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How does it work if both people in the marriage are working 50-60+ hours a week? I understand a physician-nonphysician relationship seems similar on paper since at least one side is gone for that many hours... but... basically with both people working such highly demanding jobs, who raises the kids? cleans the house? cooks the food? etc. etc.
Also, if both people are spending the bulk of their hours with other people, certainly the odds of an affair go up.
Anyway, personally I seem to think that one spouse should be working part time or at least a better distributed work schedule that allows for raising kids and what not. (Unfortunately, the "kids" issue doesn't really stop at 13-14 years old or whatever, since giving kids absolute freedom during high school would be a colossal nightmare for any caring parent)
Also, if both people are spending the bulk of their hours with other people, certainly the odds of an affair go up.
Anyway, personally I seem to think that one spouse should be working part time or at least a better distributed work schedule that allows for raising kids and what not. (Unfortunately, the "kids" issue doesn't really stop at 13-14 years old or whatever, since giving kids absolute freedom during high school would be a colossal nightmare for any caring parent)