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Hi there! Thanks for reading. I'll try to be succinct.
I'm a 30-year-old second career student. (First career is bartender, undergrad in English, so, y'know, not leaving much behind here.) I'm single, no kids, no commitments save for about 40k in various debt (yuck). I have a strong interest in medicine/health science, which stems from the fact that both of my parents are physicians--mother is a pediatrician, father is the head dermatologist at a well-respected institution; father also had a 20-year career in the military, so I've seen some of the sides of military medicine as well.
I realize that 30 (earliest I could start med school would be 32, since I'm missing a few prereqs still & haven't taken the MCAT) is hardly too young for medical school; however, I'm trying to be pragmatic about myself and my career/personal goals, so I'd appreciate your advice.
I want kids. I care more about having a child/children than I do about a spouse, or even a specific career; I've made my peace with the potential of being a single mom (and FWIW my parents are on board) but the idea of being a single mom while in med school/residency sounds... not great. I realize that there's always the chance to find someone in school, etc, but I'm trying not to bank on having support from a someone who doesn't yet exist, so all my calculations are predicated on being single. I have a lot of other interests aside from medicine, and the idea of having no control over a large chunk of my life while piling a mountain of debt on my shoulders for the next 10-12 years doesn't thrill me. Also, despite supposedly being in one of the sweet-spot professions, I've been watching my 63-year-old father pull 60 and 70-hour workweeks due to large amount of administrative crap and staffing issues, and I'm not looking for a career that would eat every other part of my life whole.
So, obviously, while I'm still considering medical school, I'm strongly attracted to the idea of PA or NP. I realize academic interests may vary wildly from actual affection for clinical practice, but with that said, I'm currently interested in emergency medicine, infectious disease, and public health. (Part of the appeal of NP/PA is the flexibility inherent in them, as compared to MD.)
Do you have any thoughts for me? I'm leaning towards NP simply because the route to get there seems more conducive to minimal debt, and I intend to live in the Pacific Northwest (family/friends in Portland & Seattle), but I'm not sold on anything yet. I know that PA has a training route more similar to medical school, but as of yet I have no HCE to speak of, but I also know that NPs seem to have more autonomy/a better lobbying body on their behalf. I enjoy hard work, I love learning, and I think medicine & the human body is fascinating, but I also want to respect the fact that medicine is a career that asks a lot, and I'm not sure that, for me personally, it's worth it. For those of you further down this road: was it worth it?
The reason I'm posing this question here is to hopefully get feedback from a) those of you who were in my shoes, went NP/PA/some other route, and ultimately found yourself dissatisfied & heading for that MD anyway, b) those of you who work with PAs/NPs and what you think of their opportunities/career satisfaction; c) some magical person who has advice for me that I can't conceive of at this end. (EMEDPA, I've seen your posts on multiple boards, and I would be grateful for your input especially.)
Thanks for reading my lengthy post. Cheers.
I'm a 30-year-old second career student. (First career is bartender, undergrad in English, so, y'know, not leaving much behind here.) I'm single, no kids, no commitments save for about 40k in various debt (yuck). I have a strong interest in medicine/health science, which stems from the fact that both of my parents are physicians--mother is a pediatrician, father is the head dermatologist at a well-respected institution; father also had a 20-year career in the military, so I've seen some of the sides of military medicine as well.
I realize that 30 (earliest I could start med school would be 32, since I'm missing a few prereqs still & haven't taken the MCAT) is hardly too young for medical school; however, I'm trying to be pragmatic about myself and my career/personal goals, so I'd appreciate your advice.
I want kids. I care more about having a child/children than I do about a spouse, or even a specific career; I've made my peace with the potential of being a single mom (and FWIW my parents are on board) but the idea of being a single mom while in med school/residency sounds... not great. I realize that there's always the chance to find someone in school, etc, but I'm trying not to bank on having support from a someone who doesn't yet exist, so all my calculations are predicated on being single. I have a lot of other interests aside from medicine, and the idea of having no control over a large chunk of my life while piling a mountain of debt on my shoulders for the next 10-12 years doesn't thrill me. Also, despite supposedly being in one of the sweet-spot professions, I've been watching my 63-year-old father pull 60 and 70-hour workweeks due to large amount of administrative crap and staffing issues, and I'm not looking for a career that would eat every other part of my life whole.
So, obviously, while I'm still considering medical school, I'm strongly attracted to the idea of PA or NP. I realize academic interests may vary wildly from actual affection for clinical practice, but with that said, I'm currently interested in emergency medicine, infectious disease, and public health. (Part of the appeal of NP/PA is the flexibility inherent in them, as compared to MD.)
Do you have any thoughts for me? I'm leaning towards NP simply because the route to get there seems more conducive to minimal debt, and I intend to live in the Pacific Northwest (family/friends in Portland & Seattle), but I'm not sold on anything yet. I know that PA has a training route more similar to medical school, but as of yet I have no HCE to speak of, but I also know that NPs seem to have more autonomy/a better lobbying body on their behalf. I enjoy hard work, I love learning, and I think medicine & the human body is fascinating, but I also want to respect the fact that medicine is a career that asks a lot, and I'm not sure that, for me personally, it's worth it. For those of you further down this road: was it worth it?
The reason I'm posing this question here is to hopefully get feedback from a) those of you who were in my shoes, went NP/PA/some other route, and ultimately found yourself dissatisfied & heading for that MD anyway, b) those of you who work with PAs/NPs and what you think of their opportunities/career satisfaction; c) some magical person who has advice for me that I can't conceive of at this end. (EMEDPA, I've seen your posts on multiple boards, and I would be grateful for your input especially.)
Thanks for reading my lengthy post. Cheers.