I don't know man, but I sincerely appreciate you not freaking out and pulling the typical SDN response.
The biggest thing is stripping away what is not important in acheiving your goals. If strong GPA and a high DAT is important to you, then take away extranous distractions. Unfortunately, if you're not used to being a top student it will take even more work (and even less on your plate) until you get used to doing really well. That sucks, but unfortunately that is how it is. I know I did not have as much fun as my friends in college, because I was studying and working really hard. I still managed to have fun, but there certainly were tradeoffs.
My advice, and please recognize that it is simply my advice given over the internet to you with very few details of your actual situation is to do this:
1) scale back your course load to managable amounts. This is a personal decision, and you need to be honest with yourself and not worry about what other people are doing.
2) focus on one or two things, and do them really well. If you are doing school, then just do school. If you are doing the DAT, then just study for the DAT (e.g. summertime)
3) Break things down into little chunks. Do not worry about if other people have heavier courseloads or are doing things differently. Focus on yourself.
3b) recognize that things usually take longer than planned, so give yourself less things to do, and more time to do them, and focus on doing your best, generally speaking.
4) perhaps watch and observe students you look up to, and see if you can adopt some of their habits. Recognize that
many of their habits will not be compatible with you, as we're all different, so do not spend too much time on #4. Picking up 1 or 2 really good habits from someone else I would consider to be a huge win.
5) still take some time off to have fun, pursue hobbies, etc. For example, I like to exercise, so I make a minimum 30 minutes a day to do so. It helps keep my brain fresh. Sometimes I have to miss, such as the week before the DAT, but I still make time to do the things I enjoy. Helps keep me happy, going, and living life.
So I hope that helps. PM me if you have any other questions or stuff. Good luck with your applications.
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Arizonia State University - Biomedical Engineering Class of 2007
GPA= 3.90+
Applying to UOP, USC, UCSF, NYU, Stony Brook, UMDNJ, Columbia, PENN, and Nova
my backup plan, if I do not get into dental school