quit but do it nicely with ample notice (protect bridge). Life is short and you sound depressed.
Don't worry about finding a new job, because you can! See #2 and #3.
2.) After you come back from your long vacay, you are gonna put on your resume that you had a once in a lifetime opportunity to save orphans or build homes or whatever... or you will work with your mom (because IT IS easier to find a job if you have a job).
Then...
3.) NETWORK!
So, I use to be super shy too. Like super, super shy!!! But the previous post is right, you need to network!! It is a necessary survival skill. First, you need to work on social skills and then using those skills to achieve an objective. So, strawberry's short cut networking tip just for you!!!
1.) Look good = confidence. People wanna talk to people that look good. Spend a little extra on a good suit and haircut.
2.) Figure out what job you want!
3.) Figure out who is in the job that you want... talk to acquaintance, classmates, etc... look for keywords when googling - HR, operations, etc... just don't cross into illegal cyber stalking!!! LOL.
4.) Figure out where they are gonna be and MAKE THE APPROACH!! ****Try on strangers that have nothing to do with your job first.**** Just go up to him/her, introduce yourself and start talking (build rapport). Don't ask anything too dumb though and don't be creepy. Keep it brief. After a few good exchanges, say something like, "I would really like to keep in contact with you. Do you have a card?" Don't get discourage if people say no. If they say no, say something casually like, "That's a shame. I hope we cross paths again." Don't get angry or sad or emotional at all!! OK? That is key!
5.) Keep notes on the person (date encountered, name, what they said, etc.) even if they don't give you their contact info!! Try getting one of those palm sized notebooks. Write it down because if you start collecting people there will be too many people to memorize all this info in your head. People hate to be forgotten and it stands out to memorize details. Don't write in front of them.. that's creepy.
Then, find a good reason for second contact. "I remember our talk about blahblah and I just read blahblah.." This requires a lot of work and time!! Be prepare to invest!!
6.) Last step, get the door open... after a few solid exchanges, casually mention that you notice an job opening and if he/she would be able to tell you more about it/recommend you/tell you who to speak with...
And that is my shortcut networking tip for getting a job!
It works for getting dates too.. FYI hehehehehehehehe
OK. Back to studying!!