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Elysium said:For what it's worth, I'm not really sure the prestige is what some people think it is. A lot of people just see doctors as their employees who do their bidding. They see something on TV (Nexium, viagra, celias, whatever) and they want you to give it to them. They are consumers of medicine and not patients, in many cases. They shop around until they find a doctor that will refill their hydrocodone (and they will find one, eventually), they demand to get what they want or threaten lawsuits, and basically see health care as a means to an end. Gone are the days of the friendly, wise GP that everyone in town looked up to. And why should people respect docs? A lot of docs are friggin' dinguses that aren't especially intelligent, just tenacious. I know several medical students and doctors that are not intellectually curious, not particuarly well spoken or well read, and just generally bitter medical drones. My SO is a doctor (intern) and a lot of days I wish he wasn't (and I'm in PA school). He has no prestige, obviously. He's going to get his ass worked over intern year and then he's going to spend the next 6 years in training, spending countless hours away from me and our dog so that he can treat a bunch of yokels who don't really give much of a sht either way. We cured your spesis - go ahead and use that IV line we started to shoot heroin! It's all good.
Neither one of us particularly love medicine, but it is a steady job, with good pay. We like it enough to tolerate it, but if I wasn't in so much debt I would change professions in a second. So would he. The whole thing just seems like a sham and totally unworth all the sacrifices you have to make to gratify your ego.
Hey Elysium! Thanks for your very insightful post. It does bring that chilling reality to life, and confirms my fears. But if not medicine, what profession would you have chosen? Also, what area you specialize in seems to make a lot difference in overall job satisfaction. The thought of leaving, pretty steady 6 figure income(also in health field) just become MD/MD, and NOT get what I want in the end is daunting
Best of Luck to you and your SO.