SDN Members don't see this ad. (About Ads) Okay, so I have been accepted to my top choices which are: 1) Florida Tech 2) PGSP-Stanford 3) Rutgers - call 3/6/12 from faculty (Dr. Nancy BF) 4) Adler (being considered for the diversity assistantship = 50% off tuition) I do not know where I really want to go. All programs have pros and cons. I wrote off Adler because of the REALLY low APA match rates (45%), seemed really bureaucratic, and HUGE cohort BUT then they go and offer me an interview for this assistantship (I am one of the top ten choices. Then after a 30 min interview they will choose the final 2) making my decision even harder. I also have a 3yr relationship to a man that I would like to marry one day that I am trying not to think about in making my decision but it is hard not to. Any advice on these programs or anyone who has been in the same situation of having to do the Grad School vs. Boyfriend choice?