Any black female pre-meds out there? part 01

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tchantel21 said:
Hi everyone. I've basically been a lurker for a while so upon seeing this thread I decided that now would be a good time to make myself known. I am a 23 y.o single jamaican-cuban mother, and until december, a full time student (graduated from UConn). I am still jumping through the flaming hoops of the med school application process. I got into WVSOM, an osteopathic school, and interviewed at Michigan State and Morehouse (both allopathic). Any tri-staters around here?


hey couldnt help but notice the interviewed at Mich State. I probably saw you, cause we have a tendency to look out for and count just how many black faces we see. Did you hear back yet?

@everyone else, glad to see familiar and not so familiar names on here, this thread has been growing, I cant even find my numerous posts from last yr! Y'all keep ur head up, I'm not on here usually, 1st yr turned out to be more work than I expected 🙄 but I check in every now and then, and check messages. Y'all keep keeping on.
If anyone will be at SNMA's conf pls let me know
 
TRU_SUCCESS said:
Partners of the Heart (60)

In 1944, two men at Johns Hopkins University Hospital pioneered a groundbreaking procedure that would save thousands of so-called blue babies' lives. One of them, Alfred Blalock, was a prominent white surgeon. The other, Vivien Thomas, was an African American with a high school education. Partners of the Heart tells the inspiring, little-known story of their collaboration. Blalock recognized Thomas' talents when the younger man came inquiring after a hospital janitor's job. But though Blalock came to treat Thomas with tremendous respect in the lab, the two men were rarely treated as equals in the outside world. Over time, Thomas would go on to train two generations of the country's premier heart surgeons. In 1976, more than three decades after the first blue baby's life had been saved, Johns Hopkins finally formally recognized Thomas' extraordinary achievements, awarding him an honorary doctorate.

Most of you may already be familiar with this story, but I'm new to the whole premed scene and this was the first time I had ever heard of Vivien Thomas. To say I was impressed by the talent and skill of this man, who only posessed a highschool diploma, is an under statement. I was moved to tears by the sheer magnitude of his contribution to medicine and when he was finally able to receive recognition for the part he played.

Please if you have a chance check this story out.

Hi there,
There is a portrait of Vivien Thomas in the Blalock building next to the elevators. This is a great story. Thomas' grandson was the first Cardiothoracic fellow to graduate from Hopkins' CT fellowship.

There is a made-for-TV movie on HBO called "Something the Lord Made" that profiles Thomas' life and work. Debakey learned from Thomas' works also. The movie is great. Alan Rickman stars as Blalock and he actually makes Blalock look good.

Good story!
njbmd 🙂
 
hello everyone!! just wanted to say hello and give the thread a boost. everyone must be at school, work, or studying for the mcat. have a great day guys, I'll check back in later tonite when I get to work! 👍
 
Hey everyone. Glad to see many new people here. It's nice to see we've got more applicants and students every year. Things are going fine here, and let's keep them that way 😎

See you later.
 
Blake said:
Hey everyone. Glad to see many new people here. It's nice to see we've got more applicants and students every year. Things are going fine here, and let's keep them that way 😎

See you later.


Hi Blake 😍 😍

How are you doing? How is medical school?
 
docjolly said:
Hi Blake 😍 😍

How are you doing? How is medical school?
Hey docjolly,

Sorry for the ''few'' words. Lol, I'm definitely not much of a talker... I'm doing pretty good, and med school is just fine. Nothing really new in life, well except that I'm getting used to med school and that so far, it's easier than I ever thought it would be. We've finished neurology last week, and we're starting psychiatry right now. I can't believe how easy neuro is. 😱 Well, I can just hope that things don't get harder :laugh:

How are the interviews so far, docjolly ?
 
Blake said:
Hey docjolly,

Sorry for the ''few'' words. Lol, I'm definitely not much of a talker... I'm doing pretty good, and med school is just fine. Nothing really new in life, well except that I'm getting used to med school and that so far, it's easier than I ever thought it would be. We've finished neurology last week, and we're starting psychiatry right now. I can't believe how easy neuro is. 😱 Well, I can just hope that things don't get harder :laugh:

How are the interviews so far, docjolly ?

well, it's great to know that your classes are going well 🙂 As for me, I am being continously blessed by God throughout this interview process. I had a recent interview at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine in the Bronx. Without going into any details, I'd like to say that it's a wonderful school 😍 I have one final interview coming up next Wednesday. I'm still waiting on at least four other schools to get back to me, regarding my initial AMCAS application. I'm not worried, though. God has already made the decision as to where I will go. Now it's just time for me to be patient and wait 👍 (easier said, than done, of course :laugh: )

Irrespective of any particular school, inteviewing has been a wonderful learning opportunity for me..I've met many good-natured, interesting people, and have learned a lot about myself throughout the process. I have no complaints 🙂
 
g*morning all..hope all is well with everyone...beautiful day in boston..happy weekend!!! The NSBE conference is in Boston this weekend soo i will be out chillin' with folks this weekend...it'll be good to hang and chill with my spelman sisters as well as other folks as well..hope everyone has a great weekend. stay sane, safe, healthy, and blessed, and of course, don't forget to have fun!!

~L
 
Hi there,
What a week it has been! I was back in touch with a very dear friend that I found after almost 10 years. When we were last in touch, he was a Critical Care Fellow at Baltimore Shock-Trauma and I was thinking about changing careers from TV news production to science. (I met him when I was doing a production piece on Trauma for ABC News at the time). Today he is a minimally invasive surgeon in upstate New York and I am a PGY-3 surgical resident. He is truly one of the most genuine folks that I ever met and an outstanding example of a positive African-American man. It was just great to hear his voice and know that God never keeps us totally apart from those that we have held close. It was as if we could take up where we left off 15 years ago. He was a supportive big brother and I was the hard-charging little sister who wanted to test the world. It is going to be great to have his support as I finish residency and head into fellowship. This event just set the tone for a great week. I hope all has gone well with everyone here. 🙂

njbmd 😀
 
bullhorn said:
And is prettygirl1908 one of my sorors? Must be. Skee Wee...and goodluck to all with this long and arduous process!


hello soror 🙂 glad to see another future doctor/soror!
 
Hi njbmd!

I'm coming to grounds next weekend for BAW. I know you're not an alumnus, of the University, but there will be a lot of activities going on from Thurs to Sunday. Maybe I'll see you around! It's been a while since I've been on SDN, bit I'm I have 3 jobs, and finishing my MPH all at once..not to mention studying for the April MCAT. Anyway, this is my suedo-studybreak...although I'll probably be the only on there taking breaks from activities to study orgo!! Anyway, just wanted to say hi, and as always love your encouraging words! ttyl--UVAbranch

njbmd said:
Hi there,
What a week it has been! I was back in touch with a very dear friend that I found after almost 10 years. When we were last in touch, he was a Critical Care Fellow at Baltimore Shock-Trauma and I was thinking about changing careers from TV news production to science. (I met him when I was doing a production piece on Trauma for ABC News at the time). Today he is a minimally invasive surgeon in upstate New York and I am a PGY-3 surgical resident. He is truly one of the most genuine folks that I ever met and an outstanding example of a positive African-American man. It was just great to hear his voice and know that God never keeps us totally apart from those that we have held close. It was as if we could take up where we left off 15 years ago. He was a supportive big brother and I was the hard-charging little sister who wanted to test the world. It is going to be great to have his support as I finish residency and head into fellowship. This event just set the tone for a great week. I hope all has gone well with everyone here. 🙂

njbmd 😀
 
The Remix said:
Hey all the sistas,
. Not only do you hold all of this down but you put up with our crap. Us black males would be nowhere without your strength and guidance.

Remix, I disagree with your generalization...how would you just say such a thing? Maybe some of you would be nowhere without the black women putting up with your crap and maybe helping you out. 😱 You should know that it DOESN'T APPLY to all BLACK MEN. Next time, individualize such a statement please.
 
The Remix said:
Hey all the sistas,
. Not only do you hold all of this down but you put up with our crap. Us black males would be nowhere without your strength and guidance.

Remix, I disagree with your generalization...how would you just say such a thing? Maybe some of you would be nowhere without the black women putting up with your crap and maybe helping you out. 😱 You should know that it DOESN'T APPLY to all BLACK MEN. Next time, individualize such a statement please.

For all the black women out there, nothing against you. Thumbs up to all of you who are getting things done and realizing your dreams. I must congratulate you all and give you credit for that. I know it takes much to beat the odds but you all are doing that. Good luck and the best 😉
 
Hi All,

Just bumping the thread for the morning 🙂 Have a great day!!!!!!!!!!!1
 
hey all.

cold, dreary, rainy day in the Bean, but I had a great Easter and even got up early enough to make the sunrise service yesterday and it was sunny and everything outside.. God is Good ladies, all the time.. luv ya'll much!!

~L~
 
HI guys 🙂
My name is dorise and I am 20 years old. I live minneapolis, I will be starting a comm.college in may. I was wondering since I have made a choice to go to become a doctor. Always wanted to go for it but I didn't think I could. I have 2 year old son and I am a single parent. I will be taking math classes, chemisty and biology so I can transfer to MSU for the BS in biology. I was wondering if biology was a good major for medical school? I love biology in high school and I got good grades. I was wondering if any one took that major or what major did you take in undergrad school. oh and give me some advice on undergrad school..study tips, do and don't...etc
Thanks guys

Happy Hoildays 🙂





LRmed2003 said:
hey all.

cold, dreary, rainy day in the Bean, but I had a great Easter and even got up early enough to make the sunrise service yesterday and it was sunny and everything outside.. God is Good ladies, all the time.. luv ya'll much!!

~L~
 
hello dorise04, welcome!! I started out at a community college in 2002 and I will be transferring to U of M in the fall. Sounds like a great idea to me if you want to go to the comm college first, but make sure you check out the transfer equivalency guide so you can take only what transfers. Now you may not have to take the math and english placement exam for comm college seeing that you not too long ago got out of high school. But if you do, this will tell where you are able to start your math and english sequence. I had to start with elementary algebra first and for the english I placed high so I just started off with the first english class needed for the english requirement. like I said make sure you match up the comm college courses with MSU to see what will transfer. hope this info helps!! take care.
P.S. I would say try to get some of the education requirements done at comm college. for example: english, math, history, foreign language, arts and behavioral science depending on what falls under their requirements for graduation.

Hello everyone just finished my history class for the day and I am sleepy, but jsut wanted to stop in to say hello. I know a lot people may still be on spring/easter break but wanted to say hello anyway!!
 
Dorise04 said:
HI guys 🙂
My name is dorise and I am 20 years old. I live minneapolis, I will be starting a comm.college in may. I was wondering since I have made a choice to go to become a doctor. Always wanted to go for it but I didn't think I could. I have 2 year old son and I am a single parent. I will be taking math classes, chemisty and biology so I can transfer to MSU for the BS in biology. I was wondering if biology was a good major for medical school? I love biology in high school and I got good grades. I was wondering if any one took that major or what major did you take in undergrad school. oh and give me some advice on undergrad school..study tips, do and don't...etc
Thanks guys

Happy Hoildays 🙂

Hi Dorise,
You can major in anything as long as you take the core pre-med courses (General Biology with lab, General Chemistry with lab, Organic Chemistry with lab and General Physics with lab). If you are interested in Biology, by all means major in it and do well. There are no "bad" majors for medical school, just students who do poorly and end up not getting accepted.

Keys to doing well in Biology (or any thing for that matter): Always come to class prepared. This means keeping up with your reading and studying on a daily basis. Pre-read the material that will be lectured and link it with the previous lecture. When you receive your syllabus, make a schedule for reading and reviewing each day. Review the previous weeks material on the weekend so that you don't have to attempt to cram for the exam. Treat each day as if the exam was going to be the next day. Don't get behind and don't listen to your classmates who brag about never having to study. Study daily and study smart. In the end, you will have the good grades to show for it.

The best source for questions about lecture is the professor. Utilize office hours on a regular basis. Go to the office even if you think you totally understand the material for a check. Many professors give key clues to the most important material during office hours. Don't waste the professor's time so have some good questions or material to be clarified before you go.

General Chemistry and General Physics require that you be able to use your college-level math to work through problems. If your math is shaky, get it up to speed before you take these courses. You need to be able to manipulate the math in order to understand concepts presented in these classes and on the MCAT(Medical College Admissions Test).

Take a course in critical reading and analysis. This will help you later with the Verbal Reasoning portion of the MCAT. Good readers are generally good writers so take some writing courses that can help you read and evaluate college level materials. Turn off the TV set. Television watching should only be done as pure recreation and not on a daily basis unless it's the CNN while you are getting ready for school.

Learn to be a good standardized test taker. You can't use the excuse that you are not good at standardized tests because as a physician, you will be taking tests for the rest of your life. Good standardized test-taking skills can be learned so look for these types of courses at your school. They can usually be found in the counseling department along with note-taking courses and critical reading courses. These are usually free so take advantage of them.

Do not listen to other students in any of your classes. If you run your own race, you can be very successful. Believe in yourself and the gifts that God has given you and you can succeed. Spend time with positive people who can encourage you in your quest for medical school. "Pre-med syndrome" is an affliction of insecure post-high school students who believe that they can bolster their chances and egos at the expense of yours. Don't buy into their head games. The knowledge out there is to be learned and it doesn't care about your race or anything else. Learn to love learning for the sake of mastery. Master your coursework and find what works for you. If it isn't working, try something else but take immediate action as soon as things are not clicking for you. Often a small adjustment can make all of the difference in the world so study daily and review often.

When MCAT time rolls around, plan on taking that test just once and doing well. If you have prepared well, you will do well. Take plenty of practice tests and make sure you have done at least a couple of full-length tests under test-taking conditions so that you know what to expect. Get some of the retired exams so that you know how the questions are written and practice with these.

I was an Analytical Chemistry major with a minor in math. I loved both Chemistry and math and did well in both because I loved them. If I were starting college today and knew for sure that I wanted to go to medical school, I would major in American Studies with a Spanish minor and take my pre-med courses. American Studies is far more applicable to what I do today in medicine then my Mass Spectrometry and Higher Algebra coursework. 😉

Good luck and welcome to the group!
njbmd 🙂
 
Dorise04 said:
HI guys 🙂
My name is dorise and I am 20 years old. I live minneapolis, I will be starting a comm.college in may. I was wondering since I have made a choice to go to become a doctor. Always wanted to go for it but I didn't think I could. I have 2 year old son and I am a single parent. I will be taking math classes, chemisty and biology so I can transfer to MSU for the BS in biology. I was wondering if biology was a good major for medical school? I love biology in high school and I got good grades. I was wondering if any one took that major or what major did you take in undergrad school. oh and give me some advice on undergrad school..study tips, do and don't...etc
Thanks guys

Happy Hoildays 🙂

Hi Dorise, welcome aboard :clap: :clap: I hope that all is going well for you right now. In terms of choosing an undergraduate major, my best advice is to choose an area of study that you LIKE. When I was a premedical undergrad, I loved biology. However, I tried to force myself to major in it because I thought it was a "good major" for medical school. I did myself a great disservice because I thought that it was the "right" major to have for medical school. What I later learned is that, although I enjoyed biology, I had other strong interests. I personally truly loved History, and wanted to spend my undergraduate college career studying it. I graduated from Columbia with a history degree, and I don't regret it 😍 😍

I guess my entire point here is that you should never choose a major based on whether or not it would be "good" for medical school. People, representing majors that range from biology to art, have made it into medical school. Use your undergraduate career as an opportunity to develop all of your interests. If, in the end, you choose biology, then that's wonderful 🙂 However, don't exclude any other area of study b/c you think that it will not look well for medical school 👍

I'll try to touch upon your other topics later. However, I just came home, and am soooooooo exhausted 😴 Maybe I'll take a nap?? 🙂
 
Thanks docjolly.
I think I will do biology, I truly like it. What I HATE is MATH 👎 And it looks like i will have alot of it. I can't wait till I begin this may. I need 16 semester credits to transfer to the MSU. So I will taking math classes, biologly I & 2 and intro to chem. I am kind of down b/c I can't go to the Unvir. right now but I must have patience.
And when you get sometime tell me are you in medical school? 🙂
thanks






docjolly said:
Hi Dorise, welcome aboard :clap: :clap: I hope that all is going well for you right now. In terms of choosing an undergraduate major, my best advice is to choose an area of study that you LIKE. When I was a premedical undergrad, I loved biology. However, I tried to force myself to major in it because I thought it was a "good major" for medical school. I did myself a great disservice because I thought that it was the "right" major to have for medical school. What I later learned is that, although I enjoyed biology, I had other strong interests. I personally truly loved History, and wanted to spend my undergraduate college career studying it. I graduated from Columbia with a history degree, and I don't regret it 😍 😍

I guess my entire point here is that you should never choose a major based on whether or not it would be "good" for medical school. People, representing majors that range from biology to art, have made it into medical school. Use your undergraduate career as an opportunity to develop all of your interests. If, in the end, you choose biology, then that's wonderful 🙂 However, don't exclude any other area of study b/c you think that it will not look well for medical school 👍

I'll try to touch upon your other topics later. However, I just came home, and am soooooooo exhausted 😴 Maybe I'll take a nap?? 🙂
 
Congrats on going to the U of M. I wanted to my undergrad there but it is so expensize. I am going to North Hennepin...is that a good college. I wouldn't know. What is your major going to be at the U? Thanks




sistahnik said:
hello dorise04, welcome!! I started out at a community college in 2002 and I will be transferring to U of M in the fall. Sounds like a great idea to me if you want to go to the comm college first, but make sure you check out the transfer equivalency guide so you can take only what transfers. Now you may not have to take the math and english placement exam for comm college seeing that you not too long ago got out of high school. But if you do, this will tell where you are able to start your math and english sequence. I had to start with elementary algebra first and for the english I placed high so I just started off with the first english class needed for the english requirement. like I said make sure you match up the comm college courses with MSU to see what will transfer. hope this info helps!! take care.
P.S. I would say try to get some of the education requirements done at comm college. for example: english, math, history, foreign language, arts and behavioral science depending on what falls under their requirements for graduation.

Hello everyone just finished my history class for the day and I am sleepy, but jsut wanted to stop in to say hello. I know a lot people may still be on spring/easter break but wanted to say hello anyway!!
 
njbmd said:
Hi Dorise,
You can major in anything as long as you take the core pre-med courses (General Biology with lab, General Chemistry with lab, Organic Chemistry with lab and General Physics with lab). If you are interested in Biology, by all means major in it and do well. There are no "bad" majors for medical school, just students who do poorly and end up not getting accepted.

Keys to doing well in Biology (or any thing for that matter): Always come to class prepared. This means keeping up with your reading and studying on a daily basis. Pre-read the material that will be lectured and link it with the previous lecture. When you receive your syllabus, make a schedule for reading and reviewing each day. Review the previous weeks material on the weekend so that you don't have to attempt to cram for the exam. Treat each day as if the exam was going to be the next day. Don't get behind and don't listen to your classmates who brag about never having to study. Study daily and study smart. In the end, you will have the good grades to show for it.

The best source for questions about lecture is the professor. Utilize office hours on a regular basis. Go to the office even if you think you totally understand the material for a check. Many professors give key clues to the most important material during office hours. Don't waste the professor's time so have some good questions or material to be clarified before you go.

General Chemistry and General Physics require that you be able to use your college-level math to work through problems. If your math is shaky, get it up to speed before you take these courses. You need to be able to manipulate the math in order to understand concepts presented in these classes and on the MCAT(Medical College Admissions Test).

Take a course in critical reading and analysis. This will help you later with the Verbal Reasoning portion of the MCAT. Good readers are generally good writers so take some writing courses that can help you read and evaluate college level materials. Turn off the TV set. Television watching should only be done as pure recreation and not on a daily basis unless it's the CNN while you are getting ready for school.

Learn to be a good standardized test taker. You can't use the excuse that you are not good at standardized tests because as a physician, you will be taking tests for the rest of your life. Good standardized test-taking skills can be learned so look for these types of courses at your school. They can usually be found in the counseling department along with note-taking courses and critical reading courses. These are usually free so take advantage of them.

Do not listen to other students in any of your classes. If you run your own race, you can be very successful. Believe in yourself and the gifts that God has given you and you can succeed. Spend time with positive people who can encourage you in your quest for medical school. "Pre-med syndrome" is an affliction of insecure post-high school students who believe that they can bolster their chances and egos at the expense of yours. Don't buy into their head games. The knowledge out there is to be learned and it doesn't care about your race or anything else. Learn to love learning for the sake of mastery. Master your coursework and find what works for you. If it isn't working, try something else but take immediate action as soon as things are not clicking for you. Often a small adjustment can make all of the difference in the world so study daily and review often.

When MCAT time rolls around, plan on taking that test just once and doing well. If you have prepared well, you will do well. Take plenty of practice tests and make sure you have done at least a couple of full-length tests under test-taking conditions so that you know what to expect. Get some of the retired exams so that you know how the questions are written and practice with these.

I was an Analytical Chemistry major with a minor in math. I loved both Chemistry and math and did well in both because I loved them. If I were starting college today and knew for sure that I wanted to go to medical school, I would major in American Studies with a Spanish minor and take my pre-med courses. American Studies is far more applicable to what I do today in medicine then my Mass Spectrometry and Higher Algebra coursework. 😉

Good luck and welcome to the group!
njbmd 🙂


thanks for the feedback
Good luck to you
 
Dorise04 said:
Thanks docjolly.
I think I will do biology, I truly like it. What I HATE is MATH 👎 And it looks like i will have alot of it. I can't wait till I begin this may. I need 16 semester credits to transfer to the MSU. So I will taking math classes, biologly I & 2 and intro to chem. I am kind of down b/c I can't go to the Unvir. right now but I must have patience.
And when you get sometime tell me are you in medical school? 🙂
thanks

Hi Dorise,

I can feel your pain on math. Although, I always loved math. However, when I entered college and had to take calculus, math became one of my worst subjects 🙁 Oh well...I wish you all the best with everything. I'm certain that, if you keep up your positive attitude, you're going to do well in all of your classes :clap:

As for me, I'm not currently in medical school. I've been on several interviews already, and have one final interview coming up. However, through God's love and grace, I will be in medical school very soon 😀 Praise Him!!!

If you have any other questions, you can always post here or send one of the ladies/gents on this thread a PM. Everyone is truly very kind and knowledgeable 😀
 
njbmd said:
Hi there,
There is a portrait of Vivien Thomas in the Blalock building next to the elevators. This is a great story. Thomas' grandson was the first Cardiothoracic fellow to graduate from Hopkins' CT fellowship.

There is a made-for-TV movie on HBO called "Something the Lord Made" that profiles Thomas' life and work. Debakey learned from Thomas' works also. The movie is great. Alan Rickman stars as Blalock and he actually makes Blalock look good.

Good story!
njbmd 🙂


Hi, thanks for letting me know, I will have someone tape it for me as I do not have cable

My sister just moved to Maryland, so I do believe a trip to John Hopkins will be coming up soon =).
 
TRU_SUCCESS said:
Hi, thanks for letting me know, I will have someone tape it for me as I do not have cable

My sister just moved to Maryland, so I do believe a trip to John Hopkins will be coming up soon =).

The movie is also available to rent at Blockbuster. And if you plan to visit Hopkins, I'd be happy to meet you for coffee and show you all the great places to eat on campus (since this is pretty much the ONLY thing I know FOR SURE about the campus! :laugh: )
 
There is a made-for-TV movie on HBO called "Something the Lord Made" that profiles Thomas' life and work. Debakey learned from Thomas' works also. The movie is great. Alan Rickman stars as Blalock and he actually makes Blalock look good.

You can buy this movie at Wal-Mart for about $19. 😀
 
Good afternoon sisters!!

I was doing my daily lunch break reading/reflection and came across a scripture that made me think of all of those who are still waiting to hear.

For God has, "called us with a holy calling, not according to our works, but according to His own purpose and grace which was given to us in Christ Jesus before time began" (2 Timothy 1:9).

I am a living testimony...based on my judgement of my own works (GPA, MCAT, ECs, etc.) I sent my AMCAS to 18 schools , but God poured out so many blessings I had to start declining interviews and withdrawing applications before then end of October!!

Have faith Ladies...it's already done!

Pinkice
U. Pitt c/o 2009
 
Hello everyone! hope the weather is good everywhere else like it is here in Detroit. 😀
Hey Doris04, thanks for the congrats! I have never heard of North Hennepin, where is it located? you will do just fine in class and it is nothing wrong with startin out at a comm college, first because you have the opportunity to become familiar with school again and it is less expensive. I chose U of M because they accept all of my credits from OCC whereas Wayne State wouldn't have, so it was a easy choice.
 
docjolly said:
Hi All,

Just bumping the thread for the morning 🙂 Have a great day!!!!!!!!!!!1


Hey docjolly,
did you get the PM that I sent last week?
 
Hey everyone. It's been a long time since I posted, but I have been so busy. Anyway a lot has happened. This guy from my school came to talk to the undergrad pre-meds and was so discouraging. He was saying things like no 3.8 no med-school and that if you go to a med-school that is not in the top 25 then kiss your career goodbye. However, the comment that bothered me was that you can't go to med-school at a top 25 school with Bs unless you are "one of those underepresented minorities. That comment made me so mad likke minorities don't work as hard as everyone else. (P.S. he was an underepresented minority himself). I myself am not feebleminded but I feel horrible for others who went. I pray to God that once I make it I will always remember what it was like to struggle in undergrad and not discourage people's dreams. 😀
 
Hello ladies,

Long time, no see. I hope that everyone is doing well. School is going ok - and it seems that things have picked up just for this final few months of school. Anywho, congrats to everyone that has been accepted thus far, and who will be accepted very soon.

docjolly, I'm so sorry I haven't been in touch - things have been crazy hectic - please please please call me!

Take care,
H&T
 
MeMyselfI said:
Hey docjolly,
did you get the PM that I sent last week?

Hi MeMyselfI,

I did receive your PM. I promise, promise, promise to reply tomorrow. I've been out of town for a couple of days and just flew back into the City. Now, I'm just exhausted, and I have to get ready for sleep, so that I can wake up at 6am 😴 😴


To everyone else, hello!!
 
starseeker said:
Hey everyone. It's been a long time since I posted, but I have been so busy. Anyway a lot has happened. This guy from my school came to talk to the undergrad pre-meds and was so discouraging. He was saying things like no 3.8 no med-school and that if you go to a med-school that is not in the top 25 then kiss your career goodbye. However, the comment that bothered me was that you can't go to med-school at a top 25 school with Bs unless you are "one of those underepresented minorities. That comment made me so mad likke minorities don't work as hard as everyone else. (P.S. he was an underepresented minority himself). I myself am not feebleminded but I feel horrible for others who went. I pray to God that once I make it I will always remember what it was like to struggle in undergrad and not discourage people's dreams. 😀

Hi there,
Obviously he has never met me. I didn't attend a top 25 medical school and I work very hard. I am in an excellent residency program in a competitive specialty and I am just not that unusual for all of the URMs that I have encountered. Don't let the person rock your boat. Glean any good info from him and file the rest under bitterness. Run your own race and make your own success. If I had a nickel for all of the people who said that I would never make it, I would be driving a BMW instead of a Toyota right now. If you can dream it, you can do it. God has a plan for us all. Work hard and let this person's negativity roll off.

njbmd 🙂
 
starseeker said:
Hey everyone. It's been a long time since I posted, but I have been so busy. Anyway a lot has happened. This guy from my school came to talk to the undergrad pre-meds and was so discouraging. He was saying things like no 3.8 no med-school and that if you go to a med-school that is not in the top 25 then kiss your career goodbye. However, the comment that bothered me was that you can't go to med-school at a top 25 school with Bs unless you are "one of those underepresented minorities. That comment made me so mad likke minorities don't work as hard as everyone else. (P.S. he was an underepresented minority himself). I myself am not feebleminded but I feel horrible for others who went. I pray to God that once I make it I will always remember what it was like to struggle in undergrad and not discourage people's dreams. 😀


This is very similar to a professor that told me...that Black students were at the bottom of the ladder when it came to academics and intelligence (and he was Black himself). Sometimes, urms in high positions give other urms (up and coming) a hard time b/c they had a hard time, and they believe that if they never got any breaks, then others shoudn't either. Sometimes, it's a matter of reverse psychology...putting you down to the point you will want it more just to prove a point. In other words, like njbmd said...it's just bitterness.

There are plenty of folks that had B's and C's and got into to med school and going to a "top 25 school" doesn't mean that you are going to be a good doctor. I know of plenty of idiots that went to to top 25 schools.
 
hello everyone!! just wanted to say hello and good night! 😴
OOOOhhh my goodness I had a really hard night last night. I was up until 3am going over trig notes for a test we had today, and on top of that, I had a second class today also. I am so ready to go to sleep. 😴 😴 now the real trivia is if I want to go to work tonight??? 😕 I hope you guys are enjoying the weather for me b/c I have been in a bldg alllll day and now I'm going home to snooze. 😴 ( I love pictures don't you). 😀
have a great evening everyone!!
 
smokeycat said:
This is very similar to a professor that told me...that Black students were at the bottom of the ladder when it came to academics and intelligence (and he was Black himself). Sometimes, urms in high positions give other urms (up and coming) a hard time b/c they had a hard time, and they believe that if they never got any breaks, then others shoudn't either. Sometimes, it's a matter of reverse psychology...putting you down to the point you will want it more just to prove a point. In other words, like njbmd said...it's just bitterness.

There are plenty of folks that had B's and C's and got into to med school and going to a "top 25 school" doesn't mean that you are going to be a good doctor. I know of plenty of idiots that went to to top 25 schools.


Smokeycat, I went to an HBCU in undergrad and unfortunately, I fell victim to the psychological attacks from urms in high positions at my old school. I fell into the trap of believing a lot of the garbage that they fed me about being a black woman and not being able to make it into medical school, being a science major and having to work a job, my parents weren't nothing because I had to work, etc., etc. I was literally afraid of them!!! Two chemistry professors in particular whose classes I subsequently failed because I believed what they said about my lack of ability. I would sit in class traumatized by their denigration. One of my gen chem classes, I just stopped going to it and after a while I withdrew, took the course at a local CC and transferred the grade back in! All just to not have to deal with this clown of a teacher.

I have been out of undergrad 10years this coming May and it took a mighty long time to get that crap out of my system!!! And unfortunately, I was one amongst a sea of many students who ended up in that position under the tutelege of these two professors. I must say that there were a couple of students who were actually able to side-step the garbage of those two professors and gain admission to medical and dental schools but one had to take her chemistry classes elsewhere, thereby avoiding those two professors entirely.

Talk about letting the devil steal your joy!!! 🙁
 
njbmd said:
Hi there,
Obviously he has never met me. I didn't attend a top 25 medical school and I work very hard. I am in an excellent residency program in a competitive specialty and I am just not that unusual for all of the URMs that I have encountered. Don't let the person rock your boat. Glean any good info from him and file the rest under bitterness. Run your own race and make your own success. If I had a nickel for all of the people who said that I would never make it, I would be driving a BMW instead of a Toyota right now. If you can dream it, you can do it. God has a plan for us all. Work hard and let this person's negativity roll off.

njbmd 🙂


Hi njbmd! I have been following your posts both here on SDN and on the OPM board as well and I must say that you are very encouraging. I like your style and your confidence shows through all of your posts. I wish you God's blessings as you move toward your residency completion!

Peace & blessings,
Blessed1
 
blessed1 said:
Smokeycat, I went to an HBCU in undergrad and unfortunately, I fell victim to the psychological attacks from urms in high positions at my old school. I fell into the trap of believing a lot of the garbage that they fed me about being a black woman and not being able to make it into medical school, being a science major and having to work a job, my parents weren't nothing because I had to work, etc., etc. I was literally afraid of them!!! Two chemistry professors in particular whose classes I subsequently failed because I believed what they said about my lack of ability. I would sit in class traumatized by their denigration. One of my gen chem classes, I just stopped going to it and after a while I withdrew, took the course at a local CC and transferred the grade back in! All just to not have to deal with this clown of a teacher.

I have been out of undergrad 10years this coming May and it took a mighty long time to get that crap out of my system!!! And unfortunately, I was one amongst a sea of many students who ended up in that position under the tutelege of these two professors. I must say that there were a couple of students who were actually able to side-step the garbage of those two professors and gain admission to medical and dental schools but one had to take her chemistry classes elsewhere, thereby avoiding those two professors entirely.

Talk about letting the devil steal your joy!!! 🙁

I truly understand your pain and frustration, but I'm very glad that you were able to get that stuff out of your system. Horrible situations like this will make you stronger and it's beter to deal with difficult situations when you are younger than when you are older. Unfortunately, all grad and professional schools are full of people like this and so is the work place. Many people don't face these situations until they start working and it can be devastating.

The devil did not steal your joy because you overcame that problem and you are now successful and are pursuing your dreams. You are unstanding yourself, your strengths and your weaknesses. If you had beLIEved those people, then the devil would have stolen your joy.

BTW, where did you go to school?
 
Hi Folks,
My residency program rewarded me with a busy night on call in the ICU after two days of two people trying to cover a service that usually has four people covering. My colleague and I got everyone seen, discharged home and all of out cases done in spite of the constant calls. One case that usually lasts about 2 hours took 9 hours backing up my colleague. I just shifted and picked up the slack.

I ended the day digging out a well-entrenched hemodialysis catheter from a patient's neck. I had planned on doing this procedure early in the morning before I started my OR cases but a couple of emergencies and I had to put it off so there I stood at 3AM with an enthusiastic respiratory therapist who begged to assist me. She was just enthralled at my description of how I use local anesthesia to numb the skin. Her positive interest in learning and her wonderful soft voice calmed the patient so that the procedure went very well. She helped me keep my sterile field by opening things so that I could place them on the drapes.

After I knew that the skin was anesthetized, I made a 1-cm incision over the cuff of the catheter and proceed to free it. Once the cuff is free, I can remove the catheter taking care to place pressure on where it comes out of the vein and not where it comes out of the skin. The woman, who had only 40,000 platelets (these help with clotting) did not bleed and had no hematoma. I placed a couple of subcuticular sutures in my little incision and placed a sterile dressing over her wound. It took 35 minutes with most of those spent gathering my equipment because the floor didn't place any of the supplies as requested. I just did some "shopping" in the ICU. 😀

This procedure was the very last thing that stood between me and some much-needed down time with my feet up. I had operated the entire day and then spent hours running around getting all of the service things done alone such as calling attending physicians and seeing consults. I was exhausted but dealing with such a positive college really helped. She also helped the poor nurse who was stretched so thin that he couldn't assist me. It just proves that God looks out for us even when we don't expect anything.

Now I am on vacation and headed for Washington, DC for some much needed cultural infusion. I can't wait to run along the Potomac River and hang out with my some of my classmates from Howard.

Everyone have a great day! 😴
njbmd
 
Hi NJ,

I pray that you have an absolutely wonderful, peaceful, and relaxing vacation 😍 😍 You've really been working hard, and it's good to know that now you have an opportunity to relax both your mind and spirit. Have a great time in D.C. 🙂


To everyone else, hello! I hope that you are doing well today 🙂 Although it's rainy here in the city, I am so happy that God has blessed me with yet another day to live and to serve His purpose. As of last week, I was officially done with interviews :clap: :clap: Praise God!!!. Now, it's time for me to seriously fast and pray, asking the Lord to reveal His ultimate purpose for my life, both inside and outside of medical school..

As soon as I get any further information (from Downstate, AECOM, and AMC), I'll be sure to let you ladies know 🙂

Continue to be blessed!!!
 
docjolly......


i just realized that WHEN you call me to tell me about those schools,
as a woman in my seasoned years....i may have a scary reaction. 😱

girl, everytime i see your name i see goose pimples!!!!!! make sure
i'm sitting down and i want a PERSONAL PHONE CALL so we can
Praise God in UNISON !!!!! 😍
 
LoveDoc said:
docjolly......


i just realized that WHEN you call me to tell me about those schools,
as a woman in my seasoned years....i may have a scary reaction. 😱

girl, everytime i see your name i see goose pimples!!!!!! make sure
i'm sitting down and i want a PERSONAL PHONE CALL so we can
Praise God in UNISON !!!!! 😍

🙂

Hey lovedoc, I'll definitely be sure to give you a call 🙂
 
Hello everyone how's everything going? just wanted to say hello and encourage you guys to always: "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not to your own undertanding, acknowledge Him in all your ways and He shall direct your paths." Keep up all the good work guys and be encouraged!!

To njbmd, have a great vacation, you deserve it! 🙂
To docjolly, hang in there and keep the faith. 😍
 
sistahnik said:
Hello everyone how's everything going? just wanted to say hello and encourage you guys to always: "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not to your own undertanding, acknowledge Him in all your ways and He shall direct your paths." Keep up all the good work guys and be encouraged!!

To njbmd, have a great vacation, you deserve it! 🙂
To docjolly, hang in there and keep the faith. 😍

Hi sistahnik, thank you for your encouragement 😀

How was work today? How are you classes going? 🙂
 
Hey docjolly! you are more than welcome. 😀 Actually when I sent the post, I was at school. my classes are coming along just fine and we are getting ready to wind up this winter semester. :clap: (can't you tell that I'm excited!!) It's Tuesday morning and I just got off of work, so I am really sleepy right now. So I will say hello and good night to you all. Have a great day and I'll talk to you guys later.
 
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