So I just found out that I won't be able to do any VA experience during residency as our program will not rotate at the VA. That's a huge bummer because I really wanted to work with that population.
I'd consider it a bummer too. VA experience is different in that it's as close to a socialized medicine experience as you're going to get (with obvious associated pluses and minuses around that fact). You can dip your toe into the water during training in a lot of systems and practice of care stuff that is likely to become more prevalent that you might find lacking in your training otherwise (integrated care, working with psych NPs, IPT for PTSD, etc.). Good VAs tend to have a lower threshold for getting involved in research as well.
That said, there is a big caveat that this assumes the program is affiliated with
good VAs. There are also a lot of bad ones, though in my limited experience, the ones affiliated with academic psych programs tend to be among the better.
I'm also a little flustered that we don't have a forensics elective or even the option to do a child psych rotation in second year to determine if we want to apply for C&A electives.
Lack of psych exposure in PGY-2 year is more common than you might think. It's a bummer, but you may have to try to get associated with CAP folks and try shadowing or doing things on your own time. As for forensics, having a forensic fellowship is a boon, as you get more exposure (and the adult psych residency is likely to have better forensic-informed training), but it's not a deal killer if you network and try to get some exposure on your own as you can.
Your educational experience won't be hampered, it will just require more time and initiative on your part. You can do it.